I would NEVER fly in an unknown POT SB, I don't care if she is a 10, (pictures and POT SB's do lie afterall)
Having a few bucks and game goes a lot further that having a lot of money and ZERO social skills. Now I did have an SB that I used to fly in once or twice a month from Atlanta when I lived in Oklahoma, but this was well before my SA days, and she was someone more like an FWB than an SB. She'd spend the better part of a week with me and I would give her around a thousand bucks each time to offset her lost worktime and help her out with some bills. I used skymiles to book her flights and those points cost me next to nothing. I really can't relate to flying in some woman I have never met, and then giving her thousands of dollars a day to be with me. Even if the money meant nothing to me, I still can't see myself doing so.The new SB showed me her messages from all over the country. I just don't get these guys who want to fly in a girl. I'm guessing most of the time it's just a one or two time thing then they move on. I would be shocked if a high percentage converted to a routine arrangement. I'm sure it happens if the girl is a 10. If I was a SB, I'd be highly suspicious of a guy who can't or doesn't want a local girl.
I did have a SB once who got flown to Miami for a long weekend but nothing crazy happened like an orgy, lol. Actually the guy had money to burn but was a little weird. She was quite enamored of the millions but he blew it when he told her he loved her on like day 4. I saw pictures of the cars and place after she came back. I banged her for 350 ppm. She was hot but lousy in bed and I dumped her after a while. When I first met her, she was 32 and had never flown before. She went crazy on SA for like 2 years.
Of course, any and all can happen in sugar land.
I would NEVER fly in an unknown POT SB, I don't care if she is a 10, (pictures and POT SB's do lie afterall)
Having a few bucks and game goes a lot further that having a lot of money and ZERO social skills.
Now I did have an SB that I used to fly in once or twice a month from Atlanta when I lived in Oklahoma, but this was well before my SA days, and she was someone more like an FWB than an SB. She'd spend the better part of a week with me and I would give her around a thousand bucks each time to offset her lost worktime and help her out with some bills. I used skymiles to book her flights and those points cost me next to nothing.
I really can't relate to flying in some woman I have never met, and then giving her thousands of dollars a day to be with me. Even if the money meant nothing to me, I still can't see myself doing so.
Ohhhhh. Pay per meet. Duh.
I continue to get messages from out of state SBs who say they want to meet me. When I tell them I think the distance between us makes it impractical they often say they wouldn't mind traveling for the right man. I never take them up on it, A because it's a lost cause if you don't like her and B she may really be looking for a husband. The ony time I was really tempted was a very good looking young woman from about 5 states away who said all she would expect from me was her airfare paid. She'd pay her own hotel and she did not expect any gift$$. Seemed like too good to be true and it was. She ghosted before we made plans.
OTOH I have met and played with out of state SBs when I've traveled to their area. Honestly their attitude and behavior was much more like a regular TER pro. But they were fun dates.
But just across the border about 90 minutes away. So it's not much of a pain now but could become one in the near future once familiarity sets in. I will cross that bridge when I get there. Why worry about it now？