BBBJ is a deal breaker for me too. CIM or COF is optional, but no cover for a BJ.
..how important.IF AT ALL,are the oral skills of your provider/client when thinking about seeing them again?
Not much; I am a rare guy I guess, BJ's are not really my thing.
Pretty much the same for me these days now that I am older. DFKing and having my nipples sucked/licked seems to do more for me than a BBBJ. It still feels good but it seems like the little guy just isn't as sensitive as he used to be.
IMO its pretty hard to f up a bj. Im more interested in their enthusiasm on getting oral.
MY enthusiasm on RECEIVING oral.
Only one provider has paid attention when I told her what I liked. The others just do their thing and, while it's okay or good, nobody has done it the way I like it.
If I find a good-looking provider who does it the way I like, I will see her exclusively for the rest of my life. 
Speak up and talk. Same as you should talk about oral on a female. They will tell you, vice versa.
I haven't changed in this regard since teens. Yeah, it ranks pretty high, but not the kill all. I'm sensitive enough it isn't science, but I can't say it can't be screwed up. I found out once in my life that indeed it can. No matter regarding talk, etc..., I preferred to just end that part as quickly as possible. (This wasn't a provider...)
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So yeah, oral skills are mucho importante if there is to be a 2nd session with a provider.
If she doesn't offer BBBJ with CIM or SW (preferable), I'm not interested.
I'll read her reviews to make sure she's good at it, or at least gives it a good try.
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BBBJ is a deal breaker for me too. CIM or COF is optional, but no cover for a BJ.
Well,
I Thank all the lovely wives and SO's that Don't have them, every day.
Their lack of Oral Skills keeps me living in a very comfortable style.
That cannot be fantastic either. The visual and cerebral enhance everything.
Is a woman's ability to use her mouth to bring me to the edge but not over the edge; to make me want more, setting the table for FS, which might ultimately end in oral to completion -- or not. I don't see oral as the entire meal, but rather as the best appetizer on the menu.
is the way I feel about mine while DATY. I love this activity (and DATO if she really enjoys this. One of my ATFs in NYC came to repeat climaxes while I did this.) if the lady really enjoys this.
I don't care about the guy's oral skills as long as he doesn't bite me or anything crazy lol! I could truly careless. Good oral is obviously amazing and a huge plus, but overall connection is what makes me want to continue seeing someone regularly. If he has no personality or is rude and standoffish (or any hygeine issues lol), I don't care to see him again.
This can make or break someone. Most guys hate too much teeth.
Exceptional oral, mediocre oral, and lame oral will all make me see a client again. Doesn't really matter to me, I'm there to brighten their day. Of course I will remember the exceptional skills and be excited to see them again. There are many other things that go into being a great client other than skill.