It's been said, the worst blow job I  ever had was damned good. Just wondering , if same is true for DATY.
I'll be honest, I'm just dumb ole country boy trying to make it. Been with the same old gal off the farm for a long time. She thinks oral is perverted and the only positions are either missionary or cowgirl.
Just wondering if you really  need to know what you're doing......or if anything feels good, like a BJ.

I'm curious was she open to DATY, BBBJ's, various sexual positions before you were married?

Nah, I was young and in love and thought I could train her. She's wonderful lady.....just dull in bedroom.

Poor you. I guess you really have got it bad in life because your wife's attitudes towards sex. ha.

Yep I know how you feel.  I have one of those too.

I have the same one too!!

Sounds like you have it made. You could save lots of money if you stopped hobbying LOL.

......whose sex drive is really low. Her sex drive is extremely high, and she loves DATY, which he won't perform on her. She's happy to have me DATY all day and then more than happy to fuck me silly.

I am also in the camp of a wife who doesn't like DATY. Very frustrating because it is my favorite thing to do. Thankfully, there are women who enjoy this enthusiastically and I've found most of them here! Lucky me--except at home.

If you need a week off for a vacation I would be happy to offer my services.  I would do my best to satisfy her needs and I'm good with the payment!

I like a man who enjoys exploring first and needs no road map to find his way. Once he's warmed me up it's time for a little direction from mine. One may call it dirty conversation but for me it's a little help along the way. I'll even do a little show and tell and part my lips while watching. Any man can get a woman hot and quivering if he asks for directions.

Kisses Haley

I'm being serious, I can't imagine a bad blow job. I did have a toothy one time that kind of concerned me as it was going on. Just putting your cock in a warm, wet mouth really feels good. And I was wondering if just having your clit licked felt good or if wasn't worth while unless the guy really knows what he's doing. Obviously, in  my situation I'm very inexperienced....but don't mind trying. If anything it may make the session last a little longer...LOL. I'm coachable...if  you'll tell me what feels good.

When a guy cannot perform DATY very well it's bad VERY, VERY BAD!  The little man in a boat is very sensitive to pressure, chin whiskers, TEETH, dry lips...hell even the taste buds on a tongue can be too much from certain angles. Most of all, the clitoris has to be "coaxed" to take direct application.  It's best to start off on the sides and work your way to the middle rather than attempting to knock the little man out the boat with a direct hit.

Bad DATY is like having someone rub wet sandpaper between my legs with bits of glass in it. Or the other bad DATY is the "barely there flutter".  I can't tell if there is a tongue involved or not.  I know someone is down there but can't feel a thing because they are fluttering just above my clit. Feels like small puffs of warm air...is there a window open on a hot summer day somewhere?

Pamper my pussy please!

Alexandria Fox

I'm so tired of providers telling how good I am at DATY, when I know I don't know what the hell I'm doing. Just as I suspected, if you don't know what you're doing.....you ought to skip that part.