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I have a question about what is considered SPAM

- by KennedyWorldwide, 6/9/2013 8:05:41 AM (174 reads)

IMHO, that is spam.... - by mrfisher, 6/9/2013 8:16:38 AM (80 reads)
I would say that is spam. - by xyz23, 6/9/2013 9:13:26 AM (57 reads)
There is a message at the bottom when you send a PM - by Panthera12, 6/9/2013 9:15:24 AM (62 reads)
Just post on the AD board every 7 days.. - by CurlyW - Nats Fan, 6/9/2013 11:31:45 AM (32 reads)
that is spam big time, but does not stop many from doing it on the boards. - by toofuckingstupid, 6/9/2013 12:26:34 PM (34 reads)
If I had not seen you previously, - by swimtrekr, 6/9/2013 3:23:52 PM (59 reads)
definitely spam - by NoQuarterGiven, 6/9/2013 10:32:05 PM (32 reads)

Remember me? - by SexyLoveMollyK, 6/8/2013 4:04:47 PM (271 reads)

You need to clarify what it is you are - by viptaylorsteele, 6/8/2013 5:06:33 PM (129 reads)
Well, Molly, - by swimtrekr, 6/8/2013 5:08:32 PM (110 reads)
start over... - by spades61307, 6/8/2013 9:43:55 PM (84 reads)
thanks - by SexyLoveMollyK, 6/9/2013 3:18:30 AM (85 reads)

New to this site and to Florida

- by whatwhaaat, 6/8/2013 3:34:53 PM (199 reads)

Sorry love, while gentlemen in this industry - by viptaylorsteele, 6/8/2013 4:56:17 PM (167 reads)
IF you are really looking for no sexual contact, - by swimtrekr, 6/8/2013 5:13:54 PM (136 reads)
As others have said, this is the wrong place - by clarence37, 6/8/2013 9:28:11 PM (70 reads)
By "no sex" do you mean no full service, i.e. intercourse?.... - by mrfisher, 6/9/2013 5:55:55 AM (78 reads)
Many escorts do not have sex, but yes some type of sexual activity is expected. - by London Rayne, 6/10/2013 7:39:15 AM (63 reads)

Newbie ebony user

- by chanelldelight69, 6/8/2013 2:44:13 PM (119 reads)

Not sure what you mean by "hits", but you do need VIP for PMs.... - by mrfisher, 6/8/2013 4:30:20 PM (47 reads)

Re: Not sure what you mean by "hits", but you do need VIP for PMs.... - by chanelldelight69, 6/8/2013 5:36:22 PM (37 reads)

If you have reviews, you use the 'contact us' tab - by harbor_view, 6/9/2013 4:46:21 AM (22 reads)

Where do I get started? - by notcrazy, 6/8/2013 3:39:52 AM (266 reads)

Background checks, or as we often refer to them, screenings,..... - by mrfisher, 6/8/2013 5:10:59 AM (229 reads)
Screening - by Bromios, 6/8/2013 5:11:43 AM (144 reads)
Background checks? Scary interpretation lol... - by viptaylorsteele, 6/8/2013 5:12:13 PM (98 reads)
thanks for all the replies! - by notcrazy, 6/9/2013 12:54:21 AM (39 reads)

do escorts usually accomodate foot fetish? - by mn1350, 6/7/2013 10:25:17 PM (129 reads)

Ask first - by GreenEyedGoddessNYC, 6/8/2013 3:13:27 AM (72 reads)
I think most gals will be OK asking about this.... - by mrfisher, 6/8/2013 5:19:08 AM (52 reads)
If you look at her profile, and - by swimtrekr, 6/8/2013 7:25:13 AM (44 reads)
Worship! - by Madame Patricia, 6/8/2013 2:38:55 PM (42 reads)
Foot fetish - by gj69, 6/9/2013 12:29:55 PM (37 reads)

Re: Foot fetish - by Andrew4325, 6/10/2013 2:16:01 AM (28 reads)

Ewww - by Andrew4325, 6/10/2013 2:12:39 AM (37 reads)
I don't provider any type of fetish, but sure...many do. - by London Rayne, 6/10/2013 7:40:34 AM (31 reads)

Re: I don't provider any type of fetish, but sure...many do. - by nahtynikkey, 6/10/2013 1:18:43 PM (32 reads)

Very true. E. - by London Rayne, 6/10/2013 9:08:35 PM (16 reads)

What does it mean if my review has been deferred.

- by Pericles212, 6/7/2013 8:05:24 PM (91 reads)

You are referred to my previous answer on "deferred" ... - by BigPapasan, 6/7/2013 11:30:33 PM (70 reads)
It means TER is holding the publishing of the reivew in abeyance.. - by mrfisher, 6/8/2013 5:24:29 AM (70 reads)

Is p411 worth it if... - by alyrae, 6/7/2013 5:26:23 PM (293 reads)

As a newb - by swimtrekr, 6/7/2013 5:36:51 PM (223 reads)
Worth It... - by cumaliciouschloe, 6/7/2013 6:01:53 PM (174 reads)
From a recent newbie.... - by vpmpd, 6/7/2013 6:50:11 PM (194 reads)

Re: From a recent newbie.... - by alyrae, 6/8/2013 12:45:05 AM (122 reads)

I/m missing something - by clarence37, 6/7/2013 7:55:31 PM (156 reads)

Re: I/m missing something - by alyrae, 6/8/2013 12:43:44 AM (125 reads)

Uh dude you are fooling your self!! - by Case321, 6/8/2013 4:57:43 AM (131 reads)

Funny, and true for many of us! EOM - by Bromios, 6/8/2013 5:33:16 AM (65 reads)
Re: Uh dude you are fooling your self!! - by D1ckNice, 6/11/2013 2:28:05 PM (21 reads)

If you can afford to pay for 'p4p' then you - by viptaylorsteele, 6/8/2013 4:48:47 PM (92 reads)

Just starting out and trying to provide superb service....Any advice

- by clarice797, 6/7/2013 10:22:56 AM (310 reads)

So much to say.... - by London Rayne, 6/7/2013 10:42:16 AM (213 reads)
first you need - by CaitlynKennedy, 6/7/2013 11:00:18 AM (165 reads)
Hi Clarice. - by swimtrekr, 6/7/2013 11:08:12 AM (100 reads)
Welcome - by harbor_view, 6/7/2013 11:47:28 AM (78 reads)
Some great advice already from others. Start out one-step at a time - by LovetoDaty, 6/7/2013 1:03:55 PM (100 reads)

Re: Some great advice already from others. Start out one-step at a time - by London Rayne, 6/8/2013 8:07:26 AM (50 reads)

Many ladies started out just like you. Badcollegegirl is a recent . . . - by keystonekid, 6/7/2013 5:31:46 PM (107 reads)

Re: Many ladies started out just like you. Badcollegegirl is a recent . . . - by MissBreeBreeze, 6/8/2013 7:18:40 AM (63 reads)

Re: I think you meant this to be under the OP. eom - by keystonekid, 6/8/2013 5:34:23 PM (26 reads)

My Fav gals... have a good attitude - by harbor_view, 6/11/2013 3:26:24 PM (17 reads)

So, I've seen a couple of providers. Do I just list them as references? - by Firsttimer097, 6/7/2013 8:28:33 AM (133 reads)

First, be sure you contact those gals to ask if it is OK to list them..... - by mrfisher, 6/7/2013 8:53:11 AM (105 reads)

Re:Screening service P411 is great also "Date check' - by brigit3003, 6/8/2013 3:52:53 AM (48 reads)

Here's the situation for you - by hiddenhills, 6/7/2013 9:51:13 AM (98 reads)
Yes, but give the others you have seen a head's up before doing so. - by London Rayne, 6/7/2013 10:45:04 AM (75 reads)

yes definitely - by CaitlynKennedy, 6/7/2013 11:04:44 AM (51 reads)

ter id? - by baileybeautiful, 6/6/2013 3:41:39 PM (171 reads)

Blonde moment indeed..LOL.. - by CurlyW - Nats Fan, 6/6/2013 4:06:45 PM (118 reads)

Re: Blonde moment indeed..LOL.. - by baileybeautiful, 6/6/2013 4:58:15 PM (58 reads)

If you don't have reviews, you don't have a TER ID yet. - by perfectstorm, 6/6/2013 4:15:35 PM (57 reads)

Re: If you don't have reviews, you don't have a TER ID yet. - by baileybeautiful, 6/6/2013 4:57:07 PM (63 reads)

Hi Bailey, - by swimtrekr, 6/6/2013 6:15:59 PM (57 reads)

No show - by vpmpd, 6/6/2013 11:53:34 AM (288 reads)

Nope, let it be - by RodTidweLL, 6/6/2013 1:54:59 PM (181 reads)

Re: Nope, let it be - by vpmpd, 6/6/2013 2:45:11 PM (143 reads)

Re: Nope, let it be - by RodTidweLL, 6/6/2013 3:04:04 PM (111 reads)

Damned if you do, damned if you don't - by hiddenhills, 6/6/2013 2:22:30 PM (131 reads)

Re: Damned if you do, damned if you don't - by vpmpd, 6/6/2013 2:47:01 PM (79 reads)

Well, I kind of agree with HH....... - by unlucky2, 6/6/2013 2:45:28 PM (95 reads)

There is one other option - by ziggy440, 6/7/2013 11:25:56 AM (40 reads)

I disagree with the majority...nah, really lol. - by London Rayne, 6/6/2013 4:38:04 PM (110 reads)
My person Do Not See list - by harbor_view, 6/6/2013 5:16:00 PM (90 reads)
It sucks, but it's the reality of the hobby. - by swimtrekr, 6/6/2013 6:23:12 PM (59 reads)
In addition, if you plan on future trips to her city, I would . . . - by keystonekid, 6/6/2013 6:30:21 PM (59 reads)
It Sucks - by galaxy_note2, 6/7/2013 6:05:30 AM (41 reads)

booker - by Alley-Syd, 6/6/2013 6:43:07 AM (155 reads)

Hi Alley - by xyz23, 6/6/2013 7:54:03 AM (89 reads)
It might be helpful if - by swimtrekr, 6/6/2013 9:22:24 AM (50 reads)
Caution... - by MeetEricaStone, 6/16/2013 5:45:02 PM (0 reads)

Newbie Starts By... - by Oz1972, 6/6/2013 5:32:52 AM (218 reads)

TER - by Bromios, 6/6/2013 6:09:07 AM (113 reads)
TER is not a "verification service" - by clarence37, 6/6/2013 6:16:24 AM (99 reads)
Depending on where you will be traveling, you might want to . . . - by keystonekid, 6/6/2013 6:33:31 PM (62 reads)

All P411 members - with references - by Agnar, 6/5/2013 2:39:13 PM (276 reads)

List your two most recent references with your appointment request - by Businesses, 6/5/2013 3:52:54 PM (150 reads)
the latter - by macdaddy1944, 6/5/2013 4:35:20 PM (105 reads)
I try to give as little information as possible - by HobbyCity, 6/5/2013 5:24:15 PM (166 reads)

That makes zero sense. - by London Rayne, 6/5/2013 5:29:41 PM (162 reads)

Re: That makes zero sense. - by Bromios, 6/5/2013 6:17:42 PM (128 reads)

Ohhhhh, ok I get that lol. - by London Rayne, 6/5/2013 8:59:45 PM (85 reads)
Re: That makes zero sense. - by earthshined, 6/5/2013 9:00:46 PM (70 reads)

Most P411 guys... - by jaydalee, 6/5/2013 8:59:38 PM (158 reads)

Re: Most P411 guys... - by earthshined, 6/5/2013 9:03:40 PM (93 reads)

Not totally worthless to keep OK's - by SirWilliam00, 6/5/2013 10:38:55 PM (78 reads)

Re: Not totally worthless to keep OK's - by jaydalee, 6/5/2013 10:51:50 PM (78 reads)

I just like to see the recent ones, so don't much care if he deletes. - by London Rayne, 6/6/2013 7:57:49 AM (62 reads)

Refuse to go behind? (Cooties???) - by Road_Rider, 6/7/2013 7:26:29 AM (32 reads)

Thanks! - by Agnar, 6/6/2013 3:00:35 PM (31 reads)

new - by Alley-Syd, 6/5/2013 7:54:09 AM (182 reads)

Just like we tell the guys...look for reviews. - by London Rayne, 6/5/2013 8:27:38 AM (100 reads)

There are also reviews of agencies here on TER it's under the "Site Reviews" tab at the top. - by xyz23, 6/5/2013 9:45:12 AM (47 reads)

Look for lots a reviews by - by swimtrekr, 6/5/2013 5:26:06 PM (44 reads)

Mild rant for the new providers (and not so new)!

- by Sphinxnc, 6/5/2013 8:39:21 AM (314 reads)

Thank you Spinxnc! I have often though the same thing. - by EasyTimes, 6/5/2013 10:15:04 AM (66 reads)
Excellent points by both you gentlemen (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 6/5/2013 12:30:23 PM (24 reads)
I see same thing in FL, - by swimtrekr, 6/5/2013 5:29:02 PM (31 reads)
Sooooo true, and it's not just newbies. - by London Rayne, 6/5/2013 5:31:35 PM (56 reads)

Re: Some of those boys from Alabama are just learning the 3 R's. eom - by capt._obvious, 6/6/2013 6:37:40 PM (18 reads)

Question Regarding Mail (PM's) - by jackjohnson7865, 6/4/2013 5:44:43 PM (130 reads)

Do a search on the discussion boards for his handle... - by BigPapasan, 6/5/2013 12:32:44 AM (76 reads)

Not quite true BP - by perfectstorm, 6/5/2013 1:10:04 AM (66 reads)

I don 't think there is a way to tell in "mail," but if the person posts on discussion boards, - by perfectstorm, 6/5/2013 1:15:34 AM (59 reads)
Thanks Guys! - by jackjohnson7865, 6/5/2013 6:20:31 AM (37 reads)

When to raise rates - alongside new website? - by GreenEyedGoddessNYC, 6/4/2013 5:21:11 PM (191 reads)

I think you already answered your question..... - by unlucky2, 6/4/2013 9:46:18 PM (86 reads)
Definitely with the new website. - by rily, 6/5/2013 4:14:45 AM (76 reads)
I just did the same thing, so do so when you can. - by London Rayne, 6/5/2013 8:45:13 AM (76 reads)

Re: I just did the same thing, so do so when you can. - by GreenEyedGoddessNYC, 6/5/2013 9:10:45 AM (70 reads)

I love it when a new bird flies ha ha. Can't wait to see the new site! I am bias to the designer. E - by London Rayne, 6/5/2013 5:41:24 PM (32 reads)

Re: I love it when a new bird flies ha ha. Can't wait to see the new site! I am bias to the designe - by GreenEyedGoddessNYC, 6/6/2013 10:59:44 AM (30 reads)

From a hobbyists point of view--How do your rates compare to other . . . - by keystonekid, 6/6/2013 6:46:10 PM (36 reads)

Re: From a hobbyists point of view--How do your rates compare to other . . . - by GreenEyedGoddessNYC, 6/7/2013 8:15:11 PM (25 reads)

Video embedding and ads are becoming very popular. - by London Rayne, 6/8/2013 7:37:37 AM (20 reads)

How specific should I be with my escort?

- by justinian1, 6/4/2013 3:33:32 PM (439 reads)

You're not over the top but... - by MeetEricaStone, 6/4/2013 9:32:16 PM (280 reads)

Re: You're not over the top but... - by justinian1, 6/4/2013 9:57:44 PM (131 reads)

Aww, honey trust me - by OhCharlie, 6/5/2013 2:21:54 AM (232 reads)

You're so sweet Charlie but I disagree and being a newbie board I feel like I have to explain - by MeetEricaStone, 6/5/2013 9:19:43 PM (115 reads)

VERY well said - by joebunda90, 6/6/2013 2:56:46 AM (56 reads)

another p411 referral! - by CaitlynKennedy, 6/6/2013 7:01:39 AM (54 reads)

Re: You're so sweet Charlie but I disagree and being a newbie board I feel like I have to explain - by London Rayne, 6/6/2013 8:04:18 AM (72 reads)

Re: Aww, honey trust me - by cheesedogg, 6/10/2013 8:55:26 PM (20 reads)

I think you'll be just fine, honey. That is so cute ha ha ha. - by London Rayne, 6/5/2013 6:38:05 PM (95 reads)

How many hobbyests haggle over the donation? - by ghidorah, 6/4/2013 3:12:50 PM (208 reads)

Honestly, not many dare try that shit with me. - by London Rayne, 6/4/2013 5:35:20 PM (167 reads)

Re: I think what happens is the CB's (cheap bastards) chase the . . . - by keystonekid, 6/4/2013 6:21:48 PM (107 reads)

Re: I think what happens is the CB's (cheap bastards) chase the . . . - by Michelobe01, 6/4/2013 7:16:07 PM (73 reads)
omg just had this happen! - by CaitlynKennedy, 6/5/2013 7:06:07 PM (54 reads)

I'd only try to haggle with LR - by jackjohnson7865, 6/4/2013 5:40:42 PM (96 reads)

Ha ha ha! E. - by London Rayne, 6/5/2013 8:50:11 AM (29 reads)

never on a first date.........(e) - by unlucky2, 6/4/2013 6:18:40 PM (58 reads)

If a guy asks after the first date, I won't see them anymore. eom - by MeetEricaStone, 6/4/2013 9:43:18 PM (56 reads)

Some try and I won't see them. - by MeetEricaStone, 6/4/2013 9:41:49 PM (78 reads)
It happens, but approach determines response - by OhCharlie, 6/5/2013 2:01:10 AM (85 reads)

Re: It happens, but approach determines response - by Hostess588, 6/9/2013 2:49:59 PM (16 reads)

I would never haggle over a lady's rate - by LovetoDaty, 6/5/2013 4:28:58 AM (57 reads)
Bad Manners, IMHO. - by swimtrekr, 6/5/2013 5:40:22 AM (42 reads)

To the newbie entertainers.............. - by BeautywithBrains, 6/4/2013 1:45:17 PM (289 reads)

Excellent post, and I agree. - by London Rayne, 6/4/2013 2:04:26 PM (103 reads)

Re: Excellent post, and I agree. - by MissChantelMack, 6/4/2013 3:52:07 PM (53 reads)

Yes, there are, when hubby is a fkin idiot who does not cover his tracks. E. - by London Rayne, 6/6/2013 11:09:03 AM (20 reads)

I agree, very good post, BWB. - by swimtrekr, 6/5/2013 5:43:48 AM (35 reads)
Additional tip! - by MissBreeBreeze, 6/5/2013 6:00:40 AM (51 reads)
I never even thought of that, thanks! - by SophiaDarling, 6/5/2013 7:24:45 AM (35 reads)
good to know! - by baileybeautiful, 6/5/2013 12:39:20 PM (26 reads)
I have a nice form/write up i always use and - by CaitlynKennedy, 6/5/2013 6:48:00 PM (28 reads)
Nickname - by buck567, 6/6/2013 11:33:09 AM (17 reads)

This is on the Atlanta Discussion Board. I thought it would be useful here...

- by xyz23, 6/3/2013 7:48:31 PM (238 reads)

So much more to add lol. - by London Rayne, 6/4/2013 8:56:52 AM (79 reads)

Looking for cheating advice from the braintrust

- by Father_of_Dragons, 6/3/2013 1:43:50 PM (378 reads)

Two suggestions - by clarence37, 6/3/2013 6:27:31 PM (261 reads)
It varies with your schedule... - by harbor_view, 6/3/2013 6:32:19 PM (202 reads)
Think think think!!! - by Case321, 6/3/2013 7:31:16 PM (163 reads)
You need to cover your tracks and big time! - by London Rayne, 6/4/2013 7:23:57 AM (169 reads)

Re: You need to cover your tracks and big time! - by GiselleGatsby, 6/4/2013 7:39:48 AM (117 reads)

Supplemental Partners - by GiselleGatsby, 6/4/2013 7:46:42 AM (147 reads)
Thank you all - by Father_of_Dragons, 6/4/2013 8:49:36 AM (131 reads)

Then, you really don't need any more advice. The answer is clear. - by London Rayne, 6/4/2013 8:58:57 AM (146 reads)

Re: Then, you really don't need any more advice. The answer is clear. - by DevlinSyde69, 6/4/2013 9:56:13 AM (105 reads)
Re: Then, you really don't need any more advice. The answer is clear. - by DevlinSyde69, 6/4/2013 10:00:14 AM (100 reads)

I tend not to sugar coat the obvious. - by London Rayne, 6/4/2013 11:20:06 AM (84 reads)

Yeah, gonna have to go with London on this one. (eom) - by xyz23, 6/4/2013 10:53:29 AM (42 reads)

It's Been Years... - by PittPanther, 6/4/2013 12:32:18 PM (92 reads)
Re: Thank you all - by maxwell44, 6/4/2013 3:50:57 PM (56 reads)

deny deny - by buck567, 6/4/2013 11:38:59 AM (83 reads)
With the child custody issue... - by harbor_view, 6/5/2013 3:31:55 PM (39 reads)

Re: With the child custody issue... - by GiselleGatsby, 6/6/2013 7:49:22 AM (27 reads)

Thanks again - by Father_of_Dragons, 6/7/2013 8:30:20 AM (18 reads)

newbie here! - by baileybeautiful, 6/3/2013 3:35:08 PM (163 reads)

Follow the enclosed link to the Self-Help Center - by xyz23, 6/3/2013 8:02:24 PM (91 reads)
Welcome, Bailey. Like XYZ said read the self-help topics. I also suggest - by LovetoDaty, 6/4/2013 5:03:28 AM (43 reads)

Re: Welcome, Bailey. Like XYZ said read the self-help topics. I also suggest - by baileybeautiful, 6/4/2013 9:06:58 AM (35 reads)

Sharpen your SCREENING skills - by hiddenhills, 6/4/2013 7:36:52 AM (67 reads)

Re: Sharpen your SCREENING skills - by baileybeautiful, 6/4/2013 8:57:56 AM (50 reads)

Bailey, do you have TER reviews under the name you used while at the agency? - by xyz23, 6/4/2013 9:55:26 AM (35 reads)

Good catch, xyz. She may already have reviews here. (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 6/4/2013 10:23:27 AM (24 reads)
Re: Bailey, do you have TER reviews under the name you used while at the agency? - by baileybeautiful, 6/4/2013 10:29:38 AM (52 reads)

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