Hi Guys,
So I have a sugar baby I've been seeing for quite a while though you can hardly call her that because money doesn't play much of a role. Problem is she had to move back home with her parents. She is 28. I'm almost double that. *grin
Anyway...I'm married and seldom can get away for more than about an hour. Maybe 2 if I'm lucky. Doesn't pay to try and get a hotel room both from a cost standpoint and because checking in takes so long. She is scared to do anything in a car if in a public parking lot or park. Hard to find roads without much traffic, too.
So....I'm looking for creative ideas of where to go to fuck.
Buy an Applebee's gift card, have her give it to her parents, and fuck at their house.
Or the hell with that... just catch her for a nooner while they are at work.
but at the risk of boring the regulars here to death, my RV turns out to be an excellent spot for a rendezvous. I don't know if buying one is in the cards for you or not. But I have a nice 25 foot motorhome which I use regularly for Sugar Dating. Just this past Saturday I drove it 50 miles to a big parking lot near my SBs residence and she met me there and we spent several delightful hours together. The shades are drawn, the wine is poured, the music is playing and we had a superb time together talking and fucking our brains out and then talking some more. She's 21 and I'm more than 3 times her age. *grin!
If that doesn't work with your schedule or budget, then you should stay out of the Sugar Bowl and stick to providers with incalls. Your only other realistic option is to find SBs that will host (which can be difficult until trust is established).
Rent a cheap motel room-Motel 6 comes to mind.......if you can't afford their low rates-then you may want to reconsider your involvement in this process........(Out of curiosity-how much do you pay the gal and is it per event-monthly-weekly-etc...?)
Guys the issue is time. I get maybe 2 hours at best that I can get free. That includes drive time. So I need to come up with a place for quick sex that has a little bit of privacy. On the rare times I can get away for longer, I've been renting a room with a whirlpool tub and we share bubble baths before fucking. 
The room runs about $110
I pay her maybe a $100 every 3rd time I see her. Last time I gave her money she didn't want it. What happens is if you're a really nice guy and make them feel really sexy, beautiful and special and pay attention to her...then the money issue sort of takes a back seat. I'm not playing her...I like her and I try to make her feel very special.
We haven't been able to fuck for a while. Hard to find a place. Last time she emailed me demanding I come fuck her because she was super horny. She was too...super wet and just wanted to be fucked. We fucked in her car on the side of the road. LOL
either take Sweetman's advice and buy an RV or alternatively a van, suck it up and rent a room like the rest of us, or get rid of the wife and then you can fuck your SB to your heart's content.
and of course you are "playing her" you are a married guy twice her age giving her chump change every third time you see her. At least be honest about it. I often see hookers/SB's without paying, but I am single and free to pursue (or be pursued) an actual relationship. Yeah, I am sure she feels REAL fucking special, banging a married guy in the back seat of her own car while back living with her parents in her late twenties. Isn't she just "living the life", you are exactly what they are talking about when they talk about "Splenda daddies"
GaG,
LOL. She does feel special and has told me so and has told me she adores me and loves our time together. We talk daily. Not all relationships are the same and not all women are in it for the money. I just happen to have a good thing going. She knows we will never have a "real" relationship but for now she loves what we have.
Also, not looking for anyone to feel sorry for me.
What I am interested in is hearing ideas for places to rendezvous. I can't buy an RV because about 4 years ago I sold the one I had and I have no reason to buy another one. Besides...you don't think it would raise suspicion if every time I go to home depot I'm taking the motorhome? LOL.
I have thought about getting a panel van though.
By the way, 2 weeks ago I had another SB on her knees in a porta-potty blowing me. Yes, she swallowed too. Been seeing her off and on for about 6 months. Fucked her twice parked in a corn field when she snuck out at night for a "Walk" while her husband was sleeping. We have plans for me to fuck her and her sister for a 3-some.
Just letting you guys know that you don't have to drown women in cash if you have a little game. As long as they are happy with the situation then enjoy it.
but griping about having to spring for a fifty dollar hotel room to get your free pussy just makes you look like a cheap ass bottom feeder. Or is it a bottom feeding cheap ass?
If you honestly are too cheap to spring for a room when getting laid for free, I am afraid you aren't going to garner a lot of sympathy here.
where there are corn fields in March tall enough to hide in.
Away any dirt from the field or corn silk from the husk or any other debri that you may pick up. Where the fuck do you live that you are so fucking far away from a hotel. Also, doesn't she have friends that would let you use their place for a couple of hours that way she could be waiting for you and when you arrive you could get right down to business. Also, are you sure she is 28????
We were in a vehicle parked in a corn field not laying on the ground.
I live in a rural area.
Posted By: Badboy1234
Re: I think fucking in a cornfield is erotic, but how do you explain
Away any dirt from the field or corn silk from the husk or any other debri that you may pick up. Where the fuck do you live that you are so fucking far away from a hotel. Also, doesn't she have friends that would let you use their place for a couple of hours that way she could be waiting for you and when you arrive you could get right down to business. Also, are you sure she is 28????
Have you got a spare room in your house? If so, discuss with your wife bringing in a boarder to generate some cash. She applies and gets the apartment. Now she has a place to live, you have her as close as can be, and as long as you're discreet, who's the wiser?
Gag,
You need to read a little more carefully my friend.
If you go back and re-read what I've shared, I've said that I do book rooms with a whirlpool tub (which you should know are the more expensive rooms) when I have the TIME. Its the TIME that is the issue.
I get maybe 2 hours to play. If it takes me a half hour each way to the hotel, and another 20 minutes to get the room booked I end up with 30 - 40 minutes to use the room before I have to leave.
What I'm looking for is to see if anyone has ideas that would help find a place for when I'm short on time. She is fine with doing it in the car even, its just hard to find a place to park where you won't get seen or harassed. So I'm looking for creative suggestions is all.
I mean you don't seem too picky about the place as you have talked about everything from getting blowjobs in a porta potty to fucking your SB in the back seat of her car. I would think a van with a mattress in the back just like many of us had as teenagers (cue the music of "my Chevy van") would be a huge step up
Ironic because I listen to "Chevy Van" almost daily. Seriously. Love that song.
We aren't picky we just need to be sure we won't get caught wherever we are.
Posted By: GaGambler
Re: I already suggested a van, which you say you are taking under advisement
I mean you don't seem too picky about the place as you have talked about everything from getting blowjobs in a porta potty to fucking your SB in the back seat of her car. I would think a van with a mattress in the back just like many of us had as teenagers (cue the music of "my Chevy van") would be a huge step up
MrFisher,
Thanks for the suggestion. I actually thought about something like that but my wife is one of those people that would notice if a speck of lint was in the room that wasn't there before. No way could I ever get away with having a woman here...and the wife would notice how the woman looks at me and vice versa. Hard to hide lust. LOL
So here are some options:
1. Start working out 3 to 5 times a week, then you have an excuse to be gone for 2 hours. (You have to really work out a few times a week for this one to work.)
2. Get acupuncture, again a nice 2 hour window.
3. Join the Masons. They meetings and events all the time. You can use the event as an excuse to be gone.
4. Work more! Yep, working late is a great excuse to come home late.
4.1 Find a place to fuck at work after hours. I do this and it saves me a ton of time. Get your pussy to come to you.
Guys, other ideas to be gone that won't make the Mrs. curious?
Riley,
Thanks for such a well thought out list of ideas! Working out is a great idea and one I actually have been planning to use.
The work excuse doesn't work since I work with my wife. Hence the time issue...I can only say I'm going to Home Depot so many times and explaining why its a 2 hour or more trip is a problem.
Posted By: Riley007
Re: You need a time excuse, not a place.
So here are some options:
1. Start working out 3 to 5 times a week, then you have an excuse to be gone for 2 hours. (You have to really work out a few times a week for this one to work.)
2. Get acupuncture, again a nice 2 hour window.
3. Join the Masons. They meetings and events all the time. You can use the event as an excuse to be gone.
4. Work more! Yep, working late is a great excuse to come home late.
4.1 Find a place to fuck at work after hours. I do this and it saves me a ton of time. Get your pussy to come to you.
Guys, other ideas to be gone that won't make the Mrs. curious?
You can be gone hours at a time.
Not sure were you live but I have a 36 foot aft cabin on Lake Mead that I use, but I'm single also. I take them to the boat first to screen before they get to come to the house.
I have 2 sailboats now, a 32 and a 34. I've had the 32 for 20 years. It always needs work, since it's a damn boat and they all always need work. It's very plausible to say you're going to the boat for several days to work on stuff and instead do some naughty nautical entertaining. Make sure the boat is far enough away that if you travel there by yourself your wife won't suddenly decide to join you. My boats are 900 miles away. Who knows, after you get laid you might even get some work done on the damn boat!
Damn. Lake Mead. That is pussy desert!
Actually it is not. Lot's of SB's are hot to come to the Lake and play. They love to tan the titties. I tell them about the small coves I can put the boat into and no one will be around. I meet them at the visitor's center and give them a years pass card as a gift. Amazing what that does. Lot's of Cali ladies here on the weekends that I have had luck with too, the odd girl out by herself in a group in the bar. Almost like feeding the carp the popcorn on the walkway to the boats, lol.
Stated the obvious...The SB is 28 yrs old. Have her book the hotel room and you meet her there after she gets checked in. You say it takes too long to check in, there is your solution to that.
Now, if you start working out, the wife is going to get very curious. You better ease into that.
That's a good idea and one I hadn't thought about. I'll ask her to do that for those times where we have enough time that it makes sense to get a room. Thanks!
Posted By: airmantroy
Re: Why has not one person..
Stated the obvious...The SB is 28 yrs old. Have her book the hotel room and you meet her there after she gets checked in. You say it takes too long to check in, there is your solution to that.
Now, if you start working out, the wife is going to get very curious. You better ease into that.
Not sure how well it would play IRL. A lot of these chicks are broke as a fuckin joke and might not have the $$ to get the room. You would have to trust them to front them the money for the room or hope they have it lying around for you to reimburse them after.
Very true, especially the teenagers. One of my friends has found a couple of SBs in their 20s who have credit cards and willingness to book rooms in their area. They trust him enough to pay up front. He reimburses them in cash to eliminate any paper trail to him.
