I think the point here is more about the ring as a symbol. Of course I am an "old guy" and truth be told am no longer married (tried it 2x), but for all the years men have seeing other women whether it be providers, mistresses or one night flings, rings have been removed and the primary reason is that the ring does symbolize the marriage. I don't think it is delusional to remove it before having sex with someone who is not the spouse. I agree with you that most providers don't care whether the ring is on or off, but don't forget that many of us were raised under a moral code that was far more strict than it is today and some men (and women) still react to that conditioning. It is hard to shake off, although many in the hobby both men and women are able to do it. Some (not me) would say that an older man like me thinking about being with a hot young woman is delusional (I know that is what my ex says....lol), yet this fantasy is atainable here. I don't judge what others may think about the ring and frankly some may not even know why they take it off, but Drumsticks and Wingman were on to something when they wrote about the reasoning. IMHO.