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I was inquiring about a unique concept where a "hooker" substantially lowers her hourly rate for a set number of hours per month, and thus...is paid monthly (on the first of each month). Otherwise, Id just charge my usual rates and be happy. In the past, I was in a 'Mutually Beneficial Relationship' like the one I proposed, and it worked out very well until my client moved to another state.

If I wanted off the clock dates and overnights, I'd civvie date or get married! The longest rendezvous I offer is a 4 hour dinner date, with 2 hours of private time. Each "hooker" sets their own rendezvous times and rates, as do I. I prefer married men, who want a 1.5-2 hour discreet rendezvous. I really don't want to hear a guy fart and snore all night...been there, done that. ;)

As I stated in my subject line, I don't want to be a SB, and I'm not on any SB sites. I was inquiring with the SD's here, to get an idea of their thoughts regarding my concept. After all the great feedback I received, I realized my idea was most likely not feasible or realistic.

I'm just thankful I have a place, like TER, where I can get astute advice.    
Posted By: Whambulance
SBs just hang out and do whatever for a while for either a monthly allowance, meeting for more than one time that month,  OR they just hang out for the day/night for a certain amount. Plus here's a news flash for you...sometimes SBs will meet just for a lunch or dinner with no sex involved without compensation! all you are doing is trying t pick up a few new CLIENTS who don't really understand they are clients since you met them in a SB site.  
   
 SB arrangements are much more relaxed than what you are proposing. What you are proposing is nothing more than a "hooker" who is posing as a SB. You  
 You'll have t loosen up your time and $$$ requirements on a SB site unless you are just looking for a score before the guy realizes you are treating him like a CLIENT not a SD.

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And I've decided to offer an incall 'Mutually Beneficial Month-to-Month Arrangement' for a Las Vegas resident.  

I researched provider's incall rates in Vegas, and most are asking $400-$500 an hour, so I decided to offer several different 'hourly per month' options that range from $1,000-$3,000 per month (with each rendezvous being either 1 hour, or 2 hours maximum). All options equal $250 per hour (which I think is a fair rate).

This isn't a threAD, because I know none of you are Las Vegas residents. So, please wish me luck with my new project, and I'll report back with positive or negative results. ;)

Robbin
xoxo

Wish I lived in Vegas, although from my experience visiting there I would probably end up like Nicolas Cage.

John_Laroche575 reads

I've read many threads where guys mention discounts being offered once they become a regular of a particular provider, but have not seen up-front promotion of discounted monthly rates to the extent you're now offering.

I know you said this isn't a threAD, but a similar offer in my home town would definitely get my attention. One or two "book-price encounters to verify chemistry, and then no "negotiating" for a "discount for regulars."
   
Good luck and I hope there's no blow-back from your peers!

GaGambler614 reads

Actually, I think in a market like LV, what you are proposing is a VERY fair arrangement. It's somewhere in between a SD/SB and a hooker/john relationship and it gives you a steady monthly income you can count on and gives the guy a rather nice "volume discount"

Now if you do have a "nieta" that is breaking into the business, I'd personally be interested as well. lol

I wish more providers would offer "Sugar" rates for recurring customers but you are smart to get ahead of the curve. Hope it works out for you!

Just a little different than the lady in San Diego is offering. Lol

For your thoughtful and positive replies. It took me a while to decide to try this, so your kind words of encouragement mean a lot to me.

Robbin
xoxo

Robin, young lady...I like the way you think. Not really clear how the numbers work out but this has my attention.
Way to think outside the box.

Well, technically isn't that thinking about how to get "inside the box"?  :P

is an Untrue Statement.

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Robbin I hope you have hit on something that other providers might be willing to try in other areas. I think it's a win win situation for both. Good luck now with all the gentlemen jumping on your bandwagon trying to set it up.
 Hopefully you haven't bit off more than you can chew? (highly doubtful though)

Please know I'm not being rude by not replying to each of your posts. It's just that I promised TER my post is not a threAD (which it isn't) so I'm trying not to make too big of a deal about my project...except, now I REALLY need your help/advice.

I'm talking discreet, private time only:
1. How many times a month do you rendezvous with your SB?
2. How many hours do you spend together, when you rendezvous?
3. What is the average amount you gift, per hour?  

OK, that's all the information I need for now. Thank you very much!

Robbin
xoxo

GaGambler459 reads

I don't really think you are going to like my answers, but here goes.

1) In the aggregate I "rendezvous" about 20-25 times a month. Some of my SB's only once or twice a month, one I see at least 10 times a month, sometimes more like 15 times.

2) Again this number varies. The SB I see 10+times a month are BCD dates only, and rarely last over an hour. One of my other SB's that I try to see once or twice a week, our dates last minimum 6-8 hours and most of them are overnighters. The other dates I have range between a couple of hours to overnight, depending on the night and the girl

3) Here is the answer you aren't likely to be happy with. The girl I see the most often, I give her on average $100 each time we meet, since I see her for roughly an hour each time the math is pretty simple at $100 hour. The girl I see once or twice a week gets between $100-200 for our dates of 6-8 hours and between $200-300 for our overnight dates, which when put on an hourly basis is a pretty low number, somewhere $15-25 hr for our shorter dates and between $10-20 hour on our overnight dates which usually start on Friday afternoons sometimes as early as 1-3 PM and usually lasting well past noon the next day unless I have golf on Saturday in which case I end the date earlier, otherwise we usually stay in bed until about noon.

On the higher end of the scale, I do see some other girls the most expensive of which gets $3-400 dollars for a date of 4-5 hours, or close to $100 hr, most of the rest get between $200-300 per date lasting anywhere from a few hours to overnight. The most I have paid so far has been $500 for a date, I have done this a few times and in each one of those cases it was for an overnight day of at least 10 hours.

I doubt these are the type of numbers you were hoping to hear, but they are what they are.

Thank you, GAG, your honest information was very insightful and helpful.

Love always,
Robbin
xoxo

Posted By: GaGambler
I don't really think you are going to like my answers, but here goes.  
   
 1) In the aggregate I "rendezvous" about 20-25 times a month. Some of my SB's only once or twice a month, one I see at least 10 times a month, sometimes more like 15 times.  
   
 2) Again this number varies. The SB I see 10+times a month are BCD dates only, and rarely last over an hour. One of my other SB's that I try to see once or twice a week, our dates last minimum 6-8 hours and most of them are overnighters. The other dates I have range between a couple of hours to overnight, depending on the night and the girl  
   
 3) Here is the answer you aren't likely to be happy with. The girl I see the most often, I give her on average $100 each time we meet, since I see her for roughly an hour each time the math is pretty simple at $100 hour. The girl I see once or twice a week gets between $100-200 for our dates of 6-8 hours and between $200-300 for our overnight dates, which when put on an hourly basis is a pretty low number, somewhere $15-25 hr for our shorter dates and between $10-20 hour on our overnight dates which usually start on Friday afternoons sometimes as early as 1-3 PM and usually lasting well past noon the next day unless I have golf on Saturday in which case I end the date earlier, otherwise we usually stay in bed until about noon.  
   
 On the higher end of the scale, I do see some other girls the most expensive of which gets $3-400 dollars for a date of 4-5 hours, or close to $100 hr, most of the rest get between $200-300 per date lasting anywhere from a few hours to overnight. The most I have paid so far has been $500 for a date, I have done this a few times and in each one of those cases it was for an overnight day of at least 10 hours.  
   
 I doubt these are the type of numbers you were hoping to hear, but they are what they are.

250 300 a date once a week. Date lasts  5 hours to over night.

Posted By: RobbinYoung
Please know I'm not being rude by not replying to each of your posts. It's just that I promised TER my post is not a threAD (which it isn't) so I'm trying not to make too big of a deal about my project...except, now I REALLY need your help/advice.  
   
 I'm talking discreet, private time only:  
 1. How many times a month do you rendezvous with your SB?  
 2. How many hours do you spend together, when you rendezvous?  
 3. What is the average amount you gift, per hour?  
   
 OK, that's all the information I need for now. Thank you very much!  
   
 Robbin  
 xoxo

in_vino_veritas551 reads

I think you are trying to thread (pun intended) the needle between the standard provider model and a SB relationship. And I do think it's worth spending time thinking about the right way to do it, as many providers are now doing (whether they say it out loud or not).
With that in mind, take this for what it's worth:

1. How many times a month do you rendezvous with your SB?

It varies a lot. There are about 7-9 SB's I see on and off. With some, the relationship goes back a few years and we may meet once a month or every other month. With newer ones, weekly. Other's are sporadic; may not meet for 6 months and then twice in one week.

2. How many hours do you spend together, when you rendezvous?  

This is really the key for SB vs. pros for me. The dates are untimed (within reason). I'll let her know ahead of time but sometimes it's as short as an hour, other times it might be an overnight. The vast majority of dates end up being about 2-3hrs. There are actually a couple of providers with whom our sessions have evolved into SB-type relationships. We'll agree on the donation and say the date is untimed. If we end up going through a couple of bottles of wine and have to order take-out to reload on calories, so be it. But, these are cases where we've become friends to some extent and they are not doing this on a "workday".

3. What is the average amount you gift, per hour?

Since the dates are untimed, it's not an hourly rate. Whether it ends up being an hour or an overnight, the donation is the same. For me, it's been between 400 and 600 per date (NYC rates).

in_vino_veritas404 reads

Yes, if there's a hotel involved, it's normally on the guy. Most of these gals, especially the younger ones have roommates and can't bring a SD home.  Fortunately, if it's a last minute date, there are some clean hourly hotels where you can stay several hours for under $150. Sometimes, I've had the SB, or I myself will, book a regular hotel on phone apps, which is also quite reasonable. I've been fortunate to have a few SB's who have their own place. One is a smoking hot blonde. She never mentioned a donation or even a range. But, given that she has her own place, after our first BCD date, I gave her 500. She never complained (she has a good job); so that's what it is.
The few providers with whom I have SB dates provide the accommodations, hotel room or airbnb they are using anyway.

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Sorry gentlemen but I admit to recently lurking on this board also. In my wildest dreams I would not have thought that the cost factor would be anywhere near what you guys seem to be donating.
  It sure gives me a different perspective!!!

Me too!  SB's might be out of my range at those rates!  I can do a $200 date maybe once every 2 weeks or a once a month $400-500.   ON LI/NYC.   But then, if its only once a month I might as well stick with my ATF "regular" provider.

SB's don't seem to be any cheaper at those rates.  Perhaps the experience is better, but I don't have a lot of time either, basically just Fridays in the the mornings and early afternoons.  I think I may stick to my regulars.  Its a shame, cuz I thought it might be something possible.

Once or twice a month for my regular SB

Usually 2 to 3 hours

$200 per visit

you is the money is all up front. I assume anyway because she hasn't answered my PM to her asking her that. If we don't click is the first meet is 1k or 250?

I'll stick with my boat sluts.

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Posted By: top
you is the money is all up front. I assume anyway because she hasn't answered my PM to her asking her that. If we don't click is the first meet is 1k or 250?  
   
 I'll stick with my boat sluts.

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I didn't reply to you, or to anyone...I was in a snowmobile accident and am currently unable to rendezvous for any price, while recovering from my injuries.

I will say, after your "slut" comment, I wouldn't be interested in any type of meeting with you! You obviously disrespect women, and I have zero tolerance for that type of behavior.

but google it. There is a whole market for "boat sluts". Shirts, cozies, hats, beach bags, etc, etc.  

It is a "party" lifestyle kinda like a "pirate" lifestyle on lakes and boats across the country. Kinda of why my boat is named 2 Nauti 2.0

I apologize for assuming you knew about it.

I meant no disrespect to women.

in_vino_veritas486 reads

Otherwise, every guy wanting to see her would just say he wants an "arrangement", take a 250/hr date and disappear if he wanted to. So, basically, 250 would become her new rate.
I think she was pretty clear that it's a multi-date commitment, which implies upfront payment.
The issue here is that it's really only for guys who know at the outset that they will want multiple dates.
One suggestion I would have for Robbin is to have two different approaches depending on whether she's dealing with existing clients versus new ones. Existing clients should know whether they want repeat dates or not. If they do, I would think that offering multi-date packages at 50-60% of regular rate sounds attractive. I know I would give that a try for a month with a few ladies I've seen in the past.
For new clients (or clients who haven't seen her in a long time), I would suggest that she meet them at her regular rate for an initial date but let them know that if they decided to move to a multi-date arrangement, she can apply all (or part) of the donation to the "arrangement"; she would have to figure out how much to apply in a way that makes sense for her. So, the initial date would basically be considered the first of the multi-date "arrangement". And if they decide not to pursue the arrangement, everybody walks away the same as they would for a regular date.
I think all of us (including Robbin) understand that this is not an SB relationship. But, it could be a good one for her and clients who want to see her regularly. Wish more providers did this.

For your kind and informative replies! Unfortunately, I was in a snowmobile accident and am currently unable to rendezvous while recovering from my injuries. I was diagnosed with a concussion and bruised ribs, but it seems as though my injuries are worse. I will have a spine MRI, next week, to figure out what is causing my severe back pain.

Again, thank you VERY much for your kind posts, and PM's.

Robbin
xoxo

Whambulance678 reads

SBs just hang out and do whatever for a while for either a monthly allowance, meeting for more than one time that month,  OR they just hang out for the day/night for a certain amount. Plus here's a news flash for you...sometimes SBs will meet just for a lunch or dinner with no sex involved without compensation! all you are doing is trying t pick up a few new CLIENTS who don't really understand they are clients since you met them in a SB site.  

SB arrangements are much more relaxed than what you are proposing. What you are proposing is nothing more than a "hooker" who is posing as a SB. You
You'll have t loosen up your time and $$$ requirements on a SB site unless you are just looking for a score before the guy realizes you are treating him like a CLIENT not a SD.

-- Modified on 1/31/2017 5:38:16 AM

I was inquiring about a unique concept where a "hooker" substantially lowers her hourly rate for a set number of hours per month, and thus...is paid monthly (on the first of each month). Otherwise, Id just charge my usual rates and be happy. In the past, I was in a 'Mutually Beneficial Relationship' like the one I proposed, and it worked out very well until my client moved to another state.

If I wanted off the clock dates and overnights, I'd civvie date or get married! The longest rendezvous I offer is a 4 hour dinner date, with 2 hours of private time. Each "hooker" sets their own rendezvous times and rates, as do I. I prefer married men, who want a 1.5-2 hour discreet rendezvous. I really don't want to hear a guy fart and snore all night...been there, done that. ;)

As I stated in my subject line, I don't want to be a SB, and I'm not on any SB sites. I was inquiring with the SD's here, to get an idea of their thoughts regarding my concept. After all the great feedback I received, I realized my idea was most likely not feasible or realistic.

I'm just thankful I have a place, like TER, where I can get astute advice.    

Posted By: Whambulance
SBs just hang out and do whatever for a while for either a monthly allowance, meeting for more than one time that month,  OR they just hang out for the day/night for a certain amount. Plus here's a news flash for you...sometimes SBs will meet just for a lunch or dinner with no sex involved without compensation! all you are doing is trying t pick up a few new CLIENTS who don't really understand they are clients since you met them in a SB site.  
   
 SB arrangements are much more relaxed than what you are proposing. What you are proposing is nothing more than a "hooker" who is posing as a SB. You  
 You'll have t loosen up your time and $$$ requirements on a SB site unless you are just looking for a score before the guy realizes you are treating him like a CLIENT not a SD.

-- Modified on 1/31/2017 5:38:16 AM

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