Wondering what others experiences have been with respect to the SB's age and time in the Bowl. I classify 25 or less as young, and under 6 months as new. Obviously, these numbers are somewhat arbitrary, and each of us has our own criteria. Based on my interactions with POT's and actual SB's, my better experiences have been with: 1) Young SB, new to the Bowl, 2) Older SB, new to the Bowl, 3) Older SB, longer time in the Bowl, and 4) Young SB, longer time in the Bowl. A generalization, but what are your thoughts?
I think there is some degree of Survival Bias in effect. An SB who sticks around long term has had at least one really good SR. Their expectations become anchored to their best SR, whether realistic or not, and are less flexible.
I've found that if they have just graduated college, there is a big difference in responsibility (messaging, showing up, etc.). So, I would put the "young" at 21 or 22. Then, there is kind of a odd zone between 22ish and about 27 or so. The best experiences I've had have been with SBs over 27--like low 30's. Just my experience.
Time in bowl is harder to measure--lots of them sign up, and then go away for a while. Not sure whether they get anchored or not to their best experience. If they refer to the former SD, I say, "Well, go on back."
I'm not sure you can make a correlation between time in the Sugar Bowl and flakiness (or lack of), but certainly an argument can be made that some of the younger ones are not emotionally mature enough to handle it.
My fave SBs have been between 22-28. I haven't been with any 18 or 19 year olds so I can't really speak to them. I find that by 22-23 they are a little more experienced sexually and are more comfortable with themselves and with their bodies and are starting to show the maturity level that best works for an ongoing arrangement.
They are generally more in need of $$ but often unrealistic about what they have to do to get it. OTOH, those that do understand perfectly can become truly sweet playthings, at least for a while before they move on. Al;so, I like knowing that a POT SB of any age has already had some good experiences in Sugar Dating and is still active and wants more. Makes the whole prelim easier and quicker. sure, sometimes they are basing their expectation$ on their best former SD. But that's ok. sometimes they are very realistic.
I presently have a 44 yr. old and she is great. Older SB will often go on trips dates or any request I want. I had dates with the younger SB but they were more mechanical on dates. They did have good sex usually.
It really depends on their experience and how they relate to their own sexuality. This past weekend I dated 2 college SBs. Saturday was a 19yo newbie who was so inexperienced she barley knew how to fuck. Really! I guided her gently and wish her well but she's got a lot to learn. Sunday was my current atf SB who is spectacular in bed. She turns 22 soon. She teases and pleases and is inventive in the sack and amazingly responsive and cums many times. So I don't think the young ones are necessarily more mechanical.
Maybe the word is more business . the older women 30 and older are more apt to treat me like a girl friend. Text me , call me , want to date , cook for me , movie, dinner etc
I am 71 and am 9 yrs. older than one girls mother and have met the mother. The younger were good sex but out the door once they got the sugar.
great in bed, goes on trips and wants to bring other girls into our bed.
Recently met a 42 year old for lunch. She was hot, but I don't have the resources to have two SBs at the same time.