Now that I thought about it , that was the last time I dated a blonde .
Trauma lingers in our subconscious, often imbedding
generalizations in our brain that aren't true .
I will tell you why she wouldn't see you after hours .
The lap dance room is safer and more profitable
from her perspective .
You guys were right I should have not went back to the strip club I had gotten couple Regualr lap lap dances at 20.00 about 4 em then 2 nude lap dances for 40.00 then kept tipping this skinny blonde girl, damn it's hard finding a blonde as a provider in my area, this is so stupid I threw $400 on this chick an go home mad , I don't see why she wouldn't rather see me after hours , guess I'll go look for a provider now
To quote the wise and venerable E.T.: "Ouchhhhhhh...."
Now that I thought about it , that was the last time I dated a blonde .
Trauma lingers in our subconscious, often imbedding
generalizations in our brain that aren't true .
I will tell you why she wouldn't see you after hours .
The lap dance room is safer and more profitable
from her perspective .
I stop going to the strip club these days. Haven't been to one now for almost two years ever since the hobby. I use to spend some major dough there too, I even got some heads and a bit of pussy in the strip clubs too, cost the same as escorts, but time is limited and the environment is dirty and dingy. Always be careful when making impulsive decisions, strip clubs are prone to those.
If you go, only go with $20 dollars worth on $1 bill, that way, girls think that you are cheap. So, I go there, have a few beers, get some good eye candy, and roll home. Then, possibly call an escort to fulfill my filthy desires.
That makes more sense now.
At one time, back in the '90's, it was possible to take a lady home on rare occasions. Now, your $ are best spent hobbying.
very true..i used to spend tons of money and go home with blue balls..the ladies at strip clubs are experts at teasing..the ladies who provide are experts at pleasing..spend your money wisely..your cock and balls will thank you every single time..you will sleep better too..
I used to bring them home for free!!!
And I think you are. From your post, it seems like you learned an valuable, although expensive, lesson. Accept it, and now stick to providers. I only go to a strip club to visit with a non-FS provider who is a dayshift manager there. We talk, I might get a private dance, but,I know what I will get, so I don't worry about it. Needless to say, I do not do it very often, and I damn sure don't spend $400......lol
Swim
...$400 dollars in a strip club I did get an excellent bare blow job in the VIP room. Oh, the $400 wasn't all spent on the same dancer and the blow job in the VIP room was less than half of the $400.
That was a couple of years ago. It was in a place I often frequented with dancers I'd known for more than a couple of years. That's how that works. It takes time. I don't know why guys keep coming on here asking wouldn't it be cheaper and easier in a strip club. No, it wouldn't. Yes, you can get lucky but usually you just go broke and get nothing. Like many that have already said it. I don't go to strip clubs anymore since I started the hobby. The dancers I knew are gone. ( Exception: there is one I go see. I have known her for more than 5 years. When she stops dancing I won't be going to a strip club for any more than some eye candy and a beer and more than likely won't go at all.) It's too much of a crap shoot.
Lets see...a small VIP room for 30 minutes sitting on a bench or chair (wary of interlopers and I don't want to know what's on the floor) for the VIP room charge plus waitress tip plus dancers fee plus up charge for "extras" if any OR an hour in a nice apartment/hotel with a provider for a set rate and certain of the outcome. Now you tell me which is the better situation.
For that $400 you could have seen two providers that would have sucked your dick 'til it nearly fell off and then fucked your brains out.