I agree with KL... 350-400 seems to work well for me. Some will go lower, although my experience is that it can be hard to hold their attention below 350. I had one that agreed to 300, we met once bcd, then she ghosted and I had to up to 400 to get her attention back. I saw her 2 more times at 400 and then moved on.
I haven't gone to 500 but I would think you could get some pretty hot girls around here at that price pointEntering negotiation phase with 2 SB's. I would like advice on going rate. Primarily in NoVa and can easily budget 300-400 per meet for 2-3 meetings/month. Don't want to be cheap, but don't want to pay too much.
Some won't go below $500; some won't go below $800. But $400 should work well. A few will do $200-$250.
I agree with KL... 350-400 seems to work well for me. Some will go lower, although my experience is that it can be hard to hold their attention below 350. I had one that agreed to 300, we met once bcd, then she ghosted and I had to up to 400 to get her attention back. I saw her 2 more times at 400 and then moved on.
I haven't gone to 500 but I would think you could get some pretty hot girls around here at that price point
9.5 or above will probably cost from 600 to 1k. I was tempted a few times, but decided not to pull the trigger. It kind of defeats the purpose of going the SB route if I pay that much. I did pay a SB 600 only because she was driving more than 2 hours each way to meet me. She is close to a 9 in my book so I thought I would throw in some extras for her traveling. It is like an outcall.
I get a lot of intel from friends. Between their experience and mine, here are other key points:
--Ask how long she is willing to play. The range seems to be 30 minutes to 5 hours (or overnight). Try to reassure that it is not an Olympic endurance event that will wear her out, but you want 2+ rounds and multiple orgasms for her. Tell her there will be kissing, caressing, and convo in between.
--Try to tactfully ascertain the menu. Ask, "What do you particularly like or dislike in the bedroom?" If you really want DFK, CIM, DATY, Greek, etc., and she says she doesn't like it, then you should move on, irrespective of price. I'm hearing more and more about limited menus. In this discussion, you may get a sense of how sexual or skilled she is.
--Performance varies a lot. I have seen some SBs who were great at BJs. Some friends have seen SBs who had poor skills or inability to do a BJ more than 5-10 minutes. If a SB has 9 looks, but 6 performance, do you really want to pay $800 or even $600?
--If someone asks $600+, ask her what she is offering. If she says, "I'm beautiful," that may suggest poor attitude. Ask her how good or wild she is in bed.
I am a one-pop guy at my age so MSOG is not important to me. Might be able to pop twice in an overnight but has no interest in it. But I must have DFK and BBBJ. So far, only one SB insisted on CBJ and I passed.
SB's in the DMV area are entitled because well it's the DMV area... there are a lot of educated, successful, and pretentious people. And unfortunately that spills into the SB world here... most women here are 6,7,8 compared to women in other parts I.e., Miami, California, and colombia but they all have attitudes or think they are 10's. the way I work is I always only offer 200/300 the first couple of ppm to assess chemistry. And I only bcd if there's mutual chemistry. After that I'll entertain long term if our schedules align and the attraction is there... I admit my batting average is lower than most probably around 5%. But I can live with that and am not desparate for companionship since I already am in a relationship... I enjoy the hunt and would rather wait for someone cool than to just bed any girl that thinks she's doing me a favor.
It also depends on you as a person. Are you interesting? Are you a good talker? Are you handsome? Old, fat and ugly? If you treat this like dating and not treat them like hookers, they'll usually respond the same. But if you treat them like hookers. Than they'll just treat you like another John/client. Point is, I recommend you put in effort to seduce and make them feel special. But make it clear that they do the same for you.. make sure there's mutual attraction and respect before the arrangement. Most women would rather receive less and be with a normal, fun, clean, respectful, and interesting guy than be with some rich creep.
I wouldn't ask about menu at all during the date unless of course she brings up the topic. I wouldn't even assume there would be sex during the initial happy hour and drinks... just go with the flow and let things happen naturally at their comfort level. Only ask that kinda stuff when you get to bcd. You'll be surprised at how many appreciate the gesture and are willing to give into your requests by just asking politely during bcd. Even though my batting avg is only 5%. All of my bcd is down for bbj, kissing, rimming, hair pulling, butt slapping etc, and CIM. and 90% allows anal and choking. Again it all comes down to how you make them feel on the initial dates... but at the same time.. make it known that the first few ppm are trial runs for them and they need to bring their A game As well because they are also lucky to catch your interest.
Seems like the last five I've met all want 500 an won't budge. Seems like they forget about the dinner n drinks or show or event we go to on top of that. Still in search of the 250-350 SB. Found a few in the past just a lil tougher hunting. Seems like they got that 500 stuck in their head.
That's LA market. In SD 300 to 400 is standard. Im amazed at how many have no issue just wanting to skip the wine n dine and are ready to just fuck.
Same here. She calls me when she wants to hook up. $500.00 firm. Not interested in going out to dinner first or meeting in a bar before going upstairs. I think this SB is on her way to the escort world.
To how good looking she is and how busy she is. The better looking gilrs around Atlanta all want 300 and up. The girls that are 6,7,8 but not really ugly all are willing to negotiate regardless of their "lifestyle" expectation. I have one solid 8 that asks for $100 every time I see her, she's not PSE but she is very GFE and the only thing I can say bad is that she doesn't have a vehicle. She told me she was stood up on M&G 4 times previously and was considering deactivating her account since there were too many guys wanting free pics and a sexting buddy...Remember guys SB doesn't stand for sexting buddy..
I know Atlanta and Dallas are great for hobbyists. Everytime I go there, I always leave with a big smile on my face and are amazed at how affordable hot babes are. I guess it is no different with the SB's.
Lol that was a funny and timely comment for me as I just the other day tried to get my current SB to sext with me. I'm seeing her on Tues and so I thought I'd try ramp up the anticipation by asking her to text me something sexy or naughty. She responded with something that was sexy but kinda mild and PG-rated (I was looking for XXX-rated of course lmao). So I tried upping the ante by sending her a very descriptive text (no dick pics lol) of what I was going to do to her next time I saw her and I finished by saying "If you like this game, tell me more..." meaning for her to continue the narrative I started. Well she did respond that she liked the text but she def did not continue the narrative and send me another provocative text back. I know some girls do like to sext... guess just not this one lol. Your comment made me realize that while we have a good time in the sack, it appears that's where it ends lol. Oh well... 😉
I have several who will send me random nudes or such, thats my preference actually...totally unexpected dirty pics or texts are a very effective marketing tool..LMAO
I told one who offered to send pics and video for $$$ that I had Google and a very filthy vivid imagination no need to spend money for what I can find for free. She immediately started sending some seriously hot pics...another called me randomly while she was rubbing one out so I could hear how wet she was while she was thinking about me going down on her..I saw her last night for 3.5 hours, she's wasn't joking...she was dripping with anticipation when she walked in the door.
My current SB is 500 with 3 dates a week not all with sex.