A lot of SBs say they are looking for someone to "treat them right," or "treat them the way a lady should be treated."
Now, part of this code could be: Bring the $$$ boys. But, it also could be that simple manners, not being a jerk, opening the door for her, letting her order first, etc. might be missing from their lives. Listening to their "girl talk" is also likely appreciated. Anything else?My sense is that many of them want some kind of fantasy in their life. Be treated like the women in romantic comedies. Guys who will make them feel like that little girl dream of love, romance and happily ever after is true. There are so many jerks out there that nice, respectful guys like us make them feel as close to that as they are going to get. Ironically we are not necessarily trying to play into that fantasy, but just by being decent to them, we tap into it
Now, part of this code could be: Bring the $$$ boys. But, it also could be that simple manners, not being a jerk, opening the door for her, letting her order first, etc. might be missing from their lives. Listening to their "girl talk" is also likely appreciated.
Anything else?
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Most of the guys who contact her are rude and crude and totally disrespectful. they have no game whatsoever. Their bad behavior makes it easier for us to simply treat a girl nicely and she will respond.
The bar has been set so low by some of the jerks that simply being "nice" is good enough to set you apart from the pack.
I have had POT SB's tell me about the guys who lead with dick pics, or the very first words are "how much?"
I remember seeing one of my first SB from SA who told me this. I responded "note to self, no dick pics and NEVER offer to pay you for sex. Got it. Would you like to have dinner?"
A few hours later we were in the sack together. She most definitely needed the money and I gave her three hundred bucks which she accepted, but I NEVER offered her money to fuck me. I just made sure we had dinner right next door to a motel and when I walked her to her car and gave her a kiss goodnight she realized she didn't want to go home alone after all and sex became "her idea".
For some women, it really is that simple. Be clean, on time, well mannered, and respectful. Follow the Golden Rule.
It about being respectful to them.
And yes they like the fantasy life. Good food , too notch hotels etc.
Young men -- especially the man-bun geneeration -- dont know how to compliment a woman. They are too worried about objectivying her!
They not only want to be told how hot/beautiful/sexy they are by a man who has been around and seen his share of women, but many of them really like being told how good they are in bed and how much you like pleasing them.
It's almost ridiculously simple.
You lose nothing by being kind and respectful. Being cordial does not mean being a pussy. Never back away from your expectations and always speak clearly and consistently about what you will and won't do.
I've heard from SB's that say they've received such terrible 1st messages as:
- How much for tonight?
- Are you DTF now?
- Anal?
- I'll go extra for raw.
- Hey, let me take a test drive and I'll hook you up if it's good.
These guys make it so much easier for us to be taken seriously.