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Why do some guys worry about what other guys do with their time and money?
Senator.Blutarsky 423 reads
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Seriously dude, it's their business. I'm sure you wouldn't want them sticking their nose into your business. Don't sweat it and get yourself a sweet honey to take occupy your time.

I would think that any man who would have to pay a hooker to go on a vacation trip with him is very needy.  
   
Why doesn't the guy just take a friend?  Do they have any friends?    
 
Many of the girls can't stand their tricks but tolerate them because the job pays more than working at the cosmetics counter in the mall. Can't the needy guys see this?

JakeFromStateFarm671 reads

if you keep making me agree with you.  Can't guys just have sex and not need to buy themselves a pretend girlfriend?  I see it a lot in Central America, too.  Fat, old men walking around holding hands with hookers young enough to be their grand-daughters and looking like the cat that swallowed the canary.  When in fact they are just a wallet pig and the young lady is only thinking about the cash she's getting and hoping he finishes quickly so she can shower him off her.
Now, I don't mind taking a hooker I like to dinner wherever I happen to be.  And I'm happy to pay for her dinner.  I just won't pay to watch her eat it.  I've even thought, a time or two, of taking a girl on a vacation in Costa Rica.  But it would have to be a local girl and the price for her time would be damn low.  I haven't done it yet.

GaGambler577 reads

and this is the SECOND time in as many posts that I too have agreed with him.

Now I have been known to take hookers on multi day dates in Latin America, but never for more than a couple of day.  

A couple of years ago I made plans to spend about a week with the little tica that you've met several times, Daniella. We were going to go up to Tamarindo for a week or so and hang out to get away from things for a few days. I told another buddy of mind about my plans and he busted up laughing, he bet me I wouldn't last more than a day with her. Well I certainly proved him wrong as I lasted two whole days before bringing back home and dropping her off. lol Yes, two days is about my limit, and that's at a price per day less than you guys pay per hour in NY.

JakeFromStateFarm581 reads

She was looking quite good.  But don't worry, I didn't fuck her.

GaGambler273 reads

Who she is fucking is hardly worth worrying about, even an old goat fucker like you.

She had GF delusions, I sort of doubt I will ever fuck her again. But she had a REALLY cute fucking ass.

souls_harbor278 reads

You are contrasting escort relationships negatively compared to "real" girlfriend or spousal relationships.  You are not cynical enough.  Some lucky dudes have wives they love to be around for weeks on end.  I think this is not so common.   Consider that 50% of marriages end in divorce rape of the husband.  And girlfriend ... the reason they are girlfriends and not wives is because their shelf life is probably a few months to a few years.

Humans are capable of short term friendships -- they don't all have to be fairy tale love stories -- any if you are cynical enough, you know they usually aren't.

You have a point. Why not wait till they arrive at their destination before taking one of the local girls? Or better yet, why not book reservations at a sex resort where the escort actually works for the resorts, and get tested regularly. Many caribbean islands have them, most notably the Dominican Republic. The only exception would be if they're going on a cruise ship, then they may need to take the escort along with them from their place of departure, unless the cruise ship hires on board escorts which I don't say it's impossible, it's just that I've literally never heard of that. Wouldn't be a bad business idea though, after all, they wouldn't have to worry about any legal issues because when you're out at sea, the captain's word is law.

DatyRookie494 reads

Some ladies you don't mind spending more than one hour with. It's an extension of the fantasy. Why NOT????

Have a weekend of fantasy filled romance, pleasure, and good times?  

There are some  appointments where the chemistry and companionship is that good. Not all every encounter, but some yes.  
Yes it's more expensive, but the experience is well worth it. I've dne weekends before. Had a blast and zero regrets.

Posted By: Oldtimemonger
I would think that any man who would have to pay a hooker to go on a vacation trip with him is very needy.  
     
 Why doesn't the guy just take a friend?  Do they have any friends?    
   
 Many of the girls can't stand their tricks but tolerate them because the job pays more than working at the cosmetics counter in the mall. Can't the needy guys see this?

That is so untrue. I have had the best vacations and most memorable times with clients. Yes, they are paying me for my time but the desire to both have a good time and be shown a good time is strong on both sides. I have often said that Ive met the best men as clients. Out in the civilian world men are basically lazy. I rarely if ever get taken on vacation. Mostly I get taken for granted which is why I don date much. Ive been spoiled by clients whose desire to please me with shopping spa days and pampering, Champagne breakfasts and surprises.  
Then we go to the main stream, guys which really dont try that hard. I get fed up. Im thinking, why should I fuck you for free and invest my time with you all the while you have no idea how well my clients treat me and spoil me. Meh..... I stay single.

... from a few providers, including my ATF... that is, that most of their clients treat them better than their boyfriends/SOs ever did.

But there's only a handful of providers I know whom I'd consider taking on a multi-day date.  There needs to be strong mutual trust and compatibility for that to work.  I mean, you're not going to have sex all the time. I've only been on one multi-day mini-vacation with a provider. Not because I wouldn't enjoy it (that one was fantastic), but it's just not practical for one or more reasons.

Right? I also like most of my clients. I screen to avoid the ones I might hate!  

Indies do it better:)

Well-espoused, and I couldn't agree more!!
Again, Ms. Tantraerica, BRAVISSIMO!  :)

GaGambler385 reads

No sex, no blow job, no kissing, no DATY, no anal, pretty much NO NOTHING.  

Yes, it sounds like a great deal for you, for the guys it's pretty much like bringing their wife along on vacation. lol  

I can see why you would love to go on vacation with a client, my question is why in the hell would a guy want to bring you?

Sox.B4.Shoes304 reads

After we cum, so who the hell is paying for a vacation!!.  I can't think of a more horrible time than shopping for shoes and handbags with some money grubbing chick.  Are you constantly in his wallet or scheming how to milk this sucker out of his cash?  I'll pass on you too... But is I ever need a 30 minute HJ...

Posted By: Sox.B4.Shoes
After we cum, so who the hell is paying for a vacation!!.  I can't think of a more horrible time than shopping for shoes and handbags with some money grubbing chick.  Are you constantly in his wallet or scheming how to milk this sucker out of his cash?  I'll pass on you too... But is I ever need a 30 minute HJ...
Ouch,  
you guys are so fricken mean. Ive never looked at it this way. Im actually a lot of fun, and had some really great mutually beneficial vacations with some great guys over the years. Ive been to  places that I probably couldn't afford to go on my own. That in itself is part of the draw. Why do you have to be so condescending. Perhaps I should not even bother writing if you guys are going to be so rude. I thought the original guys post was rude by calling a guy a loser becasue he pays to take women on vacation. hasn't it been said that you pay either way.... Wife- Girlfriend or Escort or professional companion, however you slice it you pay either way. Why not hedge your bets and take a girl that you already know your attracted to, have chemistry with and its given your going to  have a great NO strings attached vacation. Then you come home with memories instead of a headache from a stage five clinger you can't get rid of. Yes, I know you are paying me to leave. I know my fucking place. Its not my first rodeo.  But Im not charging by the hour either , or milking anyone. But you know what....Baby may need some new shoes. Ive never asked for anything that wasn't freely given, and that juicy energy goes both ways. Fuckin be Nice!!

Posted By: GaGambler
No sex, no blow job, no kissing, no DATY, no anal, pretty much NO NOTHING.  
   
 Yes, it sounds like a great deal for you, for the guys it's pretty much like bringing their wife along on vacation. lol  
   
 I can see why you would love to go on vacation with a client, my question is why in the hell would a guy want to bring you?
Because a vacation is different.  I don't sell sex for money. I offer my time and companionship. Ive met a few guys here and there that I hit it off with and agreed to see on what I consider a more personal basis,  Im not charging them by the hour. Its perhaps  shopping, and dinners maybe helping me out with something down the road- like a sugar daddy kinda thing.  I please you and you please me. This may include a trip to the spa or some new shoes who knows. But you have my undivided and very agreeable attention. This circle is small and the men tend to stay in my life as mentors and friends.  I am big on Chemistry, and what happens between two consenting adults organically just happens. I stay in my comfort zone of what services I am willing to provide to anyone that agrees to my fee, and that ends when the time is up. A vacation is a totally different situation. I want it to feel more authentic so I don't charge or advertise that as an escort would. However,  There's just something about being treated like a queen that makes me Hot. If your rubbing me the right way I most certainly return the favor. Im not here for a long time but Im certainly here for a GOOd Time. XO Erica

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GaGambler358 reads

but that you go further with guys you click with?  

I can't find any fault with that, but once again in the context of this thread, you aren't really going on vacation with a guy as a "hooker", you are going with a guy you feel some kind of attraction for. VERY different than what the OP is talking about.

Some guys just love misery ...ever see the wives at Walmart?
I see them and think, "Some poor bastard is married to that."

One man's misery is another man's joy. Some men aren't just looking for a quickie. I know because I've never offered them and if you look I've been doing this for a while. People seek companionship for a variety of reasons.  Some men enjoy the pleasure of a woman's company AS WELL AS an amazing blowjob, massage, sexy time. Some just want to have NSA sex - in and out. There is a lid for every pot!

Id also like to add that just because I dont offer an hourly rate does not mean that Im not DTF or like my pussy eaten. Gas, Grass or ASS - I read the rules. Why do you have to be so mean? At the end of the day Im still a provider. I just dont want to offer it all up to anyone that has the cash. But you can bet your ass that if we hit it off and I agree to go on vacation with you; This NSA experience is mutually beneficial or why bother on either end.

...A guy who wants to take her on vacation most likely has seen her before and knows her limitations so he must be taking her for other reasons.  Just because you, I, and 99% of hobbyists wouldn't take a masseuse on vacation doesn't mean there aren't some guys who would take her.  

I thought you were tolerant of the way other guys hobby, even if that's not the way you roll.  Besides, I'd bet you'd have a better time with Erica than you had on that 10 day vacation in Hell, er, Hawaii.

GaGambler378 reads

The OP was talking about the foolishness of taking a "hooker" on vacation. I still maintain that if it's foolish to pay a hooker to vacation with you, then it's several times more foolish to pay "masseuse", a masseuse" who gets close to hooker rates no less, on vacation with you.

Even you concede that "you, I and 99% of hobbyists" wouldn't do so. To the other 1%, and I might argue that even 1% is a VERY generous number, they most certainly don't need my approval, much less my permission to bring anyone they want with them on vacation, and to pay them whatever ridiculous amount they chose.  

Now while we are conceding thing, I fully concede that anyone, even Erica would be a LOT more fun than that ten day trip to "Hellawaii" that I went on. In hindsight, I WISH I were paying that girl, if I had been paying her I would have put her on a plane back to the mainland on the second day, but since she was with me as my GF that really was not an option, although I did consider it. lol

I didn't mean to hurt Erica's feeling, but I do stand behind my words.

She's Massage, and it's Awesome.

A lot of massage girls will not put in writing  
  that there's fucking or any hanky-spanky going on.

They don't want to have it in the guys head that they are Available to Fuck just Anyone.
When she does decide you are fuckable,
   it's going to be Goooood.

Vacations packages are usually between two people that have good chemistry
and that's what makes a Vacation with a special provider memorable.

and being an asshole and I'm not referring to the taint.

To  each their own. The OP is being judgemental imho as are many if the responses... responding like an asshole is an option and clearly a life choice for many here  

I was engaged to a millionaire when I was 23 and (later found out he was 63 and not 43).

The cheap ass never took a vacation nor took me.

Too bad I feel bad because I had it set to see anyone else I wanted. I just couldn't do it.

Posted By: tantraerica
That is so untrue. I have had the best vacations and most memorable times with clients. Yes, they are paying me for my time but the desire to both have a good time and be shown a good time is strong on both sides. I have often said that Ive met the best men as clients. Out in the civilian world men are basically lazy. I rarely if ever get taken on vacation. Mostly I get taken for granted which is why I don date much. Ive been spoiled by clients whose desire to please me with shopping spa days and pampering, Champagne breakfasts and surprises.  
 Then we go to the main stream, guys which really dont try that hard. I get fed up. Im thinking, why should I fuck you for free and invest my time with you all the while you have no idea how well my clients treat me and spoil me. Meh..... I stay single.

because they can't or don't want to have sex with their friends.  

Also, don't presume all the girls hate everything about it but the money.

That being said, I can't ever imagine wanting to take a provider on vacation and don't see why anyone else does, either.  

Maybe if I was a billionaire I'd try it.

for her time, but for all the other accommodations, I say good on him.  At the end of life's journey all that material stuff doesn't mean anything - not the size of your bank account, not how many or what kind of cars you have, etc.  Whether your rich or poor - 6 feet under is still 6 feet under.  

I NEVER pay for their time, only their expenses.  These are usually regulars or outside girlfriends that have plenty of other ways to get money off of me in their respective roles.  Lol

...K-girls.  An "indie" as they're called on the K-board, won't go away with you for a weekend OTC even if you're a regular.  A K-girl, however, won't mind the OTC because she gets a chance to get away from the apartment she's been cooped up in six days a week, twelve or more hours a day.

GaGambler310 reads

Ok, if she likes you "A LOT".

The big difference in this regard of course is the fact that an indy will have a life of her own, complete with family, friends and even children at home that fill her time. A K-girl OTOH will be finding herself thousands of miles from home with no real friends and a job that is more than just "full time" as K-girls quite often find themselves working 100 hour weeks. So yes your point is well taken.

That said, Indies occasionally find themselves getting involved with clients, I don't see any indies going away for an OTC weekend "just because" you are a regular, but all hookers are women first and sometimes they simply "like a guy" and want to spend time with him with money not being the driving force.

Because they want to take someone on vacation. Someone they can have a NSA trip and sex with. They can also afford it. Why do you care again?

If the poor lonely guy just wanted sex and was going to Europe he could get all the sex he wants legally from the beautiful Euro-babe escorts.

Even in the USA there are beautiful escorts in every major city to take care of his sexual needs.

I feel so bad for them.  Is it just loneliness or a guy who is so low on self-esteem that he thinks a paid friend is a real friend? The emptiness they must feel knowing that they had to buy friends must be overwhelming.

This isn't about what they can afford. It's about the why do they do it?

Are you in a fraternity? Because then there would be a lot of lonely men here who have been "paying for friends" for decades.  

LJ

You're telling me that any man who gets an escort is lonely and stupid and paying for friendship- that includes you. They do it because they can. I'm going on a trip next week with a client. He isn't stupid or lonely. He's simply admired me for months and wants to finally meet. It's all about fantasy and wanting to treat a woman to a nice time while having fun with her and enjoying yourself.

People who call providers are not stupid or lonely. They just don't want to deal with the regular BS of dating.

I get laid all of the time but I still will occasionally call a provider up. My choice. I get what i want and enjoy it. I want a good time and attention without the drama. WTF cares? I am very sure it is the same for the guys too.

Posted By: anarenee
You're telling me that any man who gets an escort is lonely and stupid and paying for friendship- that includes you. They do it because they can. I'm going on a trip next week with a client. He isn't stupid or lonely. He's simply admired me for months and wants to finally meet. It's all about fantasy and wanting to treat a woman to a nice time while having fun with her and enjoying yourself.

when you take a provider on Vacation with you
              than when you take your wife with you.

Let's face it,  
  good whores know how to help you have FuN.

I would argue that the clients who opt to take an escort on vacation are not needy, rather they can just afford it.  

When I go on vacations with my friends it's a constant struggle of what are we doing, where are we going, what time is this. Blah, blah, blah. My guy friends complain of the same thing. Don't get me wrong I enjoy a good vacay with the girls but I don't have time for the indecisiveness.  

However, to go on vacation with a client is phenomenal. The boundaries and expectations are clear from the beginning. Half the time, things are planned out that not only please the client but also the escort. Plus, it's with a person who understands when the trip is over, it's over and she will see you the next time it's requested.

I'll be real, I could not go on a trip with someone I do not click with though. To be in a place I"m not familiar with with someone who makes me feel awkward? No, the money is not worth that. I want to genuinely vibe with the person I'm with. That's one of the reasons my trip to London with a client was so awesome - we click and we know each other's quirks. We had boundaries and expectations in place. We had things planned with room for spontaneity. Oh, and really great sex more than once a day because I'm insatiable.

Oh, and clients do this because they can also afford it. I'm wondering why is there such a concern?  

LJ, xox

Seriously though I've often wondered about this and it's certainly not needy men who want to vacation with me, it's men with a high level of disposable income, who don't want the stress and fear of a girlfriend/ mistress, but who want to spend time with someone they trust, like, lust for and will have a guaranteed good time with on many levels that ends when it ends.
Why is that so hard to understand? I'm very well educated, not just avoiding a job in the mall as one charmer put it, I can chat and laugh about any topic, offer therapy both mental and physical, enjoy wine and dining with a client, participate in sport, sailing, surfing, skiing and enjoy a mans company.
The men who book me aren't concerned about my fee and are looking for considerably more than multiple pops into some downtrodden Central American girl young enough to be their granddaughter - but hey if that's all you can afford good luck to you..........

The way some men talk about us on this board just makes me glad the bulk of my clientele are NOT board members

Posted By: clairecavendish
Seriously though I've often wondered about this and it's certainly not needy men who want to vacation with me, it's men with a high level of disposable income, who don't want the stress and fear of a girlfriend/ mistress, but who want to spend time with someone they trust, like, lust for and will have a guaranteed good time with on many levels that ends when it ends.  
 Why is that so hard to understand? I'm very well educated, not just avoiding a job in the mall as one charmer put it, I can chat and laugh about any topic, offer therapy both mental and physical, enjoy wine and dining with a client, participate in sport, sailing, surfing, skiing and enjoy a mans company.  
 The men who book me aren't concerned about my fee and are looking for considerably more than multiple pops into some downtrodden Central American girl young enough to be their granddaughter - but hey if that's all you can afford good luck to you..........  
   
 The way some men talk about us on this board just makes me glad the bulk of my clientele are NOT board members
How do you know you have never seen an asshole board member?? Some guys are smart enough to not admit it!  

 I'm married so taking an escort on vacation is not an option. If some guy wanted a travel companion you would be a great choice. Most ladies are not on your level conversation wise. Some girls are almost painful to converse with.

Personally I can't imagine paying for companionship because when I was younger and single I had no problem finding girlfriends to take on vacation.

Getting sex on demand can only be done seeing escorts. Escorts are everywhere.

Travel companions are not hard to find unless a guy has zero personality. That's why I don't understand why guys pay.

Posted By: Oldtimemonger

   
  I'm married so taking an escort on vacation is not an option. If some guy wanted a travel companion you would be a great choice. Most ladies are not on your level conversation wise. Some girls are almost painful to converse with.  
   
 Personally I can't imagine paying for companionship because when I was younger and single I had no problem finding girlfriends to take on vacation.  
   
 Getting sex on demand can only be done seeing escorts. Escorts are everywhere.  
   
 Travel companions are not hard to find unless a guy has zero personality. That's why I don't understand why guys pay.
I think the answer has been pointed out by people who didn't realize they were providing an answer. Here's my situation:

1. I'm 66. I'm not going to be able to attract any women that I'm attracted to. Simple as that. Same goes for probably most guys on this board (not age, but getting women they're really attracted to). You had no problem getting girlfriends to travel with when you were young. Try it now. ;)
2. Yes, there are "travel companions", but I don't want to spend a week or two with someone whom I may not get along with. As I mentioned in another post, I wouldn't even want to travel with providers I've seen multiple times for three to five hours per session. I've only found one provider I'd want to travel with. I'm sure nobody on this board wants to spend that much time with someone whose company he/she doesn't enjoy.
3. There are escorts in every country, but going on a trip with someone whose company you enjoy, and who is fun in and out of bed, can make the trip something really special. If I hadn't come across the provider I want to travel with, I had planned on hooking up with a couple of providers in my destination country.  

There's more, but it's personal. I don't understand why people do all sorts of things, including things in the P4P world, but I figure they know what they want for good reason.

Exactly! It's not just about the sex - though it is fun. It's about the connection, the adventure, and the FUN! I want my companion to be smiling and laughing as often as possible. It's a break for my client from the business and the mundane. They get to be with someone who holds no judgements and is just there for them. I think another reason I get asked to travel often is because of my thoughts on traveling.  

Don't forget your passport on the breakfast bar or in an empty wine box. Otherwise you & your Uber driver will be in a race against the clock to catch an international flight. By the way, we won.  
Eat... like a local.
Let people in. Yes... talk to strangers. The community knows more than us.
Say yes to adventure more often than no. Age is irrelevant to adventure. Once you're over the hill, you pick up speed.
Walk a lot and get lost.  
Don't (insert expletive). I know we're tired but let's find something to admire.
Never pass up the opportunity to use the facilities... seriously.

When I think back on my one mini-vacation with a provider, I don't think about the sex--which was great. I remember debating with her over a long candlelit dinner about politics, religion, and science. About a wonderful day walking around a park.  About laughing our guts out watching a silly classic movie. About cuddling in bed late at night talking about life, love, and the Universe. I learned a lot about her on that trip, what an amazing person she is, and she learned a lot about me.  It was the most fun I've had in a long time.

Of course I paid her.  She was taking time away from her business and it was only right that I reimbursed her for what she could have made had she stayed home. She--and other providers, and other self-employed people--don't get paid vacation days.  

I couldn't agree more with you London. Well said.

I was going to take a trip to Europe by myself. I've done a lot of traveling, but almost always by myself, as there hasn't been anyone else I'd want to spend that much time with. Not my ex, not my best friend.

Enter a provider I met a few months ago. I realized that spending a long trip with her could be really, really fun, much more so than going alone. She's just the kind of person who would make the trip special. I wouldn't even think of taking other providers whom I've seen for two to five hours at a time, and have seen several times. But this one is just the perfect fit for this trip.

For me it's a lot of money, but I think it could be one of the greatest experiences of my life. She's giving me a very deep discount. Were it not for that, I wouldn't consider it. The fact that she's giving me a deep discount at a time when she's pretty busy suggests to me that she enjoys my company as well. She's said so, but she's proved it to me with her price.

I have a couple of Hobby buddies where we keep it as friends only. I pay my own way. Just the company.

I can't get that crazyness from friends. They'd be like "WTF did you just say?" lol

Posted By: mrfisher

Senator.Blutarsky424 reads

Seriously dude, it's their business. I'm sure you wouldn't want them sticking their nose into your business. Don't sweat it and get yourself a sweet honey to take occupy your time.

Why do some guys pay for me to piss on them? Why yuck anyone's yum.

GaGambler438 reads

and likely to be the best answer EVER. lol

But just like I will never completely understand why a guy (or a woman) would get pleasure by being pissed on, I will never completely understand why a guy (or lopaw) would pay thousands, or even tens of thousands to have just one woman help him enjoy his vacation.

ROGM267 reads

I took a provider to Vegas three years ago. Had a great time. Although I don't see her anymore the memories are great. A shame I can't see her anymore. Oh well. I might be taking my new provider to Florida this year.

Yes, I'm needy. Or was.

Years ago my wife and I went on vacations to places where the entertainment, the gourmet cuisine, and the wines were all stellar. But there was no sex. There hadn't been any in the marriage for years.

One day I woke up and asked myself, "Why am I going on trips with a woman who isn't catering to a basic need of mine? There must be tons of gals who would be thrilled to have the opportunity to experience such venues and who would happily fuck my brains out at night."

Not long afterwards, I met a divorcee who volunteered evenings at the same place I did. We would frequently visit a local bar afterwards to drink and talk. Without whining about troubles at home, I offered her a chance to go with me on a business trip to San Francisco and enjoy what that city has to offer. She liked the idea, and she particularly liked me as a prospective traveling companion. We went. Neither she nor I ever had a better time in our respective lives. Pleasure by day and by night.

You can guess what happened after we returned. Strings grew. She badgered me to divorce my wife and marry her. Too bad. That was not in the cards.

Now, years later, I'm single again, have just taken early retirement, and want to travel in a grand way. Paris. Tuscany.  

There isn't a civilian divorcee or widow whom I'd consider taking. Even if there were some choices, I'd need to find one whose taste in music and love of gourmet dining matches mine.

So I thought of sending some well worded e-mails to a select set of local providers and seeing who comes back as interested and well matched. Once a winner is picked, we would go off to the destination and live it up! Compatible in tastes. Speaking the same language. Happy in bed.

A few weeks ago, I posted about my thinking. Most of the hobbyists who responded said I should "rent locally" once I arrive at the European destination. But how would I quickly find a good match to my tastes in the short time available? And what about the distractions of language difference as we wined and dined at restaurants?

So I think that a stateside contest to select a provider companion may be the best route.

ROGM327 reads

So what the Hell? Might as well go take a provider on vacation. You can't money with you when you die. So might as well enjoy life.

We only live  once!

Posted By: ROGM
So what the Hell? Might as well go take a provider on vacation. You can't money with you when you die. So might as well enjoy life.

ROGM291 reads

Posted By: TurbayVeronica
We only live  once!
Posted By: ROGM
So what the Hell? Might as well go take a provider on vacation. You can't money with you when you die. So might as well enjoy life.

 
Thank You!

Not everyone has as a GF or a FWB.  Perhaps that is why they are in the "hobby" to begin with, so their only option is to take a favorite provider with them as a traveling companion.  

Personally, I often prefer to travel solo and then see providers in the city(ies) that I'm visiting when I'm on vacation.  Although, I have taken an ATF to Vegas on a couple of occasions which really didn't cost me an arm and a leg in expenses.  I also have a few female friends, but they're "friends with strings attached", so asking any one of them to go on a vacation trip would cause me more headaches in the long run. LOL

...then don't spend the money.

There are those among us who only see the Return On Investment (ROI) for their p4p dollars. X number of positions/orgasms for Y number of dollars.

Then there are those of us who spend what we can afford and/or what we want to ensure that we have the best experience that we can get for those dollars.  

Maybe those in the first group get more of what they are looking for given the money they are spending. Those of us in the second group are getting what we seek -- an experience, some connection with a life-minded person, enjoyment of things that we like (travel, art, food, wine, sporting endeavors, etc.) and do it with someone we like (hopefully, you've done your research and had some time together before committing to a larger block of time).

You get what you want, we get what we want -- different outlooks and different things sought. Hopefully, we are achieving what we want. The fact that some of these things don't overlap shouldn't cause anyone to lose sleep, right?

A lot of the guys here seem to see providers almost solely for sex. I'm sure there's others like me who see them for sex, but also just for the feel, the scent, the look, and the overall attraction of a woman.

I could date a woman my own age, but I'd vomit. I love the total experience of being with a beautiful young woman. If it's the right woman, her company is golden for me. It's the total GFE experience.

If I can go someplace exotic and also have the experience of being with a beautiful young woman I like, it would make it a much more incredible trip.

And we'll probably have some sex, too. ;)

Who really knows -- boredom, lack of a live of their own, just pompous asses, well-meaning do gooder?

Does it really matter. One can take the line of reasoning to question why anyone books P4P at all. At that point I suspect the girls will decide they need twice what they current get to put up with the level of shit their client walks through the do with.

With the right person and for the right place.  I like traveling and don't do it enough.

Any place I want to visit...if it's a place like Myrtle beach, no thanks.  If it's somewhere like San Francisco or Hawaii sign me up!

Several thoughts. Many gentlemen travel to exotic countries for sex vacations. What's the difference between that, and inviting an escort to the exotic country? Either way you get to have a lot of sex. Plus, I can still chase exotic pussy, and do doubles.

Next, if I take a friend on this exotic vacation, there's always going to be a hidden agenda. Plus, I have to consider her needs and desires. There's a time and place for that, but if I want to go on a wild vacation, that wouldn't be nearly as relaxing.  

Lastly, you're right. Many girls can't stand us. However, our atfs love us. They prove that every session in a million ways I won't cite here. So if I've got money to burn on an exotic vacation, I'm not going to invite those many girls who can't stand me. I'm going to invite the atfs who love me.  

Sorry, one more thing. Every gentleman who visits these escort websites is very needy. We need sex. I don't mind admitting that I've been needy my whole life.  

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If it is for just a few days maybe yes if the me and the provider have good chemistry.  I will pay a sugar babe rate of $600 to $800 a day. For long vacation no. I will get a provider to come to my room for outcall.  

Some guys I know are very risky. They will go on vacation with their wives and girlfriends. Hobby while the wife is on the other side of the island. One guy went on vacation with his wife recently. His wife let him stay in Vegas an extra couple days by himself. I don't know how he was able to arrange that one (not sure if i believe it).

I have never been married, so I have never had to obtain a hall pass.  Glad this guy did, though.  

Ask and post the most inane stuff ?

Your post does not reflect a genuine question seeking to quench your curiosity.
It is simply a means for you to offer up some negative commentary on a subject you know little about.
Hmmmmmm , almost seems " needy" .

That said , I think it would be doubtful that I would ever take a Provider on vacation. I usually prefer my travel to be an opportunity to meet new ladies.  However , I can think of a few ladies that it would be fun to spend a couple days in LV or NY with as they too are adventurous . I could see us checking out TER ads together and inviting a third to join our party !

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Even if you take a girlfriend on vacation, it's just like taking a hooker on vacation. Either way you're going to pay for it.

Now I will agree to a certain extent but here's a little input:

If I want to go on vacation with one of my RL friends, I am very likely going to pay for the whole thing. I got to put up with their moods and not getting laid out of that. Just wanting a travel partner. My friends tend to not have a ton of money and have family.

If I was a guy, it really depends on how much money I had. If I was rich as shit, I would pay and pay for it all. Not rich? Then I would just pay the cost and if I could find one who isn't charging 5k a day, yeah I would. There should be a package deal on that.

Posted By: Oldtimemonger
I would think that any man who would have to pay a hooker to go on a vacation trip with him is very needy.  
     
 Why doesn't the guy just take a friend?  Do they have any friends?    
   
 Many of the girls can't stand their tricks but tolerate them because the job pays more than working at the cosmetics counter in the mall. Can't the needy guys see this?

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When I have the time and when I Know I have the resources. I don't need the hobby, I just enjoy it and women of  ladies I met are pretty cool.

As for your question,  i offer the theory the guy is pussy blind and cant think clearly.

Because hookers are people...and like all people you may or may not have a connection with them and want to spend more time with them.  If you all thought of hookers as people rather than holes to get your dicks  wet with that would likely eliminate the majority of stupid questions.

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Would you take your annoying friend who will drink themselves to the point of staying at the hotel all day long with a 24 hour hangover, leaving you without an activity partner so that you can bore yourself to death? Would you take your boring wife that's just going to spend all day talking to her friends on her cellphone while complaining about every single damn thing stopping you from having fun on your vacation? Would you take your over needy kids for you have to stay on daddy duty 24\7 no fun for yourself?  

Or would you take an easy-going, cheerful, and tempting companion with you to keep you company and create an extraordinary experience with?

Posted By: LoveSashaEvans
Would you take your annoying friend who will drink themselves to the point of staying at the hotel all day long with a 24 hour hangover, leaving you without an activity partner so that you can bore yourself to death? Would you take your boring wife that's just going to spend all day talking to her friends on her cellphone while complaining about every single damn thing stopping you from having fun on your vacation? Would you take your over needy kids for you have to stay on daddy duty 24\7 no fun for yourself?  
   
 Or would you take an easy-going, cheerful, and tempting companion with you to keep you company and create an extraordinary experience with?
A paid companion is not a real companion nor is it my idea of an extraordinary experience. If you are going to Europe you can hire an escort girl who will act as your tour guide as necessary, speaks the language and fuck her and "pay her to leave."

Just checked out your tantra link. Very nice. Kudos!

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