I had a stunning start that ended with a thud with someone -- she offered a hundred if I saw her again and assured it would be good.

Even the 100 off wasnt good enough...I guess it depends on what went south.  Performance or just off-timing from a scheduled date.

If its performance -- i would be really weary to return no matter how hot she is

The free offer is phenomenal -- wish i was that guy lol

Only speaking for myself, I would. I understand things happen. I consider it a privilege that a Provider would see me and I always show the utmost respect for them. Now, if I scheduled two or three times and all were cancelled then I would get the hint. It is nothing personal, for some reason maybe we didn't click or something. In my opinion, us guys are lucky that these beautiful women meet us in the first place. Thank you Ladies!

The cold hard truth, there isn't much of a disincentive for ladies to NCNS. You can't write a review for a NCNS per TER rules. So, what one is left with is pages of great reviews ... for the appointments the lady shows up for. If they do it enough, there may be some outcry on the board. But unless she's blowing off more appointments than keeping, nothing will ever come of it for the most part.

Now, a discount, a nice gesture and I'm sure most guys would take you up on it, but most ladies won't even offer. A lot of the habitual NCNS'ers, figure why give a discount to some guy for a no show when there are 5 other guys who are willing to pay full price to take his place. Those ladies simply don't value any one individual client enough to bother with trying to make it up to them. It's money out of their pocket. It's cold, it's cynical, but it's the way it is.

Kudos to you for valuing your clients enough to offer.

HS

I know of ladies who would offer an incentive if a late-notice cancellation were in order.  I'm one of them.  It very rarely happens, and the one time it did to me, there was a big hoopla all over TER about it.  However, if a last minute conflict were to arise, I know a few ladies who would rise to the occasion and offer some sort of compensation as far as a bit of extra time or a slight discount.

Other than one or two exceptions, if I get NCNS'ed or a last minute cancellation, I never hear from the lady again.

Ladies who truly value their clients are worth hanging on to. But I believe it is the exception rather than the rule.

Things happen, if you are professional about it an make a offer to make it up to the client, that is all you need to do.  It shows that you value the clients time and acknowledge that you made the mistake.  I would accept that in any "business" relationship.

we all deserve a second chance.

Definitely, none of us mere mortals are perfect even though we pretend to be and get all stressed over trivial BS.

Let me make suggestion for the perfect ones; OFFER NOTHING because they won’t be satisfied even if you give it for free for a life time. You know who I am talking about!

... lady reaches out to apologize and makes a good faith effort to make it up to me.  That DOES NOT mean simply a $50 or $100 off the next appointment - that doesn't even come close to compensating me for my lost time and effort.  I give a second chance if the lady makes a GENUINE attempt at contrition and makes it worth my while - that would be a two hour for the price of one offer, or something similar.  The entire amount of the original NCNS donation should be comped in the offer if the lady is truly sorry and wants to maintain the relationship.  That would be the only way I'd agree to see the offending Provider again.

Genesis she flaked out on me.  called set something the next day
we have aoff the charts time and as i leave she gives me a kiss and
gives me back half the donation...i was floored and I saw her a lot after that.

Good memories

Well if the lady behind the alias is who I think it might be, then I was the guy that was offered a free session.

She cancelled on me twice in a row last minute. I had seen her several times previously though and felt like both of these cases were legit.

I however did not take a freebie. I suggested half off of 2 sessions, more reason to see her more often. She readily agreed and we have since had both of those sessions.

NCNS or late cancel from someone I don't know...that's it they are done in my book. Beyond that you have to take each individual event into consideration.

My 2 cents worth

Its business and shady business at that. Id only go back if she submitted a letter of apology and fucks for free??? Really fellow fellas??? Really? You would do the same with comcast or a plumber? And you better fix my pipes for half price! Lol ridiculous. Shit I LOVE this site. Shit happens, then you get over it.

If it seemed like a legitimate reason, and the notice given was appropriate for the reason, then yes.

We all have outside lives and things happen. Unfortunately I've had to cancel myself more than once, due to work or personal emergencies, and always called as soon as possible. I would expect the same courtesy in return.

A few of times ladies have reached out to let me know they had to cancel, and were apologetic and courteous on the phone. In those instance of course I gave second chances. NCNS, however, is different. On one occasion I received an extremely apologetic message, explaining there was a family emergency plus her cell phone had died. She got a second chance. The others, however, did not.

As far as an incentive goes, well, sure -- but if the session went well, and depending upon the level of inconvenience the cancellation caused, I would likely tip about half the incentive and save the rest to help fund a future visit.

From your description of how you handled yourself when you had to cancel scheduled sessions you demonstrated respect and courtesy. I wish I knew who was hiding behind the alias -- completely unnecessarily, in my opinion.

I did and it was worth the wait; lady was true her word.  Somtimes life happens, deal with it.