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Picky provider? Is that a thing?
sympathyforthedevil 54 Reviews 2462 reads
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Any ladies or have any guys heard of providers that wont see guys of certain age, or weight. Lady asking for a pic? Just curious.

GaGambler565 reads

If you were not "height weight appropriate" she wouldn't answer her door for you.  

When I saw her the first time she told me exactly where to park, asked what I was driving and then took a look at me (and every other guy she saw) to make sure I was not a fat tub of lard. I guess I must have passed because she opened the door for me when I knocked and proceeded to rock my world. lol

I am pretty sure "most" providers don't do this, but I do know of a few. I actually know quite a few in Costa Rica like this, but they work the bars and get to pick and choose their customers instead of having to answer the door to "everyone"

no longer sees men under 30. Good thing I am over 30 now

Whats remarkable? I  dont recall being screened for looks. Ever.

Posted By: JakeFromStateFarm
Remarkable.

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JakeFromStateFarm377 reads

The fact that some hookers refuse to see younger men, or men they think are too old, has been discussed here ad nauseum.

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...yet he's a lousy speller himself...both in English and in Latin.

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look good naked.  Likewise, some guys look better naked than a lot of girls do.  I will concede that the AVERAGE provider looks better naked, relatively speaking, than the AVERAGE customer.  

...it's subject to personal preference. Whether a provider or client exercises those preferences in whom they see/spend time with is up to them.

It's one of the reasons that i try to disclose some details about myself which might be relevant to the provider -- height, weight, level of conditioning, age, etc. This is in addition to me having done sufficient research to fell that we would probably be compatible.

I don't want any (unpleasant) surprises when the door opens and I assume that she doesn't, either. Saves us both time and effort.

I have a whole list of reasons I won't see someone..both tangible and intangible.  There are always exceptions to the rule of course.  I won't normally see someone under 30 or over 65 unless they can prove that they are mature or they look young for their age.

What? No one over 60. I may be 70 but I can easily pass for....69. Who do i complain to-AARP? Seriously, I don't blame any provider who has standards, this may be a business but she should also be able to enjoy her work. It has to get tough for the provider at times.

I said 65 not 60!  Though I guess 5 years may not make much of a difference.  Honestly I have that rule because most much older men tend to smell and taste a funny way that bothers me.

say must be height and weight PROPORTIONAL.  My assumption is that it means if your waist is bigger around than your height, they won't see you.  

that if you are 50 lbs or more overweight she won't see you. And a few years ago a provider advertised to not bother her unless your cock is 7" or more. No small cocks are welcome. not even for money.

I noticed an add like that about a year ago.  She stated explicitly that if a guy wasn't at LEAST 8 (!!)" and above average girth to move on.  To me that's shallow.  If thats her preference than good on her...but she herself damn well better be a 10+ lol

 
D.

since some customers made contact with me asking things like this:
- do you receive black guys?
- I have XXXX years old, it's ok for you?

And many more, and when i ask why i should have some issues about age, colour, religion, etc they told me, because some ladies don't wanna receive guys like me.

But i thing at the end everything is about education, also providers have the right to receive or not people, but if they are clear and educated, who am i to judge the situation. Everyone can make with their own body what they want.

I heard that from someone else, actually, and liked it so much I bought a pair of panties with a similar saying on them.  :-)

I have an age minimum but not maximum.  This has nothing to do with my perceptions of someone's maturity level or disposable income.  It's that I don't want to be physically intimate who is closer in age to my children than myself.  
Trust me: I've tried and it wasn't fun, which led to a sub-par performance on my part.  I wish I could get over that but I can't.
 
My feeling is this: if I can't provide an excellent experience for younger men, then I shouldn't be seeing them.  So I don't.  ;-)

 
 Also, if I learn upfront that he speaks no English (my only language) then I'd prefer not to see him because that also feels awkward to me.  

I am one of those providers.  I do ask for a recent face picture from anyone I've not previously met along with their age.  I do carefully select who I see.  I have to have a level of attraction in order to provide services. With that being said  I also am stictly a GFE provider.. More of an authentic connection... A degree of emotional as well as physical. I don't think it's any different from the clients wanting to read provider reviewes also see their posted pictures before contacting the provider.  I also don't see clients under the age of 35. I have a son that will be 28 this month & It would be very difficult for me to be comfortable & relaxed thus the services would be less than stellar.  I dint want to be a provider of poor services.  

Many of us have the luxury of picking and choosing who we spend our time with...I will say it over and over, if the connection is not there, the rest is bland.  That being said we tend to be curious and open minded people.  We also have enough collection of experiences to know if we do not like something.  

DatyRookie321 reads

Yes, and its ok. See some of the slobs that want to screw them. Guys are picky. Just because we are paying does not mean that she can't weed out those that grose her out or repulse her. Her body her rules.

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
Any ladies or have any guys heard of providers that wont see guys of certain age, or weight. Lady asking for a pic? Just curious.

...and in those cases I just move on to the next one. I don't take it personally-that's just silly. I don't want to see someone who doesn't want to see me. And there are plenty who love the ladies and they get my business. Pretty simple, really.

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