In the same vein as the hobbyists whose favorite provider saw a client who also saw a TS, I pose a conundrum.
If a provider possesses enough reviews, and you have the time, the ability to sort-of map her moves is available to you. With enough work you may find out who she has seen, who they have seen and particular details about these trysts. You may discover that she has been with Hobbyist ABC and when you conduct a search, you realize he posted about a mysterious rash on his nether regions at some point. Or maybe you find Hobbyist XYZ has been with your favorite and as it so happens, you despise him, based upon his message board posts.
My point is if you dig deep enough on anyone, you will find information you did not ever want to know. It's importance will vary depending upon your personal outlook. In the hobby, you must come to terms with the fact that your provider has seen others and will continue doing so. You can hope that she makes wise choices and has excellent luck during her day-to-day affairs. If you do not enjoy knowing about her escapades with others, simply do not read about them or read enough to know what you need to know in order to see her, as reviews were intended.
Enjoy the time you are together, when you are together, put yourself in the moment. If you are seeing the right woman, she will give you all of her during this time and make you feel as though you are the only one.
Kate
How do you think they come up with suggested
books? They find others who have read (bought)
the same thing as you and then suggest to you
what they bought.
There are many variables when it comes to seeing a provider. Time, location, available finances and mood being just a few. I cannot say I agree that because two people saw the same provider and liked her, they would feel the same about someone else. Again, too many variables. It's not fair to compare a book with a human connection. Afterall, a book doesn't have to like you back. Chemistry between two people is far more complex than a good read.
Kate
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once saw Kevin Bacon - Not that there is anything wrong with that!
post Kate! It's well thought out and very germane to the issues of "due diligence." I consider back channeling much more invaluable to the selection process, than merely reading reviews.
As you will note, I have only one. Rest assured I have seen many more providers. My reasons for not reviewing are varied, and I will only share them BC, preferably through email.
That being said, your post highlighted the finer aspects of how one should conduct research into a potential provider that he may be interested in seeing. It also emphasised the fact, that if one digs deep enough, he may eventually find info that was "more than he wanted to know!"
Caveat Emptor as always!
If you don't review, but will exchange info b/c, how do I know to ask you? I've asked, and shared, info b/c and find it useful, but anytime a question has been asked of me, it's because I have a review of her posted.
...if her pictures are real. Any other details I'd rather not know. Kills the fantasy.
All we can really know about is the hour (or more ) that belongs to us. Make the best of that hour and you will truly be her only lover.