that applies to both men and women:Both sexes are endowed with a wide range of preferences of which one is predominant(the default preference,if you will) while the others are "semi-hidden" and remain so, unless you're willing to explore your personality in greater detail, just as you did!
This topic may have come up in the past but I'm not quite sure in such a way as this....
ARE YOU A TRUE BISEXUAL?
Many women claim to be, to turn men on. But, do you know if you are a true bisexual, a lesbian or a plain, boring (smile) heterosexual?
I believe I am somewhere in between heterosexual and bisexual. It is very interesting to me though, that I love aspects of feminine, beautiful women such as soft, long hair, soft skin and breasts...and definitely lips. I love to kiss and caress a feminine woman. But, to actually even consider what it would be like to be in a lesbian relationship, I would be drawn to a butch type lesbian. I'm not talking about a manly, masculine butch. "Not that there's anything wrong with that"- Seinfield. I'm talking of a small boned, short haired, makeupless, pretty boy/girl that has that tough girl attitude. That is what would turn me on to full blown out sex or a relationship...I think. Though I have never been with a butch type girl...so only an assumption of what I can only think I would feel.
Now, in consideration of a relationship with a butch lesbian over a lipstick lesbian or bisexual...does that make me just a plain heterosexual or a bisexual? Does that mean that I prefer men if I would like a woman that reminded me of a man? If I was faced with deciding between a man (which I know I adore) or a butch lesbian that I am attracted to, might I chose the woman? Is there an answer to this question?
I am going to post this here and on a few other boards because I think it would be fascinating to hear diverse views from the ladies on what they feel they are and why. Please, not for the sake of turning the guys on...just for thought provoking discussion.
I am very sure that this discussion would be further interesting if we asked the men the question reversed. But, I don't think anyone here would be ready for that. It's safer and not too scary for everyone to leave it for the girls. (smile)
Ciao,
Isabella
xoxoxox
...controlling for the opprobrium factor. "Brokeback Mountain" has inspired a lot of discussion about this, e.g., "What if you were cooped up on a Montana mountainside for six months with nothing but a bunch of sheep and a REALLY CUTE guy?"
Waal, ma'am, ah reckon ah'd pound muh pecker for six months. Then ah'd mosey inta town with muh savings, an' I'd walk into th' dance hall, an' I'd say, "Ajay! GET OVER HERE, little momma!" And I'll tell you, when I was the age of those two cowpokes (21? 22?) if I'd done without for six months, that poor girl would have earned her rate PLUS a tip.
But I don't honestly think that, around the three-month mark, I'd have started staring at my ol' podnuh and thinking, "Hmmm, wonder what a BBBJCIMNQNS feels like from the RECEIVING end?" Somehow, I just don't think so, and I think most guys here wouldn't, either. Different for the girls.
Something else to consider. The girls who are truly bi just make the guys hotter when we think of it. Does it make YOU hotter to think of the guy whose you-know-what is in your mouth taking it up the ass from some other guy last night? Thought not....
Just my two cents here.
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"Does it make YOU hotter to think of the guy whose you-know-what is in your mouth taking it up the ass"
oh no having put it up the ass is better.
ntyvm,P.T.
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that applies to both men and women:Both sexes are endowed with a wide range of preferences of which one is predominant(the default preference,if you will) while the others are "semi-hidden" and remain so, unless you're willing to explore your personality in greater detail, just as you did!