without getting into the whole issue of whether or not rubbing the penis against the outer labias is just as risky as BB or not, many massage providers do a body rub where the privates are separated by several inches thus avoiding the problem.

hey hey

was looking to see if anyone could help me out with this defined service.

wouldn't that be like me rubbing myself (or him rubbing himself) on each other...? penis to pussy action? or am i unclear on that definition of "massage: Yes - Privates/privates"...?

if privates/privates means her pussy touches his cock (or vic versa) wouldn't that be along the lines of bareback? i only post this because i am unclear on what that means and may request a change if it means what i think.

any thoughts?

As there's many creeps out there that would of course ruin it for everyone else.
I would think that's exactly what it means.

means rubbing the penis and vagina against each other with out penetration. It's very erotic and risky. I'd suggest wearing a condom (male of female) if there is such contact.

exactly as i figured

thanks so much

I think it refers to what is also known as "camel slide" - risky, but more than a few scientific oriented sites/articles suggest that the risk is more akin to bbbj/daty than to FS.