TER General Boards

Newbie

Questions? Click here to contact Customer Support.

Are you NEW? Do you have a question about TER? This is the place to ask those newbie questions. Please take some time to read the Acronyms and Newbies Manual, Message Board Policies, and recent Newbie discussion board posts to get acquainted with the discussion boards on TER.

Provider ads are strictly prohibited from being posted on the Newbie Discussion board.

Please help a sexy newbie

- by BondGirl007, 5/21/2013 12:42:28 PM (34 reads)

This link will give you what you need to know... - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 1:13:32 PM (18 reads)
Hi Kamila. Your regional ad board is where you post ads. - by swimtrekr, 5/21/2013 1:13:51 PM (12 reads)
Hi Kamila. Your regional ad board is where you post ads. - by swimtrekr, 5/21/2013 1:16:40 PM (6 reads)

how do they screen you? - by iloveter23, 5/21/2013 10:47:09 AM (44 reads)

I've never done the home address or land line thing... - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 1:10:42 PM (24 reads)

Re: I've never done the home address or land line thing... - by iloveter23, 5/21/2013 1:20:16 PM (10 reads)

I've never heard of that in my life. - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 2:34:38 PM (6 reads)

screening - by swimtrekr, 5/21/2013 1:11:19 PM (21 reads)
atf club - by iloveter23, 5/21/2013 2:45:24 PM (9 reads)

Hmm, ok that may be the issue then. No, I am not up to speed with their rules. - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 3:20:55 PM (2 reads)

beauty - by single47, 5/20/2013 8:47:11 PM (99 reads)

newbie

- by BiancaJaguar, 5/20/2013 7:30:16 PM (66 reads)

Look at the two links in the top right corner of your screen. - by HobbyCity, 5/20/2013 10:35:13 PM (32 reads)
Welcome Bianca! - by EasyTimes, 5/21/2013 8:12:09 AM (6 reads)
Hello Bianca! It is nice you have found someone to help you, as it can be scary. - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 9:34:13 AM (10 reads)

New to the business

- by MounaLeesaXO, 5/20/2013 9:39:07 AM (280 reads)

This should be on the Newbie board, but most providers - by London Rayne, 5/20/2013 9:42:48 AM (178 reads)
Can't believe I'm answering this question. - by cuppajoe, 5/20/2013 1:32:40 PM (86 reads)
Welcome MounaLeesaXO... - by xyz23, 5/20/2013 3:56:35 PM (51 reads)
Mouna, most providers are very secretive about - by swimtrekr, 5/20/2013 5:11:11 PM (78 reads)
Check this out: - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 9:56:33 AM (15 reads)

P411 client profile Other info/bio - by Agnar, 5/20/2013 1:13:59 PM (135 reads)

Yes, some guys do, but IMHO it's really better if you don't.... - by natashalynne, 5/20/2013 1:28:44 PM (82 reads)

This. So much this. -e- - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/21/2013 5:04:07 AM (13 reads)

Not a gentleman, but.... - by BeautywithBrains, 5/20/2013 1:58:51 PM (66 reads)
I didnt think providers paid attention to that - by earthshined, 5/20/2013 5:14:23 PM (58 reads)

Re: I didnt think providers paid attention to that - by BeautywithBrains, 5/21/2013 2:42:43 AM (27 reads)
Re: I didnt think providers paid attention to that - by London Rayne, 5/21/2013 6:25:21 AM (23 reads)

profile - by macdaddy1944, 5/20/2013 6:22:17 PM (38 reads)
Agreeing with the other ladies! - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 8:45:57 AM (16 reads)
Thanks all... I added a bit more to mine sans the acronyms (eom) - by Agnar, 5/21/2013 1:08:29 PM (4 reads)

keyword search - by bettersmash17, 5/20/2013 11:06:19 AM (50 reads)

That is something that has been asked for on the Suggestion and Policy boar - by perfectstorm, 5/20/2013 11:53:55 AM (21 reads)
Ask admin on the Suggestion & Policy board would be your best bet. eom - by swimtrekr, 5/20/2013 5:17:08 PM (9 reads)

Screening for new members ? - by unknownavenger, 5/20/2013 1:06:50 AM (135 reads)

Start participating on the NY board, but only if you have... - by BigPapasan, 5/20/2013 2:50:25 AM (73 reads)
Verification sites. - by swimtrekr, 5/20/2013 4:38:39 AM (89 reads)

General stuff about this board. - by swimtrekr, 5/19/2013 7:13:09 PM (193 reads)

Most of us have been here for your ups and downs, and hope you get better FAST! - by London Rayne, 5/19/2013 7:38:34 PM (79 reads)
I wholeheartedly agree that this board should be... - by BigPapasan, 5/19/2013 8:10:15 PM (73 reads)

Re: I wholeheartedly agree that this board should be... - by earthshined, 5/19/2013 9:01:30 PM (49 reads)

While you are missed, I think generally the highly unpaid assistants - by perfectstorm, 5/19/2013 9:46:23 PM (47 reads)
You have helped - by SexyflirtAmber, 5/19/2013 9:55:41 PM (40 reads)
Swim, you will be missed......... - by BeautywithBrains, 5/20/2013 2:06:48 AM (36 reads)
Get well soon and come back; we need you. eom - by mrfisher, 5/20/2013 4:38:26 AM (14 reads)
Thanks for all your concerns everyone. - by swimtrekr, 5/20/2013 4:40:33 AM (34 reads)
Possible solution might be to not allow . . . - by keystonekid, 5/20/2013 5:44:41 PM (22 reads)

Love this idea! eom - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 8:55:55 AM (2 reads)

I heart Swim!! eom - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 8:56:40 AM (3 reads)

Awwwwww......Thanks Sarah. I heart you too!!! eom - by swimtrekr, 5/21/2013 9:14:43 AM (4 reads)

Muah!!!!! eom - by SoftlySarah, 5/21/2013 10:04:27 AM (1 reads)

wondering how this all works? - by Eselle, 5/19/2013 11:05:40 AM (94 reads)

Your first reviewer creates your TER review page - by Businesses, 5/19/2013 1:50:20 PM (47 reads)
Ditto what businesses said, and I would add - by perfectstorm, 5/19/2013 2:11:49 PM (35 reads)
It looks like businesses and perfectstorm covered it pretty well, so - by EasyTimes, 5/19/2013 5:49:41 PM (20 reads)
Hello Eselle! The others covered it, so just "welcome!" E. - by London Rayne, 5/19/2013 7:42:29 PM (9 reads)

post - by Krystal Ready, 5/18/2013 8:53:51 PM (106 reads)

to find your post - by clarence37, 5/18/2013 11:36:05 PM (43 reads)

How do I get my profile changed/added to? - by LanaLuxe4U, 5/18/2013 7:31:43 PM (61 reads)

Submit a problem report. - by Businesses, 5/18/2013 7:39:55 PM (33 reads)

Re: Submit a problem report. - by LanaLuxe4U, 5/18/2013 7:55:14 PM (27 reads)
Thing with problem reports that many may not be aware of... - by London Rayne, 5/19/2013 7:01:44 PM (36 reads)

Excellent point London! That one stumped me in the beginning! (eom) - by EasyTimes, 5/19/2013 8:22:58 PM (13 reads)
Right London. There are simple problems that can... - by BigPapasan, 5/20/2013 3:09:19 AM (13 reads)

Re: Right London. There are simple problems that can... - by London Rayne, 5/20/2013 6:12:39 AM (11 reads)

Where does a new girl start - by JuliaBanks, 5/18/2013 1:02:51 PM (203 reads)

Welcome Julia. First, you can't make your own profile - by LovetoDaty, 5/18/2013 2:29:19 PM (66 reads)
Hi Julia, here is a link... - by xyz23, 5/18/2013 4:26:17 PM (38 reads)
I will send you a pm! Eom - by Madame Patricia, 5/18/2013 4:46:10 PM (13 reads)

lol. Good luck with that. What makes you think she has VIP? eom - by perfectstorm, 5/18/2013 5:05:14 PM (19 reads)
Re: I will send you a pm! Eom - by JuliaBanks, 5/19/2013 2:31:48 PM (19 reads)

Ditto what daty and xyz said. Welcome to the site and good luck. eom - by perfectstorm, 5/18/2013 5:06:54 PM (19 reads)
Welcome Julia, they all gave good advise...but - by unlucky2, 5/18/2013 8:42:14 PM (50 reads)
There is a self-help link above the lifesaver on each board. Read it . . . - by keystonekid, 5/19/2013 10:34:54 AM (13 reads)

new and seriously confused help! - by jeri.bliss, 5/18/2013 12:49:53 AM (214 reads)

Your posts - by Businesses, 5/18/2013 1:55:41 AM (108 reads)
Welcome - by jaydalee, 5/18/2013 1:58:41 AM (73 reads)
You are moderated, as jaydalee said. - by perfectstorm, 5/18/2013 1:46:14 PM (38 reads)

Re: You are moderated, as jaydalee said. - by jeri.bliss, 5/18/2013 3:55:22 PM (41 reads)

one or two hours - by ygbuck27, 5/17/2013 4:50:50 PM (333 reads)

TWO hours w/o question ! - by guybeingaguy, 5/17/2013 5:16:41 PM (246 reads)
1 or 2 ?????????? - by Sphinxnc, 5/17/2013 5:20:26 PM (159 reads)
I Went 2 Hours For My First - by Mr.Tennis, 5/17/2013 5:49:40 PM (167 reads)

2 hor - by jagelware, 5/19/2013 4:39:08 PM (30 reads)

Def 2!! - by Case321, 5/17/2013 6:56:55 PM (94 reads)
Two hours most definitely - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 7:16:08 PM (89 reads)
How much you can afford is another factor. - by HobbyCity, 5/17/2013 11:00:01 PM (90 reads)
Quality and quantity are two different things - by hiddenhills, 5/18/2013 3:52:15 AM (82 reads)
Many providers offer a 90 minute option. - by wow0315, 5/18/2013 11:56:36 AM (54 reads)
I prefer 2 hours. Eom - by Madame Patricia, 5/18/2013 4:49:46 PM (18 reads)
2hrs but it's not to establish a "connection" - by earthshined, 5/18/2013 6:56:16 PM (76 reads)
Obviously, the longer the session the more fun you will have and better GFE . . . - by keystonekid, 5/19/2013 10:38:07 AM (33 reads)
I have a 2 hour min. but would not always suggest you book with a provider for that long. - by London Rayne, 5/19/2013 7:40:31 PM (39 reads)
Definitely test the waters... - by corey10, 5/20/2013 1:02:03 PM (11 reads)

Newbie Here! - by ElizabethScott, 5/17/2013 12:31:28 PM (192 reads)

Welcome Elizabeth!! (eom) - by riorunner, 5/17/2013 1:39:40 PM (35 reads)
Welcome Elizabeth (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 2:03:24 PM (26 reads)

Re: Welcome Elizabeth (eom) - by ElizabethScott, 5/17/2013 2:14:30 PM (39 reads)

Hello Elizabeth, glad you came out to play (eom) - by EasyTimes, 5/17/2013 4:57:39 PM (23 reads)
hello fellow newbooooo - by jeri.bliss, 5/18/2013 12:52:16 AM (30 reads)
Hello Elizabeth and good luck to you! - by wow0315, 5/18/2013 11:38:55 AM (13 reads)

Re: Hello Elizabeth and good luck to you! - by ElizabethScott, 5/18/2013 11:59:16 AM (24 reads)

Welcome Elizabeth and good luck to you. eom - by keystonekid, 5/19/2013 10:39:07 AM (5 reads)

Denied Appointment

- by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 10:27:06 AM (362 reads)

onto the next one - by british_ties, 5/17/2013 10:35:33 AM (157 reads)
denials - by macdaddy1944, 5/17/2013 10:41:29 AM (153 reads)
I've never been denied. But... - by xyz23, 5/17/2013 10:43:54 AM (155 reads)

Re: I've never been denied. But... - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 11:42:22 AM (111 reads)

I'd say London & Jaydalee would be the best ones to listen to on this topic... - by xyz23, 5/17/2013 3:29:27 PM (71 reads)

As someone who gives more calls away, than takes them... - by London Rayne, 5/17/2013 11:55:22 AM (163 reads)

This marks the first time in history... - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/21/2013 5:21:27 AM (3 reads)

Depends on what the escort says (eom) - by hiddenhills, 5/17/2013 11:05:55 AM (55 reads)

Re: Depends on what the escort says (eom) - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 11:29:35 AM (64 reads)

Was only denied once... - by Phook999, 5/17/2013 11:51:03 AM (106 reads)

Re: Was only denied once... - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 1:10:01 PM (77 reads)

Denied appts... - by jaydalee, 5/17/2013 1:40:22 PM (119 reads)

Re: Denied appts... - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 2:19:17 PM (56 reads)
I can't see who blacklists a guy - by London Rayne, 5/17/2013 2:29:20 PM (100 reads)
Re: Denied appts... - by riorunner, 5/17/2013 2:52:19 PM (59 reads)

Re: Denied appts... - by jaydalee, 5/17/2013 3:08:16 PM (65 reads)

Hasn't happened to me. - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 2:14:52 PM (61 reads)

Re: Hasn't happened to me. - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 2:22:34 PM (47 reads)

Honestly i've never been denied, but.... - by unlucky2, 5/17/2013 3:31:22 PM (58 reads)
DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by Zsa_Zsa_TaTas, 5/17/2013 7:31:20 PM (112 reads)

Thank you!! - by tarendelon, 5/18/2013 3:52:48 AM (40 reads)
Re: DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by London Rayne, 5/18/2013 9:09:45 AM (81 reads)

It's not naive, it's a good business practice - by MeetEricaStone, 5/18/2013 5:04:57 PM (48 reads)
Re: DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by Zsa_Zsa_TaTas, 5/18/2013 9:44:00 PM (40 reads)

Re: DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by Zsa_Zsa_TaTas, 5/18/2013 9:49:11 PM (42 reads)

Gosh, you are so funny. - by London Rayne, 5/19/2013 6:38:25 AM (50 reads)

Re: DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/21/2013 5:25:54 AM (5 reads)

Smile & Be Happy You Saved $! Chemistry is everything. Eom - by Madame Patricia, 5/18/2013 4:53:38 PM (14 reads)

Re: Smile & Be Happy You Saved $! Chemistry is everything. Eom - by corey10, 5/20/2013 1:07:28 PM (9 reads)

Usually for someone new I would not keep trying - by earthshined, 5/18/2013 7:10:46 PM (29 reads)

Re: Usually for someone new I would not keep trying - by MeetEricaStone, 5/19/2013 9:29:36 AM (21 reads)

appointment denials - by single47, 5/20/2013 8:57:53 PM (11 reads)

Stood up.....now what? - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 9:57:48 AM (183 reads)

Yup, what you said... EOM - by harbor_view, 5/17/2013 10:07:18 AM (55 reads)
It's unfortunate, but yes, shit happens. - by swimtrekr, 5/17/2013 10:15:02 AM (85 reads)

Re: It's unfortunate, but yes, shit happens. - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 1:31:47 PM (39 reads)

As swim said... - by Phook999, 5/17/2013 11:48:10 AM (48 reads)

Re: As swim said... - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 1:34:20 PM (27 reads)

First off, I commend you for actually calling vs. just showing up. - by London Rayne, 5/17/2013 12:00:12 PM (84 reads)

Re: First off, I commend you for actually calling vs. just showing up. - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 1:37:31 PM (43 reads)
Amen! - by jaydalee, 5/17/2013 1:47:04 PM (41 reads)
You called & emailed her...did you text her too? - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 2:23:51 PM (42 reads)

Re: You called & emailed her...did you text her too? - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 3:50:00 PM (33 reads)

In addition, was this provider well-reviewed here or did . . . - by keystonekid, 5/17/2013 1:20:27 PM (47 reads)

Re: In addition, was this provider well-reviewed here or did . . . - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 1:44:50 PM (48 reads)

How do I upload pic - by Samantha_A, 5/16/2013 9:25:19 PM (61 reads)

The right way is to learn to do a search on this board... - by BigPapasan, 5/16/2013 10:20:29 PM (46 reads)
Also see EasyTimes reply to Cataleya below on Ad posting guidelines (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 6:40:59 AM (15 reads)
try this link - by LauraSeigal, 5/17/2013 3:09:54 PM (22 reads)

I want to chat then meet - by loaded80, 5/16/2013 7:49:41 PM (118 reads)

Yea, it's called the TER PM system. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 8:41:59 PM (87 reads)
Welcome to NYC. Yes, you can use the TER PM system. - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 5:56:18 AM (44 reads)
If you are verified, perhaps you could go to a - by harbor_view, 5/17/2013 10:09:57 AM (28 reads)
While you may find one that will meet for drinks, - by swimtrekr, 5/17/2013 10:17:49 AM (42 reads)

Kind of figured we would not hear from this cat again lol. E. - by London Rayne, 5/20/2013 11:15:27 AM (2 reads)

Starting rates for newbies in Nj & PA

- by MsArlottePhoenix, 5/16/2013 11:00:08 AM (185 reads)

Re: Starting rates for newbies in Nj & PA - by Duplicitouslust, 5/16/2013 11:58:41 AM (100 reads)
Here's my take. You can also ask on the local boards. - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 1:45:33 PM (56 reads)
this is the perfect question to ask a fellow provider who is familiar with your area (eom) - by adrianamonet, 5/16/2013 2:11:26 PM (39 reads)
Charge what is comfortable to you, or ask another provider. Do not ask clients what you sould charge - by ChinaRose, 5/16/2013 2:47:45 PM (59 reads)

Re: Charge what is comfortable to you... - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 8:01:37 PM (59 reads)

So true - by ChinaRose, 5/16/2013 8:17:18 PM (37 reads)

FYI ... - by DerrBl, 5/16/2013 3:51:53 PM (55 reads)
starting rate - by macdaddy1944, 5/16/2013 4:21:05 PM (54 reads)
I Usually See Between 300-400 for Philly - by Mr.Tennis, 5/16/2013 7:40:41 PM (37 reads)
In my area... - by harbor_view, 5/17/2013 10:15:42 AM (26 reads)
IMHO - by Cayden Vaughn, 5/17/2013 1:15:34 PM (27 reads)

It's my first time; how long do you you usually last for the first time?

- by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 10:54:33 AM (279 reads)

Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by mrfisher, 5/16/2013 11:56:58 AM (136 reads)

Re: Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 12:42:05 PM (125 reads)

Shit.... - by SecretMe11, 5/16/2013 4:37:13 PM (114 reads)

Re: Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 12:48:58 PM (99 reads)
Like Mr. Fisher said foreplay: kissing, sucking boobs, Daty, etc. make it last! LOL! (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 1:47:44 PM (77 reads)

I didn't cum til like my 3rd provider date - by Businesses, 5/16/2013 2:34:00 PM (145 reads)

Re: I didn't cum til like my 3rd provider date - by Tallman57, 5/16/2013 3:48:26 PM (110 reads)

first time - by macdaddy1944, 5/16/2013 5:04:43 PM (117 reads)
Only once did I come very quickly. - by swimtrekr, 5/17/2013 10:22:28 AM (70 reads)
Lots of variables including your age, physical condition, . . . - by keystonekid, 5/17/2013 1:23:59 PM (56 reads)

Re: Lots of variables including your age, physical condition, . . . - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 3:59:59 PM (47 reads)

It happens - by scottwilloc, 5/20/2013 10:03:07 AM (14 reads)

ugh im so new at this!

- by THEECataleya, 5/16/2013 10:18:40 AM (132 reads)

Hi Cataleya, and welcome! - by EasyTimes, 5/16/2013 11:01:43 AM (62 reads)

Handling an envelope error... - by gracehadley, 5/16/2013 8:44:39 AM (303 reads)

By all means, contact him, but I have a feeling you may not hear back.... - by mrfisher, 5/16/2013 9:15:07 AM (107 reads)
First, see BadCollegeGirl's thread about half page down - by EasyTimes, 5/16/2013 9:31:02 AM (89 reads)
Alrighty, Miss Grace - by tarendelon, 5/16/2013 9:33:04 AM (79 reads)
On the day of (usually when I am giving general area) I always make SURE - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 10:20:11 AM (104 reads)
Always have dialogue - by Duplicitouslust, 5/16/2013 10:34:45 AM (60 reads)
Of course you should talk about it - by clarence37, 5/16/2013 2:47:39 PM (37 reads)
I Hate . . . - by Nolklylu, 5/16/2013 3:34:53 PM (65 reads)
Yeah, sure, I'd like 2 hours at the 1 hour rate!!! - by harbor_view, 5/18/2013 6:20:34 PM (15 reads)

Wondering what is extra for a PSE? - by cooleryj, 5/15/2013 7:17:43 PM (395 reads)

Is that a real question? - by louisebellelulu, 5/15/2013 11:16:00 PM (235 reads)
in your dreams dude! - by SerenaVincente, 5/16/2013 12:55:55 AM (214 reads)

Re: in your dreams dude! - by JoeMc, 5/16/2013 2:29:18 AM (163 reads)

?? - by jjj1, 5/16/2013 2:27:09 AM (156 reads)
RE: Wondering what is extra for a PSE? - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 5:23:23 AM (152 reads)

...Adding to that.... - by nycad, 5/16/2013 6:01:34 AM (108 reads)

True PSE - by Serafima, 5/16/2013 6:07:10 AM (138 reads)

No, though you are not alone in thinking that. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 7:37:58 AM (125 reads)

bring a fkin camera crew for a PSE lol - by KR1000, 5/17/2013 5:55:07 AM (37 reads)

Free Membership!

Newbie

, you are now a VIP member!