As long as I am provided with the session I desire I am not concerned about what she may do with someone else.

I am concerned with how she looks, is what I desire on the menu, is she clean, is her in call in a good safe area, is her personality one that I am compatible with, and is the required donation within my means.

... and if you offer it and I like your photos, reviews and price then I am in there. Other shit that people ask you to do is their business.

Available during a session...

You never know what the heat of the moment will bring out.

There have been posts before by guys who said they wouldn't see a lady who sees TS clients, or even a lady who has seen clients who see TS providers. There are some extreme fetishes which some guys would be completely turned off by finding out if you participate in with other clients (ie 'scat')

However, many guys wouldn't care what you do with others, just what you do with them. Also for every guy you scare away, you probably pick up one on the other side. One guy's turn off is another guy's turn on.

-- Modified on 5/29/2012 4:23:37 PM

I offer

I have many things on my menu..

GFE

Sensual Domme/Toy PLay

Massage

Occasional Pot Stirring/Screwing with men on boards


BUT..there is a flavor for everyone.  Having the full menu is a good way to offer a change up to your clients now and again!  Keeps things fresh and Exciting..

But things like BBFS, brown showers, and the like are a no go. Things like fisting, golden showers, and covered anal are not my cup of tea but I would have no issues with. Of course, I am into some stange stuff myself, so who am I to judge.

Well, that was reassuring!

there's no way in hell I'd do reckless things endangering my health like bbfs, I was more worried about heavy s&m kind of stuff. so thanks for the replies!

Different strokes for different folks.

I wouldn't think that variety could be a cause for turn off in the hobby. Thanks for giving me that perspective.

I think when truly exploring one's sexuality different things come up and for me, it's kinda cool to explore and have fun not doing the "norm." Once you're totally comfortable with yourself and your sexuality, who knows what might come up? My most recent review is of a fetish service and honestly it was my first time! I must say it was a turn on for all involved and I'm happy I could be trusted and chosen to help out. Offering more on a menu shouldn't be a red flag, just know that the lady probably really likes to please, can be open and honest with what you or she likes and probably wants to try new things herself. Just make sure all activities are safe!

rep for engaging in BBFS with just anyone, and I have also refused to do doubles with certain providers for that same reason. I am sure other girls who only offer cbj would not want to work with me because I offer services they might deem more risky than what they offer. Just because a provider offers something does not mean a guy has to partake, but I can't see a reason for not seeing someone other than a safety concern.

I'll answer with brutal honesty: if you are young and hot enough, it doesn't matter, at least for me.
Most of times, I have issue with providers NOT having enough on the menu (no dfk, no finger in v, no grk). In general, there's vanilla, wild, crazy wild, and HOLY BATSHIT INSANE. I am a tame person with quiet and gentle temper/personality, and I'm completely ok from vanilla to crazy wild, but I backaway slowly from batshit crazy stuff.

But like I said in the beginning, if you are hot enough, it can mitigate ALOT.

-- Modified on 5/30/2012 8:26:07 AM

Interests Change Over Time

I have some activities that I consider a minimum in ladies that I see.  I am not always interested in some of the services they offer or have been reported as providing in some reviews.  However, my interest in some activities has grown over the years, and there may come a day where I choose to partake of those.  It is always good to have options, and if it happens with someone I've seen before then that relationship can grow as well.