who used to go to massage parlors. He contracted a minor skin infection called Molluscum. Looked like little zits around the groin and on the thigh. His wife saw them and thought they were herpes and accused him of cheating. He came clean and damn near got divorced. The infection was easy to clear up with a little cryotherapy. He told me he always used a condom but this infection, which is common in kids but considered an STD in adults, is highly contagious by contact and it can be just about anywhere on the body. It can also be spread by towels, sheets, etc. that are used by an infected person.
I know discussing STDs is uncomfortable, but it has occurred to me to wonder just how much risk I am actually taking while enjoying the activities I love with the SBs I play with. I figured, who would know better than the accumulated wisdom of this group? I engage in BBBJ, DATY, even DATO occasionally, and of course DFK and lots of intimate touching. But FS is always covered. Those of you who do BBFS are welcome to continue, but that's a level of risk I'm not comfortable with. I know there's no such thing as safe sex, unless it's just phone sex. But I tell myself the safer sex I practice is safe enough. So here's my question for you guys (and gals) who's risk level is similar to my own: Have you or anyone you know actually contracted an STD while using condoms for FS but uncovered for everything else?
who used to go to massage parlors. He contracted a minor skin infection called Molluscum. Looked like little zits around the groin and on the thigh. His wife saw them and thought they were herpes and accused him of cheating. He came clean and damn near got divorced. The infection was easy to clear up with a little cryotherapy. He told me he always used a condom but this infection, which is common in kids but considered an STD in adults, is highly contagious by contact and it can be just about anywhere on the body. It can also be spread by towels, sheets, etc. that are used by an infected person.
Thanks for this info. I am aware of Molluscum and you're right, it's no big deal unless somebody mistakes it for herpes.
I'm always covered for FS with an escort or massage girl and with 2 of the SB's I've seena and every other woman in the last 20 some years. I have one (a 3rd) SB who isn't seeing anyone and she and I don't use a cover. We've talked that if she ever has sex with someone other than me that she would let me know. She did with 1 other guy 1 time in the last 8 months and it was covered with him.
I should also say I've not had sex with my wife since seeing others and I won't have sex with the wife ever again. Its been probably about 3 years since I touched the wife.
Thanks for sharing this. I too had a SB I used to do BBFS with and we had the same agreement: we'd only play with others using covers and if we went BB we'd tell each other about it. It was quite fun, but that arrangement ended a long time ago.
We exchanged test results after a few BCDs with cover. Since we were both clean we went BBFS with the promise to tell each other if we had sex with anyone else. I've kept my end of the deal and not had anyone else and I think she has too as I have not caught anything.
Heck I did not get BBFS from my wife and the only time I got it was when she wanted to be pregnant. Now BBFS has spoiled to the extent that when I put on a condom for anal, junior goes soft.