I may like to fuck, but not with just anyone. I am partial to fit and beautiful rebels. 
So far, I only have two
- If I ask someone if they are free on specific date/time and they are, I have to book even if by the time I get her reply I'm not feeling as hot to trot as when I sent out the inquiry.
- I won't see anyone who demands my real and doubly so a copy of my ID. I have tons of current references, P411 OKs and White List verifications. If that's not enough, we're not a match.
I've been thinking of making a financial rule (like 'under no circumstances will I pay more than X for Y minutes') but would be pretty tempted to break it.
Anyone else?
no feas, no gordas y no viejas
I also have a mantra that I live by, but I don't know if I would call it a rule
"I will beg for pussy, I will pay for pussy, but I will not beg to pay for pussy"
Maybe I should make that my fourth rule?
I may like to fuck, but not with just anyone. I am partial to fit and beautiful rebels.
I figure I got that covered about half the time.
I will NEVER have a GF where I am not the biggest drunk in the relationship.
Or let me re-phrase, I will never "again" be in a relationship where I am not the biggest drunk. lol
ohhhhh no....my mantra is
"The more snakes in the head, the better in bed"
Bring on the 9/9 on the hot/crazy matrix
1. Stick to the budget I've set
2. Only book with well-reviewed providers
And the budget thing goes both ways - don't spend too much, but don't spend too little either
Must see: any girl flexible enough to fold her legs behind her neck
Will not see. CBJ
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giving great oral (BBBJ). I too have a budget and need to stay within otherwise there will be more time than I like between visits.
No deposits unless I've already met her
While I would also gravitate to the BBBJ, there are instances of gals whose CBJ blows away other's BBBJ.
I met one such gal some years ago and was familiar with her reputation, so I took a chance and was amply rewarded. Sadly she is retired now.
I swear though she must have lifted weights with her tongue.
I never seem to pay more than a certain amount per hour. Not too little per hour either.
No CBJ....
No driving too far..
Lots of good input here, so i"ll add mine:
NO CBJ!! I'm going to give her direct oral pleasure, so the same should go for me. DT preferred but YMMV.
In the words of Dan Savage, she should be "good, giving and game." This is the essence of the GFE for me and basically it comes down to her enjoying what we're about and showing it in a direct and playful fashion. And yes, I give as good as I get (well, sometimes I'm just hanging on and grinning madly -- but I always do my best
My expenditures follow my allowable budget. I'm not able to play on a spontaneous basis and must plan my fun times well ahead (sometimes weeks ahead), as it involves travel and arranging care for an elderly parent. So I'm gravitating to women with whom I have had previous great encounters.
Must Book - girl friendly (really bi)
present/former stripper
warm, engaging email replies
Must Not Book - not girl friendly
screening process unreasonable
impersonal 1- word answers to email
offers outcall only
minimum 2 hr sessions
I thought EVERYONE knew that lopaw loves strippers. Haven't you been reading her posts? lol
reason(s).
Like most guys here, I started going to strip clubs and had some decent VIP room experiences, but I don't require a provider I see to have been a stripper.
...a provider does not have to be (or been) a stripper for me to book her. But if she has most everything else that I look for and she DOES happen to be a stripper - then it's a must book for me. I'd never pass someone like that up.
1. Don't book unless her reviews say she does BBBJ (CBJ doesnt do it for me)
2. Don't book if her pics are fugly.
3. Don't book if more than 2 of her reviews rate her as below a 7 for performance. (Wanna see 8s and above on performance, I know reviews are mostly BS, but multiple 5's or below indicate a problem, I usually discount 1 or 2 out of 30 positive reviews, everybody has an "off" day once in a while).
4. Look for providers who are laid back rather than "hustle and rush", I hate jaded pros. Pretend convincingly at least!
5. Look for someone near home (Long Island), traveling to NYC on my day off is a pain in the ass (unless she is reaaallly special)
6. If she is good at edging BBBJ's, book immediately.
7. If the price point is 200 above the "going rate" she probably isn't worth it. (Tried a few a higher rate gals, very little difference from lower priced dates except that I was poorer and she was richer.)
8. I like DFK, DATY and CIM, all pluses if gal offers or accepts, not deal breakers though.
9. Clock watchers need not apply.
If I go over I will compensate. Generally won't be too far over because I am respectful of time, but "to the minute" is a turn off. If I pay for an hour I expect at least an hour. Its time, not # of cups. (Generally I can do 1- 2 in an hour or 3 in 2 hours).
- If I ask someone if they are free on specific date/time and they are, I have to book even if by the time I get her reply I'm not feeling as hot to trot as when I sent out the inquiry.
- I won't see anyone who demands my real and doubly so a copy of my ID. I have tons of current references, P411 OKs and White List verifications. If that's not enough, we're not a match.
I've been thinking of making a financial rule (like 'under no circumstances will I pay more than X for Y minutes') but would be pretty tempted to break it.
Anyone else?