Nope. Never had a surprise visit.
Met this SB about a month ago. She is attractive, educated, and fun so I enjoyed her company (sex is another story). Went out to lunch twice before she finally decided to go BCD. She wanted to do it in her apartment so I could give her more $ because I would save the hotel money (a bad sign but my little head wasn't thinking). She told me she has two male roommates. I was kind of uncomfortable, but she told me they work until 5 so we should have plenty of time during the time.
Yesterday, I met her at her apartment around 1:30, went out for a quick lunch, back at her apartment shortly after 2. We had some wine, started making out, and then got down to business. The sex was OK but not great. She seemed to enjoy it as she got very wet and kept asking me to go harder (acting job maybe but who cares). After not even an hour, we heard someone come in and close the door downstairs (her room was on the 2nd floor). She freaked out and quickly went downstairs to check. It turned out her roommate came back early on a Friday afternoon (surprise!). He then stayed in the kitchen and the living room for another 20 minutes. I had to wait until he went back to his room so I could sneak out.
Like a hooker, she insisted on the full amount even though our session was cut way short. And she promised to make it up to me next time (sounds familiar?). I don't think there will be a next time especially considering the lackadaisical sex.
Im single so I had them come to my place. Nut having to get a hotel room every time is expensive and with the flaky factor you may end up with a room and no girl. If the girl flakes on coming to my apartment no big deal.
Yeah but isn't it a big deal that she knows where you live? I guess as a single guy you don't have to worry about being outed, but have you ever had a gal just show up or otherwise get in your business?
Feel sorry for the OP. Hotels are worth the expense. Both of you can relax and there's always room service...
Nope. Never had a surprise visit.
or the boat. I am single too. Not a Big Deal at all. They know if they ever do that it's done. I have their info also. Nobody wants to go there.
I'm the same way, single, no kids and the few friends that do actually come to my place to visit all know to call me first. My complex has a code entry on the gates and a code on the doors to enter my building, if I don't know you're showing up, I ignore the call.
you could have asked her what agreements she had with her roommates. Have you all agreed that it's ok to entertain visitors BCD in your rooms? If so, what difference would it make if her roomies came home early? And if not, then you maybe shouldn't have gone to her place.
Plus I don't know how a female can discreetly ask her male roommates, "Hey, is it OK I bring a guy back to the apartment for some intimate time?" I would be kind of embarrassed to ask this question if I were in her shoe, so I don't blame her for not asking. I was more miffed that she insisted on the full amount even though the session was cut way short.
Why can't you "just say no" to the demand for full payment?
I never get mad about BSC SB's making ridiculous demands, because I never cave into the demands of crazy women, whether they be SB's, hookers or Civvies.