Just talking was enough.
Had some great text exchanges with this good looking lady. Ive seen several ladies without ever chatting on the phone but this time we spoke. A lot. Well she did.
Here's what I learned. She cant STFU. She has a VERY high opi ion of her looks and brains. She likes to say "like" every other word. And she thinks guys will pay her $500 to watch her stuff her piehole. At lesst that would shut her up! Lol
Also she dresses like a hooker all the time but no touch. Thank god we spoke first. That's a new rule for me now.
I have one POT from out of town, who visits my city on occasion for work. We've been texting to get a little idea about each other. She wants to skype or facetime for better contact, I have never tried it or don't even know if my laptop is set up to do that. I imagine its a good idea, except after she sees my ugly mug I wouldn't doubt it if she ghosts me.
Anyone else routinely do skype sessions before actually meeting face to face?
I have skyped twice with SB if either of us did not have the energy for a meet and greet and it worked out well. The actual encounter was a different matter, but it does build trust both ways and less chances of flake I guess. You can also get a feel of the menu that they are comfortable with during Skype without freaking them out.
Just talking was enough.
With a POT whose pictures passed the not-copied test (so I wasn't too worried they were fake). She wanted to chat by phone and I agreed since I was visiting her city so no chance for a non-erotic meet-up. Really helped seal the deal for both. First we made small talk then were able to gracefully transition to erotic interests and, importantly, build trust. At the end of the call she agreed to BCD first, followed by dinner and drinks (my favorite order of events). Otherwise would have had to meet for drinks first. So this can work well.
In my home town, I prefer lunch meet-and-greets with no immediate play. I find they help build anticipation for that erotic first encounter.