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Foreign hobbyist - how to go about it? - by fessorjohs, 5/25/2013 5:09:24 PM (81 reads)

Well, fossorjohs, hope your visit to the west coast is a good one. - by swimtrekr, 5/26/2013 6:03:54 AM (46 reads)

Suggestions

- by hmike18, 5/25/2013 7:20:36 AM (301 reads)

Who cares? As long as you pay for her time! Eom - by Madame Patricia, 5/25/2013 1:15:48 PM (94 reads)
Go for it! eom - by Senator.Blutarsky, 5/25/2013 3:48:45 PM (52 reads)
sounds like fun. (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/25/2013 3:52:50 PM (43 reads)
Just close the door first, LOL EOM - by Tabu, 5/25/2013 4:30:21 PM (45 reads)

Re: Agree with Tabu; it is essential that you close the door first. Unless . . . - by keystonekid, 5/26/2013 6:32:24 PM (46 reads)

Whatever floats your boat....eom - by swimtrekr, 5/25/2013 5:34:17 PM (36 reads)
Think you will be fine!! - by Case321, 5/26/2013 8:17:40 PM (29 reads)
At a hotel, it would be too much. eom - by glowerlord, 5/28/2013 8:47:52 AM (17 reads)

ive been out of the loop too long...its all changed

- by gina09, 5/25/2013 9:39:35 AM (283 reads)

welcome back, Gina - by LovetoDaty, 5/25/2013 11:49:43 AM (166 reads)
Yes, it has changed, Gina. - by swimtrekr, 5/25/2013 5:36:46 PM (121 reads)
Re: Re: kiss for you - by single47, 5/25/2013 6:48:41 PM (94 reads)
The one thing that hasn't changed is that if you . . . - by keystonekid, 5/26/2013 6:30:05 PM (84 reads)

Tipping - by brewerflutie, 5/24/2013 7:16:33 PM (209 reads)

Any tip is always appreciated! - by Madame Patricia, 5/24/2013 7:34:21 PM (200 reads)
Some interesting reading on tipping - by hiddenhills, 5/25/2013 3:21:31 AM (195 reads)
There are no rules, Tipping is personal - by clarence37, 5/25/2013 7:42:31 AM (125 reads)

Agree. Well said. eom. - by Senator.Blutarsky, 5/25/2013 3:51:19 PM (40 reads)

Search for tipping. - by swimtrekr, 5/25/2013 5:38:23 PM (54 reads)
I've done that before and never received - by earthshined, 5/25/2013 6:20:58 PM (85 reads)
I've been tipped anywhere btw $20-$1000 from clients who felt they - by WondersOfTheWrld, 5/27/2013 8:54:22 PM (57 reads)
Tipping - by AlinaLili, 5/30/2013 12:09:15 AM (25 reads)

Question on disrepancy in rate - by jrileymd, 5/24/2013 4:07:02 PM (221 reads)

Discrepancys - by Sphinxnc, 5/24/2013 4:47:45 PM (159 reads)
Re: Question on disrepancy in rate - by SecretMe11, 5/24/2013 4:51:14 PM (136 reads)
There are ways you can confirm the rate with her. - by LovetoDaty, 5/24/2013 5:39:24 PM (131 reads)
Simple just ask the provider. Eom - by Madame Patricia, 5/24/2013 7:35:12 PM (61 reads)
Discount Offers - by Gabby0086, 5/24/2013 9:21:26 PM (98 reads)

just wanted to say hi

- by leveille, 5/24/2013 9:45:50 AM (158 reads)

Welcome Alexa, do what you feel comfortable with - by unlucky2, 5/24/2013 10:27:16 AM (88 reads)

Re: Welcome Alexa, do what you feel comfortable with - by leveille, 5/24/2013 4:50:00 PM (67 reads)

Hi Alexa, welcome aboard. I'm sure some of the ladies can help guide you about outcalls. - by LovetoDaty, 5/24/2013 10:35:45 AM (89 reads)
Hi Back!!!!!! - by markmelanne, 5/24/2013 11:04:58 AM (56 reads)
Hello Alexa, and welcome! - by EasyTimes, 5/24/2013 2:25:58 PM (47 reads)
Read the Self-Help Manual top right by the lifesaver. Then read . . . - by keystonekid, 5/24/2013 5:49:58 PM (47 reads)
Outcalls !!!! - by MissCrissy24, 5/24/2013 6:03:01 PM (75 reads)

Re: Outcalls !!!! - by leveille, 5/24/2013 6:55:22 PM (64 reads)

I would not do it that way, but that's just me. - by London Rayne, 5/28/2013 6:04:17 PM (17 reads)

Introducing Myself!!!

- by kristi223, 5/23/2013 4:11:26 PM (293 reads)

Two suggestions:.... - by mrfisher, 5/23/2013 4:48:04 PM (175 reads)
Hi Kristi, - by swimtrekr, 5/23/2013 5:28:33 PM (96 reads)
Welcome Kristi, and a few more tips to get you started - by LovetoDaty, 5/23/2013 5:30:04 PM (131 reads)

Need help getting my reviews linked to my profile - by MissCrissy24, 5/24/2013 6:21:58 PM (68 reads)

Hi Crissy! - by EasyTimes, 5/24/2013 10:00:48 PM (44 reads)

Welcome Kristi! - by riorunner, 5/23/2013 8:54:14 PM (60 reads)

on becoming a VIP

- by honestjohn34, 5/23/2013 8:23:43 AM (147 reads)

It should be pretty quick, - by perfectstorm, 5/23/2013 9:04:52 AM (90 reads)
You can check the status of your reviews (approved or pending) by . . . - by keystonekid, 5/23/2013 5:46:45 PM (52 reads)

How Do You Post a Pic? - by loveelainacali, 5/23/2013 8:05:10 AM (74 reads)

First you have to upload the photo onto the internet.... - by mrfisher, 5/23/2013 9:13:52 AM (60 reads)
Also can try imagecoast.com - but read the Ad posting guidelines (enclosed) first! - by LovetoDaty, 5/23/2013 9:33:23 AM (64 reads)

Yes, please read the posting guidelines first! - by EasyTimes, 5/23/2013 10:22:12 AM (32 reads)

Greek sessions - by MelissaKordero, 5/23/2013 7:21:18 AM (430 reads)

Some gals do enemas a few hours before the session.... - by mrfisher, 5/23/2013 9:26:49 AM (263 reads)
Eat a lot of greens. - by Zing!!!, 5/23/2013 9:46:44 AM (177 reads)

Nah eat a bowl of spicy Chili ! -e- - by MaximusSeximus, 5/23/2013 10:06:19 AM (92 reads)

Don't forget the beans, jalapenos, and corn bwahahhaa. Joke. - by London Rayne, 5/23/2013 10:39:42 AM (124 reads)

jalapenos? - by Nolklylu, 5/23/2013 4:06:53 PM (97 reads)

Re: jalapenos? - by DerrBl, 5/23/2013 8:25:08 PM (64 reads)

Jalapeños are for pussies... - by Zing!!!, 5/25/2013 8:50:33 AM (30 reads)

You may want to post this in PO forum. - by Madame Patricia, 5/24/2013 1:25:49 PM (128 reads)
Just ignore the clowns... - by Bostonguy57, 5/25/2013 12:23:35 PM (90 reads)
Prepping for Anal - by PhilAnderz, 5/26/2013 3:12:25 PM (87 reads)

Re: Prepping for Anal - by MelissaKordero, 5/27/2013 9:35:33 PM (45 reads)

Securing a meeting with a provider - by tucsonkid8, 5/22/2013 8:13:37 PM (306 reads)

If this is your first time with a provider, you shouldn't book TOO many hours - by Businesses, 5/22/2013 11:05:57 PM (249 reads)

I have never booked less than a four hour session.. - by RokkKrinn, 5/28/2013 11:18:36 PM (26 reads)

Don't assume - by clarence37, 5/23/2013 2:58:52 AM (164 reads)
She is not professional & should have responded. - by Madame Patricia, 5/23/2013 6:49:11 AM (120 reads)
Discussing money or sex, is not the issue. It is both together that presents the problem. - by London Rayne, 5/23/2013 7:09:55 AM (166 reads)
Thanks for all the help - by tucsonkid8, 5/27/2013 3:15:12 PM (25 reads)

Help please! New provider in Macon area

- by clarice797, 5/22/2013 11:19:13 AM (148 reads)

The next step is to get reviews - by Businesses, 5/22/2013 1:45:29 PM (71 reads)
See the Self-Help Center just below the lifesaver at the top right of this board. All the . . . - by keystonekid, 5/22/2013 5:11:57 PM (48 reads)
Are you going to use the name "Clarice?" Expect this... - by BigPapasan, 5/23/2013 12:33:37 AM (87 reads)

What should a provider do about NSNC hobbyist? - by JordanJewels, 5/22/2013 8:44:20 AM (249 reads)

Sending PM. E. - by London Rayne, 5/22/2013 10:07:08 AM (99 reads)

Thanks for the info London! EOM - by JordanJewels, 5/22/2013 12:44:19 PM (71 reads)

no call backs

- by Flowerpower2, 5/22/2013 6:56:17 AM (212 reads)

Sent you a PM....EOM - by JordanJewels, 5/22/2013 8:43:01 AM (79 reads)
You might try filling out their online new client screening form or emailing - by LovetoDaty, 5/22/2013 9:25:56 AM (95 reads)

Re: You might try filling out their online new client screening form or emailing - by Flowerpower2, 5/22/2013 11:51:55 AM (80 reads)

If you have zero references, no wonder. - by London Rayne, 5/22/2013 10:48:06 AM (121 reads)

Re: If you have zero references, no wonder. - by Flowerpower2, 5/22/2013 11:50:42 AM (116 reads)

provider's preferences - by atrus81, 5/22/2013 4:55:51 AM (343 reads)

I suspect you're safe since you're 30+. (eom) - by natashalynne, 5/22/2013 5:19:23 AM (128 reads)
Terms like "mature older men" - by hiddenhills, 5/22/2013 6:25:19 AM (259 reads)

Good reply, HH. - by swimtrekr, 5/22/2013 7:45:23 AM (97 reads)

Re: Good reply, HH. - by London Rayne, 5/22/2013 8:31:45 AM (126 reads)

Good point, if you sound and act mature.... - by mrfisher, 5/22/2013 9:39:03 AM (111 reads)

You are mature, Mr. Fisher. Always fair, on point, and no drama. E. - by London Rayne, 5/22/2013 10:50:24 AM (72 reads)

35 - by lilithgilman, 5/22/2013 1:54:41 PM (91 reads)
feel much better about it now - by atrus81, 5/22/2013 6:01:07 PM (56 reads)

Anyone know how to get on 411

- by brilove, 5/21/2013 3:49:22 PM (202 reads)

Where are you located? Your ad? (EOM) - by connrogue2, 5/21/2013 4:49:21 PM (79 reads)
easy - by macdaddy1944, 5/21/2013 5:03:39 PM (137 reads)

Re: easy - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 6:10:59 PM (100 reads)

It's more commonly known as "P411." If you don't want... - by BigPapasan, 5/21/2013 5:37:00 PM (115 reads)
Re: Anyone know how to get on 411 - by Duplicitouslust, 5/21/2013 9:43:56 PM (87 reads)

Please help a sexy newbie

- by BondGirl007, 5/21/2013 12:42:28 PM (259 reads)

This link will give you what you need to know... - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 1:13:32 PM (141 reads)

Website tips... - by MidwesternMaple, 5/23/2013 6:08:41 AM (38 reads)

Wix, webs.com, and weebly don't work on most Mobile Devices. - by London Rayne, 5/23/2013 2:05:07 PM (27 reads)

Hi Kamila. Your regional ad board is where you post ads. - by swimtrekr, 5/21/2013 1:13:51 PM (91 reads)

how do they screen you? - by iloveter23, 5/21/2013 10:47:09 AM (358 reads)

I've never done the home address or land line thing... - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 1:10:42 PM (258 reads)

Re: I've never done the home address or land line thing... - by iloveter23, 5/21/2013 1:20:16 PM (198 reads)

I've never heard of that in my life. - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 2:34:38 PM (168 reads)

screening - by swimtrekr, 5/21/2013 1:11:19 PM (213 reads)
atf club - by iloveter23, 5/21/2013 2:45:24 PM (216 reads)

Hmm, ok that may be the issue then. No, I am not up to speed with their rules. - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 3:20:55 PM (144 reads)
K girl = Korean girl, usually - by swimtrekr, 5/22/2013 7:50:57 AM (93 reads)

I've rarely been "screened" at all - by RokkKrinn, 5/28/2013 11:35:00 PM (25 reads)

beauty - by single47, 5/20/2013 8:47:11 PM (178 reads)

newbie

- by BiancaJaguar, 5/20/2013 7:30:16 PM (157 reads)

Look at the two links in the top right corner of your screen. - by HobbyCity, 5/20/2013 10:35:13 PM (82 reads)
Welcome Bianca! - by EasyTimes, 5/21/2013 8:12:09 AM (34 reads)
Hello Bianca! It is nice you have found someone to help you, as it can be scary. - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 9:34:13 AM (49 reads)

New to the business

- by MounaLeesaXO, 5/20/2013 9:39:07 AM (382 reads)

This should be on the Newbie board, but most providers - by London Rayne, 5/20/2013 9:42:48 AM (261 reads)
Can't believe I'm answering this question. - by cuppajoe, 5/20/2013 1:32:40 PM (168 reads)
Welcome MounaLeesaXO... - by xyz23, 5/20/2013 3:56:35 PM (105 reads)
Mouna, most providers are very secretive about - by swimtrekr, 5/20/2013 5:11:11 PM (150 reads)
Check this out: - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 9:56:33 AM (80 reads)

P411 client profile Other info/bio - by Agnar, 5/20/2013 1:13:59 PM (252 reads)

Yes, some guys do, but IMHO it's really better if you don't.... - by natashalynne, 5/20/2013 1:28:44 PM (173 reads)

This. So much this. -e- - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/21/2013 5:04:07 AM (65 reads)

Not a gentleman, but.... - by BeautywithBrains, 5/20/2013 1:58:51 PM (125 reads)
I didnt think providers paid attention to that - by earthshined, 5/20/2013 5:14:23 PM (112 reads)

Re: I didnt think providers paid attention to that - by BeautywithBrains, 5/21/2013 2:42:43 AM (87 reads)
Re: I didnt think providers paid attention to that - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 6:25:21 AM (88 reads)
I DO! - by jaydalee, 5/23/2013 11:03:57 AM (26 reads)

profile - by macdaddy1944, 5/20/2013 6:22:17 PM (85 reads)
Agreeing with the other ladies! - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 8:45:57 AM (63 reads)
Thanks all... I added a bit more to mine sans the acronyms (eom) - by Agnar, 5/21/2013 1:08:29 PM (35 reads)
Oh ABSolutely we look at that. EOM - by fallonkelly, 5/22/2013 10:31:34 PM (22 reads)

keyword search - by bettersmash17, 5/20/2013 11:06:19 AM (85 reads)

That is something that has been asked for on the Suggestion and Policy boar - by perfectstorm, 5/20/2013 11:53:55 AM (45 reads)
Ask admin on the Suggestion & Policy board would be your best bet. eom - by swimtrekr, 5/20/2013 5:17:08 PM (37 reads)
Put "bitch" in there, and see what comes up lol. EOM. - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 4:03:00 PM (15 reads)

Screening for new members ? - by unknownavenger, 5/20/2013 1:06:50 AM (201 reads)

Start participating on the NY board, but only if you have... - by BigPapasan, 5/20/2013 2:50:25 AM (118 reads)
Verification sites. - by swimtrekr, 5/20/2013 4:38:39 AM (155 reads)

General stuff about this board. - by swimtrekr, 5/19/2013 7:13:09 PM (273 reads)

Most of us have been here for your ups and downs, and hope you get better FAST! - by London Rayne, 5/19/2013 7:38:34 PM (118 reads)
I wholeheartedly agree that this board should be... - by BigPapasan, 5/19/2013 8:10:15 PM (99 reads)

Re: I wholeheartedly agree that this board should be... - by earthshined, 5/19/2013 9:01:30 PM (73 reads)

While you are missed, I think generally the highly unpaid assistants - by perfectstorm, 5/19/2013 9:46:23 PM (68 reads)
You have helped - by AlexandraMilw, 5/19/2013 9:55:41 PM (61 reads)
Swim, you will be missed......... - by BeautywithBrains, 5/20/2013 2:06:48 AM (64 reads)
Get well soon and come back; we need you. eom - by mrfisher, 5/20/2013 4:38:26 AM (31 reads)
Thanks for all your concerns everyone. - by swimtrekr, 5/20/2013 4:40:33 AM (53 reads)
Possible solution might be to not allow . . . - by keystonekid, 5/20/2013 5:44:41 PM (44 reads)

Love this idea! eom - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 8:55:55 AM (23 reads)

I heart Swim!! eom - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 8:56:40 AM (21 reads)

Awwwwww......Thanks Sarah. I heart you too!!! eom - by swimtrekr, 5/21/2013 9:14:43 AM (20 reads)

Muah!!!!! eom - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 10:04:27 AM (19 reads)

Looks you, and your staff are doing a great job! - by jazz32, 5/22/2013 5:44:56 AM (19 reads)

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