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This is what you posted in the OP:

" And, well, it seems in my experience that the lingerie they where in their ad pics you almost never see them coming to the hotel door looking anything close to their Victoria Secret look. My expectations have been let down many of times."

To me, that implies outcall... she came to your door (as you stated). That is why I responded to you in my first post as such.

All I can again say is simply let her know after she agreed to meet you that you are looking for clothes similar to her photos.

I still don't know any well reviewed gal who isn't going to answer their door not dressed up. Of course they shouldn't answer it in the same (lack of clothes) you see on their site. Would be foolish. You never know who is going to walk by as you open that door.
Posted By: svenodyo76719
T.s.river stark your class is showing. .lol first if you'd read closely, I said to meet them at their hotel room. ( INCALL). Not outcall..second..I never see ladies on an outcall tryst. Thirdly. If you look at touring angels last thread, you'd clearly see that shee " GETS IT " . If you can't handle a debate w/out getting your panties in a grundle, stop following this thread. I'm not wanting to get attacked..I'm trying to gain a better understanding and learn from my mistakes. And, hopefully not make'em twice. But, with that being said, the best lingerie pics are done candidly in natural light. Not studio pics w/ enhanced lighting or air brushing ,plus making the ladies wear pumps to make their legs look longer then they are. Iam entitled to my opinions of what I like.

Most the time I only spend my time with reviewed ladies. And, well, it seems in my experience that the lingerie they where in their ad pics you almost never see them coming to the hotel door looking anything close to their Victoria Secret look. My expectations have been let down many of times. A few have told me you need to request that  of the girl, but. That's not how I see it.  That ad image is burned into a clients mind, and that's what he/she thinks he's getting.  Only to be disappointed what do you vips think???

When I started I did a ton of research about hotel incall protocol and a lot of providers mentioned not going to the door in lingerie because you never know who is going to be on the other side. Yes we screen, but you never know how someone new is going to be until after the appointment simply put. If something goes wrong in the first few minutes before she's given the donation running out into the hallway in lingerie isn't ideal. What if the client has someone else with them, someone is watching the room/ in the hallway, the security cams, etc. It's just another safety and discretion measure.

Also, some clients also enjoy undressing/strip tease so answering the door in a full outfit is therefore appropriate. She's not a mind reader and there is no 'norm' when it comes to clients. All of my pictures are in lingerie and dressed up yet I've had men request pajamas, leggings/workout, sundress, no makeup, among other things- I wouldn't have known that's what they're into unless they spoke up.  

 Simply requesting an outfit is the easiest way to go unless she has some written rule about it on her site.

Thanks for your input anarenee. Interesting variables you bring up. And fair reasons why not.

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It has been my experience that many ladies are happy to accommodate, but they are not mind readers.  

Always best to mention attire in advance. I'm fairly confident a well reviewed lady will do what she can for your request.  

I've been fortunate that not only will they accommodate, but offer suggestions. That's been my experience.

Mfg, you've been fortunate.  I've asked once beforehand,  and the lady answers the door in blue jeans and a brau. Total disregard for any of my requests. Fair to say don't see her anymore, don't know what happened,  but after seeing her 8 times, a guy would think his experiences with her would get better. Not worse..are sessions got more rushed.6

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Yes, I have been fortunate.  

I was trained?? By 2 wonderful ladies.  (You know who you are 😘😘) They were both patient and also set the bar as far as quality companionship.  

They taught me communication is VERY important. Like you, I find I very much favor sexy attire.  

If your repeated polite requests and communication go unheeded without good explaination, then she isn't the lady for you, for these types of things.

...if he doesn't ask think to ask (or forgets to) then the provider could/should double-check with him.  
Personally I always ask before we meet IF he doesn't bring it up first. Just being thorough.

"The ad image is burned into a client's mind, and that's what s/he things s/he's getting." In my best Randy Jackson voice, "That's going to be a 'no' for me dog." The reason why I say this is because you, my friend, are one person, one client. That is your preferred aesthetic. Not every client wants the fancy lingerie and heels. Some want casual.  

This is why when a provider has a "Special Requests" section in their booking form, it is imperative you state your request. For example, my booking form provides a question simply on attire alone. I ask if they would prefer options like sexy, casual, comfy (some love the yoga pants), stockings, no heels, no perfume, et cetera. Many times, I get the sexy-casual look which informs me they want the jeans and cute top but with some sexy lingerie underneath.  

As providers, many of us will go above and beyond to make you feel like a King and treat you as such. But Darlin' you have to provide us the information to be able to do so.  

Best of luck to you!

LJ, xox

Lj. Thanks for your helpful feedback. I think it comes down to upscale ladies vs basic bp girls that are reviewed with no websites or even an assistant to take requests. Simply put, many ladies don't have their act together when it comes to conducting this buisness professionaly. Therefore,  a guy really has to do his due diligence. And, research the lady .

Every well reviewed lady I know that is in or visits Milwaukee dresses up very sexily. I may not be aware of all the "visiting ladies" who come here, but I know the vast majority.

Are you hoping they answer the door naked or are you speaking about what is under a sexy dress?

Be pretty stupid to want them being real obvious and in WI, you are damn well obvious if dressing like a Provider vs a Classy lady.

Not flacking you by any means, I just can't fathom the ones I know not being hot for you.  

If anything, lesson learned and for future times, just flat out say something along the lines of how you'd like them to present themselves (casual, classy, naked). No need to be specific on the exact clothes.

I saw someone for myself (visiting not local) and straight up told her to dress nice in casual attire, jeans. We were going out too and just wanted it to be fun and casual. I made it clear what i wished.

Posted By: svenodyo76719
Most the time I only spend my time with reviewed ladies. And, well, it seems in my experience that the lingerie they where in their ad pics you almost never see them coming to the hotel door looking anything close to their Victoria Secret look. My expectations have been let down many of times. A few have told me you need to request that  of the girl, but. That's not how I see it.  That ad image is burned into a clients mind, and that's what he/she thinks he's getting.  Only to be disappointed what do you vips think???

Look..you've seen this, they advertise with hot glam pics. My expectations is they should look exactly like their pics, unless told otherwise though their website lingerie requests or telling their assistant. And, coming to the hotel door to meet you is b.s., they can wear a robe or cracks the door and I walk in like many do..I can show on this particular provider no less the 3 of her reviews where the guys were disappointed like me. So this is because I'm fucking stupid???.

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Look river stark, they wear stockings, garder,and heels let's say in their glam pics. That's their selling point, that's what draws the guys in. That's how they've marked themselves. I'm not the responsible one. They are. When I go to buy a new truck, I see pics in an add, color, setup, features. They say in stock.i get there and the trucks white instead of grey/silver.and they tell me to special order what's in their ads??? You see the point??

Yeah sorry brah, I hope you were expecting a nasty response to a nasty statement. Providers are not Burger King, we not going to accommodate every nit-picked detail. While we do our best to make a session a great experience for you, we're not in the business of reading minds. Beyond that, there are security concerns with some lingerie, especially when it comes to outcalls and hotels. Staff does pay attention to things and a provider wearing stocking all decked out and ready to go raises red flags, but hey, of you want MPD/MCSD knocking on the hotel room door, by all means, I'm sure you can get a provider to show up with exactly that.

Further, fuck you. We wear lingerie in photos because it's an expectation because of the pornoficarion of style. You guys would complain if we didn't.

And again, as it's already been stated, fucking ask dipshit, an someone may accommodate that.  

Just don't ask me, ever...

T.s.river stark your class is showing. .lol first if you'd read closely, I said to meet them at their hotel room. ( INCALL). Not outcall..second..I never see ladies on an outcall tryst. Thirdly. If you look at touring angels last thread, you'd clearly see that shee " GETS IT " . If you can't handle a debate w/out getting your panties in a grundle, stop following this thread. I'm not wanting to get attacked..I'm trying to gain a better understanding and learn from my mistakes. And, hopefully not make'em twice. But, with that being said, the best lingerie pics are done candidly in natural light. Not studio pics w/ enhanced lighting or air brushing ,plus making the ladies wear pumps to make their legs look longer then they are. Iam entitled to my opinions of what I like.

This is what you posted in the OP:

" And, well, it seems in my experience that the lingerie they where in their ad pics you almost never see them coming to the hotel door looking anything close to their Victoria Secret look. My expectations have been let down many of times."

To me, that implies outcall... she came to your door (as you stated). That is why I responded to you in my first post as such.

All I can again say is simply let her know after she agreed to meet you that you are looking for clothes similar to her photos.

I still don't know any well reviewed gal who isn't going to answer their door not dressed up. Of course they shouldn't answer it in the same (lack of clothes) you see on their site. Would be foolish. You never know who is going to walk by as you open that door.

Posted By: svenodyo76719
T.s.river stark your class is showing. .lol first if you'd read closely, I said to meet them at their hotel room. ( INCALL). Not outcall..second..I never see ladies on an outcall tryst. Thirdly. If you look at touring angels last thread, you'd clearly see that shee " GETS IT " . If you can't handle a debate w/out getting your panties in a grundle, stop following this thread. I'm not wanting to get attacked..I'm trying to gain a better understanding and learn from my mistakes. And, hopefully not make'em twice. But, with that being said, the best lingerie pics are done candidly in natural light. Not studio pics w/ enhanced lighting or air brushing ,plus making the ladies wear pumps to make their legs look longer then they are. Iam entitled to my opinions of what I like.

And you've been told by half the responses here to request that πŸ‘ŒπŸΌπŸ’…πŸΌ Not assumeπŸ‘ŒπŸΌ

As far as your opinion of me or my "class"... I don't care πŸ™„

Gals like you, Vixen, and Tori dress nicely.

He needs to learn to communicate. He also needs to get that for his safety and ours, we are not going to show everyone in the world what we do.  

I tell the gal what type I am looking for, which when i do see someone I want them to be casual and what she likes.

There isn't an issue with a gal getting all sexy for you guys and the well reviewed ones do. Just think for a moment about safety.  

Seriously though some ladies look even sexier wearing some tight jeans and toning it down!

Just ask/mention. It isn't hard.

Posted By: RiverStark
And you've been told by half the responses here to request that πŸ‘ŒπŸΌπŸ’…πŸΌ Not assumeπŸ‘ŒπŸΌ  
   
 As far as your opinion of me or my "class"... I don't care πŸ™„

This is exactly why I take my own photos NOT professional ones. I take my photos in simple attire ! I almost always get the you look way better in person than in your pics. I probably dont get the attention that the fancy photos get, but its me and how I will look at the door. Massages and Companionship vary as far as attire as well.

My photo's are generally of me in swimsuits, or thongs. Simple and clear. I am outcall only, therefore, I come dressed conservatively to your place or hotel and to not draw attention to myself. Once inside, I have a few different outfits you can choose for me to wear, usually a bra & panties, a wife beater tank, and some sort of lacy teddy. If you do not request or choose nothing, then I choose and it's more often then not a sexy lace bra and lace panties or a thong. But to be honest, most men just prefer me Au Natural... No heavy makeup, no high heels, not much jewelry. It's all personal choice. But if you have a request, by all means ask ahead of time and we most will generally accomodate.

Thank you tori parker for you input honey. Actually I like my ladies w/dark eye shadow and flavored lip gloss on. Mascara also. But, not where the eye lashes stick way out and huge.

... the client sees something else when he arrives (OR comes to your door (he should expect her to be dressed down but that she should be able to transform into her images if she uses glammed up pics)) UNLESS he requests something different. With outcalls don't expect a lady to show up dressed in a way that screams hookers.
Providers aren't mind-readers but at the same time I don't believe in putting out an image you can't or won't keep up.

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if you like that look make sure to tell the provider that is what you want

Like everyone else said...request what you want her to wear otherwise you really don't have room complain.

Many of us wear heavier makeup, get our hair professionally styled and wear elaborate lingerie for photo shoots...Why?  Because it's suppose to be a professional photo shoot!  If you are paying for a photo shoot of course you are going to spend a lot of time getting ready to look your best for it.  If you want a better idea of what she will be wearing when she opens the door than take a look at her selfies.  Asking that she will look exactly like her professional pics when you see her is a bit much...especially if you go the cheap to moderate route.  Not every woman has the time to spend hours getting ready for a one hour client...Jeesh it takes me like half an hour alone just to do the acrobatics to attach garters to my stockings.

Amen !! Agree 100%

Posted By: breannabreeze
Like everyone else said...request what you want her to wear otherwise you really don't have room complain.  
   
 Many of us wear heavier makeup, get our hair professionally styled and wear elaborate lingerie for photo shoots...Why?  Because it's suppose to be a professional photo shoot!  If you are paying for a photo shoot of course you are going to spend a lot of time getting ready to look your best for it.  If you want a better idea of what she will be wearing when she opens the door than take a look at her selfies.  Asking that she will look exactly like her professional pics when you see her is a bit much...especially if you go the cheap to moderate route.  Not every woman has the time to spend hours getting ready for a one hour client...Jeesh it takes me like half an hour alone just to do the acrobatics to attach garters to my stockings.

Breanna.. I was laughing so hard after I read about garters.  Same thing happened with me and then when you think you have it set, you make one move and one garter snaps off.  Because of that, I don't do garters anymore.  

Doesn't help that I can't seem to find stockings long enough for me...yesterday I though I found a short cut by just leaving them attached to the stocking but I was wrong!  Lol!

What you see in our ads is only a picture, we do change our clothes often like any other human.  If you like a certain look, let the provider you're seeing know.  I have no problem matching a past look or taking clothing request.  What gentlemen like is just as varied as what women like and unfortunately we can't read your mind.  

I'm short with an athletic build, you won't ever get the Victoria Secrets out of me.

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