should have remembered this.
Oh, well, here it is folks:Not sure if there already a thread on what to look for when checking a SB whether she is BSC or not.
Please share the experiences when you discovered your SB was BSC, and whether you found it early in time or learned a lesson the hard way!
And the only thing they have in common is that they have nothing in common.
It's a mine field. Make sure your vehicle is armored.
I have decided that they are all BSC. Why else would they be here. Usually by the second date the background starts to be revealed.
I know a fellow mongerer. He's been seeing this one lady. She us staying in a hotel. Has an ankle monitor due to 2 DUIs. Loves to drink and 420. He found out the other day she us married. Ive told him to run like hell but he wants one more time. What could go wrong. Such is our playground.
And, keep in mind the fact that we are also a bit BSC for going into this whole crazy hobby.
Over time, I've found a group of regulars that (knock on wood) keep their baggage at home and let me enjoy pure, raw, over-the-top sex (for a fee, of course) and I just love it.
Of course, now and then, a few of them with flip out in their own inimitable way, but I know this is part of the game, so I accept it.
Here's my worst close call. I got a message from a SB in a town about 400 miles away. Nice looking, in her late 30s. I asked why she was searching for a SD so far from home since I really want to find someone close to where I live. She said she visits my town often for business. So I said great, next time you're here let's get coffee. She tells me next time she'll be in town for the weekend and I say great, we'll get together on Saturday for coffee. Friday rolls around and I have to cancel due to an unforeseen commitment. She goes ballistic, saying she drove here just to see me, she was already only 50 miles from me, she had no money to get home, I promised her a date, there was no other reason for her to visit, how could I be such a scum to cancel like that etc, etc. The next morning she blows up my phone with numerous texts. She had to sleep in her car, she got hassled by the cops she got attacked and was injured and I better send her $500 or she was going to ruin my reputation all over the internet, blah blah. Well I'll put up with a lot of crazy talk, but once they start to threaten me I am GONE! Jesus H, if I had actually met her in person and declined to have a date with her how much worse it could have been.
So what happened?
full on date?
I've heard of coffee fiends before, but this is ridiculous.
"George: (While preparing bicarb) She invites me up at twelve o'clock at
night, for coffee. And I don't go up. "No thank you, I don't want coffee, it
keeps me up. Too late for me to drink coffee." I said this to her. People
this stupid shouldn't be allowed to live. I can't imagine what she must think
of me.
Jerry: She thinks you're a guy that doesn't like coffee.
George: She invited me up. Coffee's not coffee, coffee is sex."
I've heard of coffee fiends before, but this is ridiculous.
My first monthly arrangement was great for 3 weeks until she got drunk one afternoon at her place and proceeded to tell me how much of a piece of shit I was for fucking her while I was married and That she fucking Hates Men! I just got dressed and walked out the door. Didn't say goodbye, didn't try to figure her out, just walked out and ended it the next day. She said she didn't remember any of it...I told her I don't care if you don't remember it, I was there to see it, hear it and feel it. And, if that's what she thinks deep inside then fuck it, I'm out!
My advice is to get her drunk in a safe place (not in public) and see what split personality comes out. Then decide if you can put up with it...
I've had some strange experiences when they have have been, shall we say, "over served."
*NEVER* have had one be a pliable drunk, either. They've all been mean drunks. At the least, halfway nuts.
There is this girl who says she has depression/anxiety issues so likes to do pot and scotch to feel better. She wants me to visit her and is alright with introducing me to smoking pot or I can just do wine that I was planning to bring along for the date. So should I walk away or run? The catch: she is smoking hot, a ten in all terms, so I am sort of frozen at the moment.
What ya say wise ones?
In my experience 90% are 420 fiends
What ya say wise ones?
Personally, I won't smoke or ingest weed or anything else but alcohol. Just my health and moral background. But I do love cocktails! Most escorts and SB's will flat out tell you they get more horny when they smoke weed, or their best orgasms are when high. To me, marijuana just makes me dizzy and feel out of control. Thats why I don't like it.
But if I were you, NEVER tell them you are a weed virgin as it makes you look old, square and not cool. Just say I'm not into weed, I prefer pussy to get high!
Is there a repulsive spell from weed, or there is no passive smoking like cigarettes? I am weed noob and I already told the truth and probably won't try cause it's still illegal in most states.
Yes, it still stinks pretty bad so you CANNOT smoke in a hotel. Vape is better. There is still an odor but no smoke smell.
But keep her on a short leash and be ready to cut her if she acts up.
The alcohol use/abuse would be more concerning to me than the herb if she really has depression issues... but that's just me. I love cannabis so I'm biased.
until I joined the Army, then quit, couldn't afford to pop positive on a piss test and now work for the Feds so same rules apply if in an accident, so I just tell them that. It's true.
but I didn't quit because I had to, I simply got tired of it. I love the taste of hitting a doob, but I no longer enjoy getting stoned.
That said, ever since joining the Sugar World, I always keep a bit of pot around. I still don't like getting stoned, but taking a toke or two doesn't do any harm, most of the girls love it, and it makes a lot of them extremely horny.