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How do I upload pic - by Samantha_A, 5/16/2013 9:25:19 PM (78 reads)

The right way is to learn to do a search on this board... - by BigPapasan, 5/16/2013 10:20:29 PM (62 reads)
Also see EasyTimes reply to Cataleya below on Ad posting guidelines (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 6:40:59 AM (26 reads)
try this link - by LauraSeigal, 5/17/2013 3:09:54 PM (32 reads)

I want to chat then meet - by loaded80, 5/16/2013 7:49:41 PM (149 reads)

Yea, it's called the TER PM system. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 8:41:59 PM (114 reads)
Welcome to NYC. Yes, you can use the TER PM system. - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 5:56:18 AM (66 reads)
If you are verified, perhaps you could go to a - by harbor_view, 5/17/2013 10:09:57 AM (41 reads)
While you may find one that will meet for drinks, - by swimtrekr, 5/17/2013 10:17:49 AM (58 reads)

Kind of figured we would not hear from this cat again lol. E. - by London Rayne, 5/20/2013 11:15:27 AM (16 reads)

Starting rates for newbies in Nj & PA

- by MsArlottePhoenix, 5/16/2013 11:00:08 AM (204 reads)

Re: Starting rates for newbies in Nj & PA - by Duplicitouslust, 5/16/2013 11:58:41 AM (124 reads)
Here's my take. You can also ask on the local boards. - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 1:45:33 PM (67 reads)
this is the perfect question to ask a fellow provider who is familiar with your area (eom) - by adrianamonet, 5/16/2013 2:11:26 PM (47 reads)
Charge what is comfortable to you, or ask another provider. Do not ask clients what you sould charge - by ChinaRose, 5/16/2013 2:47:45 PM (69 reads)

Re: Charge what is comfortable to you... - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 8:01:37 PM (69 reads)

So true - by ChinaRose, 5/16/2013 8:17:18 PM (49 reads)

FYI ... - by DerrBl, 5/16/2013 3:51:53 PM (67 reads)
starting rate - by macdaddy1944, 5/16/2013 4:21:05 PM (65 reads)
I Usually See Between 300-400 for Philly - by Mr.Tennis, 5/16/2013 7:40:41 PM (48 reads)
In my area... - by harbor_view, 5/17/2013 10:15:42 AM (37 reads)
IMHO - by Cayden Vaughn, 5/17/2013 1:15:34 PM (36 reads)

It's my first time; how long do you you usually last for the first time?

- by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 10:54:33 AM (353 reads)

Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by mrfisher, 5/16/2013 11:56:58 AM (187 reads)

Re: Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 12:42:05 PM (163 reads)

Shit.... - by SecretMe11, 5/16/2013 4:37:13 PM (154 reads)

Re: Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 12:48:58 PM (131 reads)
Like Mr. Fisher said foreplay: kissing, sucking boobs, Daty, etc. make it last! LOL! (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 1:47:44 PM (109 reads)

I didn't cum til like my 3rd provider date - by Businesses, 5/16/2013 2:34:00 PM (198 reads)

Re: I didn't cum til like my 3rd provider date - by Tallman57, 5/16/2013 3:48:26 PM (146 reads)

first time - by macdaddy1944, 5/16/2013 5:04:43 PM (157 reads)
Only once did I come very quickly. - by swimtrekr, 5/17/2013 10:22:28 AM (107 reads)
Lots of variables including your age, physical condition, . . . - by keystonekid, 5/17/2013 1:23:59 PM (86 reads)

Re: Lots of variables including your age, physical condition, . . . - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 3:59:59 PM (74 reads)

It happens - by scottwilloc, 5/20/2013 10:03:07 AM (49 reads)

ugh im so new at this!

- by THEECataleya, 5/16/2013 10:18:40 AM (151 reads)

Hi Cataleya, and welcome! - by EasyTimes, 5/16/2013 11:01:43 AM (79 reads)

Handling an envelope error... - by gracehadley, 5/16/2013 8:44:39 AM (371 reads)

By all means, contact him, but I have a feeling you may not hear back.... - by mrfisher, 5/16/2013 9:15:07 AM (139 reads)
First, see BadCollegeGirl's thread about half page down - by EasyTimes, 5/16/2013 9:31:02 AM (121 reads)
Alrighty, Miss Grace - by tarendelon, 5/16/2013 9:33:04 AM (100 reads)
On the day of (usually when I am giving general area) I always make SURE - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 10:20:11 AM (134 reads)
Always have dialogue - by Duplicitouslust, 5/16/2013 10:34:45 AM (76 reads)
Of course you should talk about it - by clarence37, 5/16/2013 2:47:39 PM (48 reads)
I Hate . . . - by Nolklylu, 5/16/2013 3:34:53 PM (83 reads)
Yeah, sure, I'd like 2 hours at the 1 hour rate!!! - by harbor_view, 5/18/2013 6:20:34 PM (25 reads)

Wondering what is extra for a PSE? - by cooleryj, 5/15/2013 7:17:43 PM (455 reads)

Is that a real question? - by louisebellelulu, 5/15/2013 11:16:00 PM (283 reads)
in your dreams dude! - by SerenaVincente, 5/16/2013 12:55:55 AM (253 reads)

Re: in your dreams dude! - by JoeMc, 5/16/2013 2:29:18 AM (198 reads)

?? - by jjj1, 5/16/2013 2:27:09 AM (184 reads)
RE: Wondering what is extra for a PSE? - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 5:23:23 AM (204 reads)

...Adding to that.... - by nycad, 5/16/2013 6:01:34 AM (142 reads)

True PSE - by Serafima, 5/16/2013 6:07:10 AM (194 reads)

No, though you are not alone in thinking that. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 7:37:58 AM (163 reads)

bring a fkin camera crew for a PSE lol - by KR1000, 5/17/2013 5:55:07 AM (63 reads)

Not getting replys all of the sudden....

- by Traveler0660, 5/15/2013 6:17:11 PM (168 reads)

Did you follow the procedure/instructions website? Does they website/advert - by HeathersLuv4u, 5/15/2013 9:30:53 PM (97 reads)

Re: Did you follow the procedure/instructions website? Does they website/advert - by Traveler0660, 5/16/2013 4:04:21 AM (72 reads)

Re: Did you follow the procedure/instructions website? Does they website/advert - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 4:27:17 AM (66 reads)
You have NO reviews/whitelist. The pm was useless and time wasting. Do the math. - by HeathersLuv4u, 5/16/2013 2:26:42 PM (46 reads)
Re: Did you follow the procedure/instructions website? Does they website/advert - by Traveler0660, 5/17/2013 10:15:54 PM (12 reads)

Also, please read the thread on "etiquette" below. that may help.(eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 4:22:59 AM (53 reads)
my 2 cents - by tarendelon, 5/16/2013 5:14:28 AM (56 reads)
It's possible the people you are messaging do not have VIP. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 7:41:43 AM (49 reads)

Old Reviews

- by samanthasexxxy, 5/15/2013 3:16:31 PM (126 reads)

Report A Problem - by Carrie Hillcrest, 5/15/2013 5:51:27 PM (44 reads)
Contact TER admin. E-mail them... - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 5:57:00 PM (36 reads)
I think you need to contact them using the email address that your old account was linked to... - by natashalynne, 5/16/2013 6:40:10 AM (23 reads)

Correctamundo eom - by perfectstorm, 5/16/2013 5:00:30 PM (18 reads)

please help

- by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/15/2013 12:27:20 PM (219 reads)

Give it some time. It takes a little while the first time you sign up & pay. - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 3:21:20 PM (80 reads)

Re: Give it some time. It takes a little while the first time you sign up & pay. - by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/15/2013 3:24:42 PM (67 reads)

You're welcome. (eom) - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 3:51:10 PM (30 reads)

I would suggest checking your email - by harbor_view, 5/15/2013 3:37:13 PM (36 reads)

Re: I would suggest checking your email - by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/16/2013 5:10:30 AM (28 reads)

Exactly as xyz said, it takes a little time. - by EasyTimes, 5/15/2013 3:39:42 PM (40 reads)
Log out and log back in. It should work. EOM - by erikabondnyc, 5/15/2013 3:58:12 PM (39 reads)
Try clearing your cookies and cache first. (eom) - by HobbyCity, 5/16/2013 1:29:54 AM (25 reads)

Reviews

- by Krystal Ready, 5/15/2013 1:12:35 PM (161 reads)

We are following the TER review guidelines. Eom - by DerrBl, 5/15/2013 2:51:16 PM (55 reads)
Krystal, check out the review guidelines... - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 3:27:33 PM (85 reads)

Re: Krystal, check out the review guidelines... - by Krystal Ready, 5/15/2013 4:29:01 PM (67 reads)

Yeah, but don't get me started. I vowed the other day not to get into the guidelines again. LoL(eom - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 6:00:09 PM (35 reads)

Ratings are based on 2 things. - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:18:57 AM (49 reads)

Re: Ratings are based on 2 things. - by KR1000, 5/17/2013 6:09:27 AM (26 reads)

Which is what I and most guys here recommend. Read the review. Not just numbers. eom - by xyz23, 5/18/2013 8:06:46 PM (16 reads)

Wow you guys... - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 12:35:58 PM (360 reads)

Dear Tobi, glad to read your post. We are all here to help one another. - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 12:43:19 PM (79 reads)
It's hard to believe someone as genuine as you, is really a hooker bwahahhaa. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 1:43:37 PM (102 reads)

Hahahaha I love you. -e- - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 4:19:52 PM (41 reads)
What We Do Doesn't Define Us - by Mr.Tennis, 5/15/2013 6:10:46 PM (48 reads)

Good to hear... - by harbor_view, 5/15/2013 3:38:37 PM (52 reads)

Aww, I am about to break out in song. Breaking Benjamin, no less but still..song. E. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 8:28:11 PM (34 reads)

You're most welcome, Tobi. - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:23:33 AM (42 reads)

new in this site

- by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/15/2013 10:36:28 AM (147 reads)

Hi Brianna, - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 11:26:32 AM (113 reads)

Re: Hi Brianna, - by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/15/2013 11:51:31 AM (41 reads)

Welcome Brianna, and great advice from xyz (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 12:14:26 PM (34 reads)
Hi Brianna, and welcome to the best review site around. You are in good hands. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 8:29:20 PM (29 reads)
As usual, xyz is spot on with his advice. - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:24:55 AM (23 reads)

Etiquette - by Baroquenoir, 5/15/2013 9:41:13 AM (278 reads)

Yes it is. It is one of the main reasons for PM. If you don't hear back.... - by mrfisher, 5/15/2013 9:49:04 AM (147 reads)
mrfisher is right. - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:16:36 AM (85 reads)
You'll get better responses, if you've written reviews - by hiddenhills, 5/15/2013 10:21:24 AM (89 reads)

Good point HH. Thanks. - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:40:21 AM (47 reads)
Re: You'll get better responses, if you've written reviews - by macdaddy1944, 5/15/2013 10:41:36 AM (52 reads)
Also better chance of response if you use your handle & not an alias - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 12:21:00 PM (51 reads)

Another very good point. Thanks LovetoDaty. eom - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:26:03 AM (24 reads)

Re: You'll get better responses, if you've written reviews - by Baroquenoir, 5/15/2013 1:13:51 PM (47 reads)

Yes, but it might also raise red flags since you have no reviews. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 1:59:09 PM (65 reads)
Hi Baroquenoir... - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 3:46:13 PM (47 reads)

anal sex

- by SP3571, 5/15/2013 7:40:09 AM (329 reads)

She needs to seriously know what she is doing, or she can really hurt you. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 8:44:35 AM (227 reads)
Very good London. - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:19:16 AM (126 reads)
anal entry - by macdaddy1944, 5/15/2013 2:06:44 PM (130 reads)
Try the BDSM board. (eom) - by BigPapasan, 5/15/2013 11:19:53 PM (38 reads)

Adding to Provider Reviews - by itsacademic, 5/15/2013 7:22:47 AM (106 reads)

It is a pretty good bet they are the same... - by EasyTimes, 5/15/2013 8:25:48 AM (57 reads)
Ditto esaytimes. Also, here's a tip that may be helpful as you write your review - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 9:44:42 AM (45 reads)

Re: Ditto esaytimes. Also, here's a tip that may be helpful as you write your review - by itsacademic, 5/15/2013 10:02:41 AM (40 reads)

If you submit a problem report on one of the profiles, - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:26:49 AM (43 reads)

Why are you telling the OP to submit a problem report in... - by BigPapasan, 5/15/2013 11:08:43 PM (35 reads)

Re: Why are you telling the OP to submit a problem report in... - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:32:28 AM (22 reads)

How to handle? - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 6:45:55 AM (383 reads)

I think he snookered you... - by harbor_view, 5/15/2013 7:16:02 AM (185 reads)

Pretty much. Partially my fault for assuming. This is great advice, btw. -e- - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 11:28:04 AM (57 reads)

OMG, I have had this happen... - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 7:37:03 AM (193 reads)

Sorry it Happened - by Mr.Tennis, 5/15/2013 8:32:31 AM (94 reads)

The short envelope... - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 8:48:20 AM (121 reads)

You're absolutely right. -e- - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 11:44:39 AM (43 reads)

That's what happens with young dumbass clients - by EasyTimes, 5/15/2013 7:43:54 AM (108 reads)

He actually wasn't that young! - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 11:22:17 AM (74 reads)

Re: He actually wasn't that young! - by EasyTimes, 5/15/2013 3:30:29 PM (52 reads)

Hate to say it but it's up to you to be the clock cop.... - by mrfisher, 5/15/2013 9:47:31 AM (69 reads)
BCG, yours is not a new story. - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:35:03 AM (68 reads)

Re: BCG, yours is not a new story. - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 11:24:31 AM (73 reads)

As mrfisher said... - by tg_baby, 5/15/2013 11:43:10 AM (68 reads)
I would not black list tis client publically - by harbor_view, 5/15/2013 3:47:50 PM (50 reads)
I agree with.... - by SecretMe11, 5/15/2013 7:22:26 PM (40 reads)
I'm ashamed to say I sometimes struggle with time - by ghidorah, 5/15/2013 7:55:15 PM (60 reads)

We are not talking about 10 minutes, but a damn HOUR! He knew what he was doing. E. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 7:43:57 AM (35 reads)

why do some girls want older guys? - by newtodagame, 5/14/2013 6:39:51 PM (281 reads)

Here's a recent thread,,,,, - by unlucky2, 5/14/2013 7:22:46 PM (200 reads)
Preferences: we all have them. - by Businesses, 5/14/2013 10:21:23 PM (129 reads)
In my opinion, - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 4:03:21 AM (127 reads)
Also there are so many of us old farts in the hobby - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 5:05:26 AM (105 reads)
I think I'm one of the few... - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 5:32:14 AM (176 reads)

Re: I think I'm one of the few... - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 9:07:10 AM (115 reads)

That sounds like a wager to me London. 8o) eom - by mrfisher, 5/15/2013 9:50:45 AM (49 reads)
Re: I think I'm one of the few... - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 11:43:39 AM (80 reads)

Re: I think I'm one of the few... - by SecretMe11, 5/15/2013 7:27:04 PM (47 reads)

TOP TEN REASONS THAT PROVIDERS PREFER OLDER MEN - by connrogue2, 5/15/2013 6:22:32 AM (184 reads)
In general and in no particular order... - by EasyTimes, 5/15/2013 7:08:42 AM (115 reads)
GFE providers tend to prefer older men, because it is a certain easy going attitude - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 8:59:32 AM (129 reads)
Older Men - by BabydollLarsson, 5/15/2013 2:16:35 PM (104 reads)

donation first or at the end? - by newtodagame, 5/14/2013 4:47:37 PM (215 reads)

donation first or at end - by moocher2, 5/14/2013 5:34:32 PM (159 reads)

Many agency girls are told to call it "tips" so on that case, she means the fee. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 2:02:47 PM (69 reads)

Providers will specify on their website how they want the donation . . . - by keystonekid, 5/14/2013 6:03:54 PM (118 reads)
From what I have read, - by swimtrekr, 5/14/2013 6:03:59 PM (137 reads)
In my experience... - by harbor_view, 5/14/2013 6:34:17 PM (112 reads)
If she is asking for a tip at the start of the session,.... - by mrfisher, 5/15/2013 4:32:57 AM (83 reads)
Tips up front is not tips... - by harbor_view, 5/15/2013 7:18:33 AM (74 reads)
Wait... - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 12:12:53 PM (90 reads)

Re: Wait... - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:36:24 AM (42 reads)

How do I get whitelisted on TER? - by Cabots44, 5/14/2013 3:30:33 PM (155 reads)

Some useful information for you. - by Businesses, 5/14/2013 3:51:09 PM (163 reads)

Re: Some useful information for you. - by Cabots44, 5/14/2013 4:15:00 PM (85 reads)

To get a whitelist referral, - by swimtrekr, 5/14/2013 6:08:45 PM (87 reads)

You do NOT have to ask a provider to whitelist you... - by BigPapasan, 5/14/2013 11:56:15 PM (76 reads)

I have never had a provider give me a whitelist referral without - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 4:06:26 AM (60 reads)

I get them all the time without asking (eom) - by hiddenhills, 5/15/2013 5:23:20 AM (45 reads)

Am I just being a nervous newbie? - by JGould717, 5/14/2013 3:18:01 PM (317 reads)

CL Casual Encounters - by Businesses, 5/14/2013 3:25:44 PM (254 reads)
CL - by maxwell44, 5/14/2013 4:02:19 PM (167 reads)
Agree with both previous posters. - by swimtrekr, 5/14/2013 6:12:27 PM (94 reads)

The "Ignore User" feature - by CameoKnightley, 5/14/2013 2:32:49 PM (102 reads)

I believe that is correct. - by Businesses, 5/14/2013 3:20:08 PM (60 reads)

Sorry you are incorrect businesses. Ignore works one way only. eom - by perfectstorm, 5/14/2013 3:48:46 PM (48 reads)

Thanks for clarifying. I guess both providers ignored each other in my example [eom] - by Businesses, 5/14/2013 3:52:04 PM (30 reads)

Not true - by perfectstorm, 5/14/2013 3:47:34 PM (57 reads)
Thank you - by CameoKnightley, 5/14/2013 3:53:44 PM (59 reads)
Perfectstorm is correct, we just tested it by blocking each other [eom] - by Businesses, 5/14/2013 3:59:21 PM (33 reads)
They can still see your posts and unless you are logged IN, you will see theirs too. E. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 2:03:52 PM (25 reads)

LE checks? - by imjeffyay, 5/14/2013 1:01:27 PM (213 reads)

LE checks are worthless, but since you asked - by hiddenhills, 5/14/2013 3:12:32 PM (206 reads)
They are worthless, as mentioned above. - by swimtrekr, 5/14/2013 6:16:06 PM (125 reads)
In an LE check that actually works, - by glowerlord, 5/14/2013 6:55:42 PM (144 reads)

Ladies your honest opinion please! - by tttimttim212, 5/14/2013 9:18:25 AM (352 reads)

Not even remotely. Most of my clients are married men who prefer to not have an affair.... - by natashalynne, 5/14/2013 11:24:14 AM (296 reads)

PERFECT answer !!! - by guybeingaguy, 5/14/2013 6:04:28 PM (121 reads)
Re: Not even remotely. Most of my clients are married men who prefer to not have an affair.... - by keystonekid, 5/14/2013 6:08:23 PM (118 reads)
Yes! - by Carrie Hillcrest, 5/14/2013 9:57:44 PM (85 reads)

No, I look at you like my personal ATM bwahhahaha. Joke. - by London Rayne, 5/14/2013 11:27:09 AM (183 reads)
Hell No!! - by shannonsexymilf, 5/14/2013 11:27:27 AM (189 reads)
Never!!!! - by bluesoniablue, 5/14/2013 12:53:38 PM (131 reads)
the young ladies do, the women don't.EOM - by earthshined, 5/14/2013 6:41:57 PM (67 reads)

Re: the young ladies do, the women don't.EOM - by Here_I_Go, 5/14/2013 7:20:19 PM (79 reads)

Any advice for advertising while touring Manhattan? - by littlewings, 5/14/2013 7:19:01 AM (99 reads)

I would avoid BP NYC like the plague... - by London Rayne, 5/14/2013 8:18:02 AM (118 reads)
Stamford & Environs - by connrogue2, 5/14/2013 8:28:35 AM (92 reads)

That's good intel! E. - by toofuckingstupid, 5/14/2013 10:55:30 AM (55 reads)

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