An excellent provider in PDX solved the recharge question for me with a package special. 1 hour of activity, then go have a nice dinner, then go back for a 2nd hour/pop -- all for the price of 2 hours of company. An awesome experience.
For a 53 year old in good shape, what should be the recovery time between pops during a very intensely erotic session with a person that really turns you on? Is it also related to how intense your first pop is?
Now isnt' that just the $64,000 question, thebadass,
Sex would truly be perfect if there was a set point...but there isn't. Every man is an individual and every man has his own refractory period, mostly based on fundamental genetics, overlaid with environmental factors. Sounds encouraging, doesn't it? Ha!
So there is no "should." I really believe that if a man could fuck non-stop, he'd do it until he'd bleed, couldn't walk anymore and just plain expired, like a frenzied animal of some kind. It's good that Mother Nature put that refractory thang in there, isn't it? 
So you best go out there and try to do your own research on yourself. See what YOU, the 53-year-old in good shape are up for. And always remember: it's the journey, not the destination.
In Viv Savage's words: Have a good time,
the Love Goddess
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about how they are starting to see guys in ER with serious damage to the skin of their penises after non-stop sex for extremely long periods of time. Apparently, they are taking an ED drug with meth and using a topical application of cocaine in Vaseline. He didn't say, but I suspect these are gay males since I can't imagine any female taking part in such an insane activity.
Both between different men, especially of different ages, and the intensity of the first orgasm. At least that is my experience.
I don't think "good shape" has much to do with it. I have never been in good shape, but I had no problem popping twice in an hour session until I was past 60. Now that I am approaching 65 that is almost never possible. And the only way that I can recharge quickly is if the initial orgasm is less intense. Only one man's experience.
I think you hit the nail on the head here. My first pop was so intense that I almost lost consciousness. I have never experienced anything so extreme in my life. First time in my life with a provider. Also my first time with anyone that approached sex with such passion. In the real world, for me, it was always done as a duty with little enthusiasm...if any. I think this hobby and TER will be more helpful to me than years in a shrinks office or bottles of antistress meds. Thanks
All I can say to that as I read your words was "Fuck Yah" So much better than a weekly visit on the shrinks couch..unless like I have a client who is a shrink. We talk about issues and Fuck like rabbits. Its a win win. I think that what I do for a living fascinates him somewhat. Therapy for all!
Both between different men, especially of different ages, and the intensity of the first orgasm. At least that is my experience.
I don't think "good shape" has much to do with it. I have never been in good shape, but I had no problem popping twice in an hour session until I was past 60. Now that I am approaching 65 that is almost never possible. And the only way that I can recharge quickly is if the initial orgasm is less intense. Only one man's experience.
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Both between different men, especially of different ages, and the intensity of the first orgasm. At least that is my experience.
I don't think "good shape" has much to do with it. I have never been in good shape, but I had no problem popping twice in an hour session until I was past 60. Now that I am approaching 65 that is almost never possible. And the only way that I can recharge quickly is if the initial orgasm is less intense. Only one man's experience.
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I am 26 and have NEVER been able to pop twice in an hour. It usually takes me at LEAST 2 hours to recover, perhaps longer. And it doesn't matter if I last popped the day before or 3 weeks before. That's just me. I've learned to enjoy trying to last and I for one (as Love Goddess said) enjoy the journey. If it was about the destination I would save my money and stay home with myself! I enjoy getting there with a sexy woman.
By that I mean that I'm almost always very satisfied with one pop during a date with a lovely lady. I book the time in order to enjoy the experience and, for me at least, what is enjoyable about being with a beautiful woman is taking my time, enjoying the ride, and not worrying too much about how fast we get there or how many stops we make.
I Love your outlook!!!! With you all the way. It's the whole shabang...I want it all and I want it in due time not on the ticking of a clock. Passion and a Sensually Intimate Experience can be so much more rewarding than...hurry up n get it done.
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I agree, too. If you just want to pop, beat off - it's quick, efficient and inexpensive! What I want is time to explore, to relax, to play and discover the beautiful person(s) beside me. While I certainly want to pop, I mostly want to play.
I didn't pop at all during my last appointment. it happens once in a while despite my lady's best efforts. She felt badly at first. She was immediately concerned that I would feel like I had wasted my money. I quickly reassured her that nothing could be further from the truth! After all, I had just spent over two hours in the arms of a beautiful woman as we explored all manner of sexual stimulation and basically giggled our asses off as we were having so much fun doing it. A pop would have been nice but the lack of one hardly ruined the experience.
Glad to see some folks understand where I am coming form with this. I never walk into a session with a punch list, just an open mind.
me too... I find that everyone is so different but most of the Gentlemen I see are kind caring interesting Gentlemen whos time I cherish. We have so much fun and its not so important to watch the clock and make sure we do this this and that. Just go with the flow enjoy each others bodies minds and personalities. Makes for a wonderful time all the way around, and I look forward to seeing them again soon. Each to their own though.
Thanks for opening up my mind. I am new to this (first time the other day) and I guess I was just trying to relive a time when I was in my twenties. One thing is for sure, I never experienced anything in my life as I did in that encounter. Good advice, don't focus on the pops, enjoy the ride (mental and physical).
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and I am not just talking about physical actions but the mental side of things.
The mind is the real motor.
mrfisher, I would have agreed with you until yesterday. I was with someone that is not physically my type but her oral skills were on the order of a God given talent that was way beyond anything that a mere mortal could do. Things were happening to me that were so stimulating that I was helpless to resist, then as I was about to explode it would stop one second before, slow down and build it up again. This happened about 5 times before she decided it was time to let me release. I swear my body was on autopilot and the things that were going on down there were so extreme that even though I experienced it defy explanation. Hours later I still had not recovered from the intensity of the experience. It was all physical, trust me, if my mind had anything to do with it nothing would have happened. I would have totally agreed with you until yesterday.
38, I can usually get there twice in about 2 1/2 hours. 2 hours just isn't quite enough time to get things rolling again.
An excellent provider in PDX solved the recharge question for me with a package special. 1 hour of activity, then go have a nice dinner, then go back for a 2nd hour/pop -- all for the price of 2 hours of company. An awesome experience.
I have regular Gentlemen I set certain rates with to best suite both of Our Desires. It is a great deal and always so much fun.
Maybe if I get out to PDX I'll try and hook something like that up. The last time I was in a 2 hour situation and wanted to go for 2 I extended another hour...the lady was awesome and well worth the extra time....
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I'm 54 and can only do a second pop through masturbation after about an hour.
43,, 2-3 pops in a 2 hr session,depending on how turned on i am....
just did 4 pops in 2hrs 2 weeks ago,surprised me but i was on my a-game that visit...