Do you think you're the only one who has an Asian S.O.?
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I would say that about half of the ladies I have visited have asked me if I was married or had a girlfriend. I was wondering why providers ask these questions? I have never asked providers if they were in relationships. I don't know what to think when I am asked.Lol Awkward!!
I've been married once, I've had girlfriends since my teens. Even lived together with some of them. Now I'm single and older so I see escorts who help me feel younger, life's great!.
If i ever am in another relationship again ill stop hobbying, until then i do what ever i want.
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That often gets them to kneel in front of me and then the fun begins.
I'm shocked they don't immediately speed dial their favorite TS friend.
Or male escort.
Maybe I missed a Trump executive order along the way.
His favorite vacation spot in Afghanistan was destroyed by the MOAB.
Along with some ant hills.
They love it when I choke my chicken.
Some guys are nervous about getting caught or just seeing a hooker and this question can actually relieve the anxiety - kinda like a confession.
Some providers just like to keep a tally for their own amusement and some do it to establish if the client is a prospect for longer dates, overnights, etc..
personally, I don't want to know who else she's banging, either on the job or at home. I also prefer that she's single and no kids so I don't get sucked into any family drama conversations if she becomes a regular.
...and I learned a long time ago to change the subject rather then get into it. Some see my wedding ring and the questions start flying. I usually will just smile and use that tired old line of "you're my wife/GF for the next hour".
Do you think you're the only one who has an Asian S.O.?
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and don't think overmuch about deep "meaning". It is small talk, as is most talk you can accomplish in only an hour or few.
If you're not engaging her in such conversation, you are missing any chance of a possibly great connection.
Just talk to her like you would anyone else.
And I expect them to do the same with me
Do you know why divorce is so expensive????
Wait for it!
Because, it's worth it!!!!!!!
after my first pop, escort asked me if I had a wife or kids. I thought that was kind of a strange question to ask. I said no to both because I don't have a wife or kids. Then I said some mumbo jumbo about liking my relationships by the hour
Normally they know the score without asking. Presumably because of the ring.
Or maybe it's the haunted expression of a married guy who has raised teenagers ...
The one time, which was over fifteen years ago, it turned out that she asked because her menu was more generous for married men.
She reckoned that they are less likely to fall for her and leave when they are done.
Now I'm single and she kicked me to the curb after a misunderstanding. Hhhhmmmm.
What was the misunderstanding?
But always seem be to asked a ton of personal questions. Lol.
I never call out another woman's name when I am coming.lol So that couldn't be the reason for them asking.
There could be reasons for asking, some of which have already been brought up. It's possible that if the provider knows you're involved she'll make an effort to help you out. You know, taking it easy on the scents and lotions, making sure your shirt's tucked in. I don't know.
Maybe they ask as a invitation for you to open up to them. Some guys might like that; I don't know.
If I see that gold-digger glint in a provider's eye, I say I'm married.
Having been in p4p, off and on, since '92, I've had a lot of conversations with providers and have never been asked about my personal relationship status. Of course, we've had conversations along the way (especially if I was seeing a provider on a repeat basis) and we'll talk about life in general - sometimes topics like kids and family come up and we see what we have in common.
I would guess they were asking topics as small talk but I'd think of a different topic as an icebreaker.
I'm single, doesn't bother me. I see it as normal small talk and sometimes it is a part of the conversations that can arise within the time frame you have together.
Same as being at a bar, club, library, etc..., and you meet someone and start engaging in talk. I'd say it likely happens more in those settings, just part of a simple conversation. I don't look for any deeper meaning, scheme, or whatever behind it.
He's there to FORGET about that stuff.
If the question does have some sort of meaning for a provider,
maybe she should throw it in with all the other Screening Questions.
The only thing I can think of, as to why it would have meaning for a provider, is
If you are "Married" you have more to lose,
and she can get away with having the session go more toward what she wants.
When a guy is "Single"
it seems to mean,
One will have to Work harder.
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