I trust my "Spidy Sense" and I've never been busted, or rolled...russ knocks on proverbial wood.
If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, walks like a duck; it's probably a duck.So I was trolling backpage and found an interesting post. I figured i'll roll the dice and gave her a call. Right off the bat she's asking what I do for a living, why I seem nervous. Then she tells me her hourly rate, then begins to tell me about her menu. I stopped her, told her we could discuss that in person (sinking feeling in stomach already) She tells me to go to a location close to her incall, I get there, it's not the right place. She sent me 10 minutes away, ok fine, maybe she's not from around here? She texts me the address, and I start the journey. Right before I get there she calls asking if I could pick up some 'you know' at the gas station before I arrive. Ok, to me that's a big red flag, me having condoms in my pocket and a wad of cash clearly shows intent. I told her grab some herself, she agreed, once I got to the location, she called again and tried to convince me to go get them. I told her no, and she told me to give her 10 minutes to get them. I waited about 20 minutes then bailed.
Thoughts? I tried searching for "red flags" etc here, but I couldn't find what I was looking for. I felt it was either LEO , or a robbery? I've called several girls, and none wanted to talk much more beyond " hey you free?" and "yeah, what time, how long" No talk of money, no talk of menu or any of that bs
That's why you go to escort review and it will show you what girls are reviewed on here that advertise on backpage and will take you right to this site. If you deal with the other girls better know what your doing.
That could probably answer all your question's right there.
She was supposedly at a decent mid level hotel. I've met girls very close to there before.
Is it place you might suspect shady activity?
A long time ago, I had a provider tell me they were doing stings in that particular hotel. I don't suspect shady activity besides LE in that particular area.
... and you stopped her, you should have said something like, "Excuse me, you must have misunderstood my intentions. I made a mistake calling you, sorry about that. Good bye." And hung up the phone.
At least that's what I would have done. That would have been enough of a red flag for me.
Yes, I should have listened to the gut feeling. That's literally never happened before.
There are PLENTY of "well reviewed TER providers" in your area, why do you still want to troll BP and take your chances with girls like this one?
A post like this really belongs on the Newbie board, so I am not going to call you dumb, a moron, stupid, idiotic or any other such names, but if someone else does I am not going to argue with them. lol
Personally, I would consider this a bullet dodged and learn from it. Stick to well reviewed providers and if you feel like you simply must troll BP, be sure you listen to that "little voice" that should be yelling at you "DANGER WILL ROBINSON, DANGER!!!"
"...you dumb, a moron, stupid, idiotic ..."
that's about all that caught my eye, I represent that remark, SIR
Try "asshole."
LOL *eom*
Asshole, dickhead, the list goes on and on, but no, "sir" is not on that rather long list. lol
You were enjoying the Adrenaline rush of the Danger too much.
I can't say I disagree, I was very excited. The only thing that turned me off was the prospect of being led away in handcuffs.
I can understand that.
It's what stops me from having more fun than I do already.
I trust my "Spidy Sense" and I've never been busted, or rolled...russ knocks on proverbial wood.
If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, walks like a duck; it's probably a duck.
Just kidding.
Too bad, it could have been an adventure! Yeah, listen to those spidey senses.
It's your money and you can TOFTT all you please. Be careful about robs, piggies, or other real bad stuff.
Thoughts? I tried searching for "red flags" etc here, but I couldn't find what I was looking for. I felt it was either LEO , or a robbery? I've called several girls, and none wanted to talk much more beyond " hey you free?" and "yeah, what time, how long" No talk of money, no talk of menu or any of that bs
Everybody searching BP are all in the mindset that they will discover the next high-end provider in the making, but obviously, that is not the case for 99% of the ads. TER and P411 are amazing tools in this hobby and you should utilize it unless you like playing capture the red flag game. Getting arrested and having your picture on your local print and online news outlets never a good thing.
And NOT everyone is searching BP that they'll discover the next high end provider in the making. The last two providers I saw from BP were both well reviewed TER providers and I reviewed them both. I had a very enjoyable time. V
Nowhere near 99% of BP ads are bad. It might be more than 50% but not close to what you say, and people that know how to do research can narrow that down so that it's 90% in their favor. It also is area related. In some areas BP is notoriously bad. In some areas it's a 50-50 gamble and in some areas BP is the only game in town.
Further more you said "everybody" searching BP is looking to discover the next high end provider in the making. This is not remotely true either. "Some" BP shoppers are doing that. Many others are just shopping for value, or shopping within their budget, others don't even know about sites like TER and P411. Others don't have a choice because BP is the only option in their area.
I advertise in a ton of different places and ask clients a lot of questions relative to their habits. You'd be surprised how many of you guys are looking at all options available. The Voldemort site being one of them.
Not sure what your reply has to do with my post.
My two cents:
1) What sort of research, if any, did you do? Did you at least see if she had any reviews anywhere?
2) Discussing too much on the phone is obviously a red flag. Perhaps it is because she doesn't know any better? Or perhaps she doesn't have a website to refer you to?
3) Sending you to a different location could mean a few different things. Maybe multiple people want to set up appointments and because she is used to having no shows she provides a location close to her actual location. Then she gives her actual location to whoever arrives first. This could also be a safety thing. Or both.
4) I would be interested to see if she left you a "time waster" review.
5) I don't use backpage anymore.
1.I searched and searched, there's a small advertisement of sorts on a different site with no indication as to when it was posted. Image search came up with nothing, no reviews whatsoever.
2. She was very good at getting me to ignore the initial red flags and take a chance. Super seductive, i'm still thinking about her.
3. She explained that she was confused as to where she was because she was recently staying elsewhere, or something to that effect. I'm used to being sent elsewhere for staging purposes 
4. I gave her my handle here in lieu of personal information. I might be on a list somewhere 
5. I can't promise myself I won't use backpage anymore, I found a few great encounters through there. I'm more scared of my lack of prepared responses to questionable inquiries from some random (possibly LEO) chick with an ad online.
LE would have made it as easy as possible for you to show up and most likely would not have fucked up the scheduling. "Most likely" being the key words here. Personally, whether she was LE or no, most likely you dodged a bullet. Booking sessions off of BP with girls with no other online presence is an acquired skill and oftentimes more art than science. Just remember you can be right 99 times in a row and still end up ruining your life with a single mistake.
I am not going to join the herd clamoring for ALL mongers to NEVER use BP, but until you are one of the guys answering these kind of questions instead of asking them, I would suggest only seeing BP girls who at least have a review or two "somewhere" In many parts of the country where BP is really the only ad venue TER is often not the major review board. One of the things I love about P 411 is that they link the lady's reviews on ALL sites, not just TER.
Big head agrees 100% Little head not so much, i'll try to keep him in check until I gain the experience
Side note: I'm digging around doing image searches and I found this girl perhaps did have a TER ID, but it's not there anymore
TER ID: #312818
Also found an instagram that doesn't exist anymore.
I found 3 different phone numbers for her. I wasn't able to find anything good or bad.
Don't know what to make of that,
but there are dozens of other not so good things she could be besides LE. I still think most likely you dodged a bullet.
First sentence you brought on yourself. I didn't need to read past that.
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Jesus dude just go on Eros or here and find someone in your budget.
Not that i'm filthy rich or anything, but I don't have a "budget" in the sense that i'm very comfortable paying the highest amount i've seen in my area without giving a second thought (1200 per hour, and I usually want 1-2 hours minimum depending on the woman's personality). What I do have is time constraints; I have random periods of time that i'm able to hobby, they're not very predictable. I find looking through backpage i'm able to see who's free right now. That's my motivation: Ms. Right now.