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Posted By: FakawiTribe
Posted By: ANiceGuyToHookUp
I am interested in hearing what ladies to to create an experience? How do you go above and beyond? Maybe you lay out the room a special way? Show a video? Focus on appealing to all of the senses? Play one of those games that you buy a Spencer's gifts? What do you do to make guys want to book for 4 hours instead of 30 minutes or 1 hour? What do you do to create an overall fantastic experience?
Thank goodness I listened to momma an always wear my best Skiivies
Posted By: AlexandraMilw
Re: Yes
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To me, creating an experience is like being concierge.
Luckily I used to work as one at s 5 star hotel, so I know a number of the tricks to the trade. I won't spill all my secrets but it is hard work to create experiences at all levels of services I provide - GFE, PSE, fetish and fantasy, and BDSM. But I think I do a good job pulling it off, especially when I have time to prepare (if it's a last minute appointment or a stretch within my availability it can be hard to do)
The baseline of the experience for me is making sure I have amenities for clients to use at my incall.
The more you pay, the better I perform
Just kidding. But generally, I feel like having a positive and open attitude is essential. That's why I'll refuse an appointment if I get a bad vibe... I just don't 'perform' as well. Good service has to come from the heart. And I can only act to a point... if my heart isn't into it, that will show in some way. No matter how hard I try to keep it professional, I think the guy will pick up upon it subconsciously. That's especially true for longer appointments.
Most of my dates are 2+ hours, particularly with repeat clients. Why? NO clue. I guess I'd say that being able to genuinely enjoy someone else's company - both in bed and out - or at least, being able to relate w/people in a way that's grounded in positivity and compassion. And to be pleasurable company... to be funny, interesting, compassionate, endearing, etc. Or maybe, just not to be mean or scary. Not sure, actually. I'm considered kind of a weirdo by most people I know 8-) I can't think of anybody who knows me in my personal life who'd EVER pay to hang out with me. Unless they'd want to be bored to death by hearing me yak about one of my latest oddball obsessions. But, when I'm paid, I shut up about that sh** and - when I feel the impulse to run my mouth - I fill it with a dick instead 
making it an "experience." Its a function of financial depth. If you can afford to book four hours without batting an eye, you do it, if you can't, you don't. Its not complicated.
Posted By: coeur-de-lion
making it an "experience." Its a function of financial depth. If you can afford to book four hours without batting an eye, you do it, if you can't, you don't. Its not complicated.
I can and have booked more than one hour appointments and with expensive girls. Some had multi-hour minimums.Those were usually my worst experiences. In some cases I left early.
Some guys pay mainly for sex time and care little for the fake companionship. It's not a function of financial depth. It's a function of being realistic about what you are really paying for.
The large number of guys that do 30 minute sessions? In talking to them over the years, I have found that it's mostly guys on a limited hobby budget trying to get the most bang for their buck. To a man, they say if their budget was bigger, they would do longer sessions. Not such nonsense after all?
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but I completely agree with him about 4 hour dates. I have ZERO interest in a four hour date, or even a two hour date for that matter.
I like the two extremes, either we spend the entire evening together, or we have sex and go about our separate ways for the day/evening. I can't fuck for four hours, and after I bust my nut and spend a bit of time chatting, snuggling, or whatever, I am ready to hit the road and finances have nothing to do with it.
Comparing the guys looking for 30 minute sessions is a false comparison, it's like comparing $100 hookers with $300 women. BIG difference, but now compare a $600 hr provider with a $900 hr lady and you'll be hard pressed to find much of a difference.
I book the sessions that suit me. It's not that I can't or won't afford a four hour date, it's just that they really don't appeal to me that much.
I see SB's all the time and those dates are pretty much "clock free" I can't remember the last time I had a four hour, totally BCD date, even when there was no "clock" even running.
Posted By: coeur-de-lion
The large number of guys that do 30 minute sessions? In talking to them over the years, I have found that it's mostly guys on a limited hobby budget trying to get the most bang for their buck. To a man, they say if their budget was bigger, they would do longer sessions. Not such nonsense after all?
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One extreme to the next? 30 minute girls are on the low end. Hell I've seen girls advertising 15 minute specials on the low end.
Hourly sessions are are about right or most guys. There are plenty of high end hourly girls out there.
I never said anything about 30 minutes. I said hourly.
You and I look at things from completely opposite ends of the spectrum and I'd like to keep it that way. Being on the same side of a debate with you fucks up the natural order of things so please STOP. lol
Yeah, I agree with you completely on this. Even if I had paid for a two hour session unless she spent most of that last hour giving me head or a massage, most likely I would either leave or ask her to leave at about the hour mark.
Ok, now lets you and I go back to arguing about "paying hookers to sleep" it feels more natural that way. lol
Longer, sure. But 3 and a half hours longer? Also, perfectly respectable providers do 30 minute sessions, but a lot of the ones who do it are on the lower end. Once you jump up into the $300 range, you find a different mindset among the clients.
The thing about 30 minute sessions is, there's not a lot of time, especially if you throw in a shower or two, for the full GFE. It's mostly wham-bam thank-you-ma'am. You can get the full GFE in an hour. 4 hours is too much GFE, at least for me.
I have taken advantage of 90 minute sessions at the one-hour rate, and that makes sense for me because I often take a little while to pop. I probably wouldn't end up using the full 90 minutes even more than I don't use the full hour, which is often. But I can see how that much extra time could enhanced the experience. But not an extra 3 hours. That's just overkill.
As others have indicated, it's like the difference between $180 and $300 per hour on the one hand and $500 and $900 on the other. The former can be night and day, whereas I hear the latter is usually a distinction without a difference. (I've never gone over $500 personally, but I can't imagine anything being worth $400 more an hour.)
For me it depends on the provider. I do prefer a minimum of 90 minutes that is mostly spent fucking. But, there are some that the experience runs it's course within that time and with some the experience mutually continues for up to 8 hours plus. Both are great for me because neither way am I disappointed. Different ladies with different personalities and talents.
Wow, now I'm horny.
Not true. I've bailed before my hour was up countless times, and I'm sure I'd bail early on an offer of an extra three hours at the one-hour rate, too. Extra time isn't that important to me, as such. I don't get as much out of it as the first 45 minutes or so. (However, if I could stretch those extra hours over multiple days, that'd be ideal.)
I have spent extended time with some girls, but that's more about those girls in particular. Which speaks to the OP's point. I don't pay for as much time for as little money as possible, unless it's with someone with whom I want to spend that much time.
Your point would be better taken if you were talking about 90 minutes instead of 4 hours, with me. 4 hours is just a ridiculously long time in my case. I don't like spending that much time with anyone.
She'll never let him know she's bored with his boring demeanor.
She will act extremely interested in his passionate interests when she has no interest.
The odds are in, with money bags, ten to one he has not one attractive female in his world, outside the board room, listening with interest to his trials, tribulations and joys.
If he loves watching Lassie movies she suddenly discovers she does too.
An upscale Courtesan friend {out of my price range} spent three days traveling with her favorite client from coast to coast while he exhausted himself taking photos of extraordinary, most beautiful clouds she had ever seen
She claims she has numerous great clients she's never had sex with.
She talks I listen, even when I'm bored hearing about her manipulating hobbies.
I believe her, if she's not collecting living expenses from me why would she lie, or perhaps
she's cunning and patient, figuring out what motivates my desire to spend, baiting, while waiting for my lottery win.
Regardless, if my numbers come up, I won't be tipping her big with my head in the clouds, hoping she'll give me another white listing. 
About the feeling it leaves you with after you two have parted
Yes - it is definitely about the feeling --- before and after. One of my favorite escorts was Ivanna. I booked her a few days in advance after I saw her video (link below). The days leading up to the meeting I had that video stuck in my head. Then the day that I met her came and wow --- she created an awesome experience that is difficult to put into words. Genuine, sweet, incredibly sensual. The room had effective lighting, music, she carried herself well, and the tone of her voice was perfect. For the next few days I couldn't get her out of my head (in a good way). I would see her every other day if I could. Except that she seems to have fallen off the planet. If anyone knows how to get a hold of her, please let me know. I believe that she changed her phone number.
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In my current situation, the experience is solely based on my appetite. I'm honest and if I want to go one to four rounds, I voice my needs before hand to see if you can keep up. I'm available for outcall only so I arrive in suggested attire then change into something more comfortable. My GFE dates always start with a sensual massage. My PSE dates always start with a sexy strip tease. Always more stimulating with my bag of tricks. I just like to be myself which is generally highly erotic. I don't like a lot of small talk....I prefer a physical connection through touching, dancing, whipping, massage, licking, sucking , etc versus ten-30 minutes of conversation trying to drag out the date.
those two are really the most important: setting the mood by creating the desired ambiance, and having a great attitude. throw in a little bit of sensual skill, a great deal of care put into your appearance, and an eye turned toward compatibility (this, IMO, is the most important -- the people involve have to be seeking experiences and people that are compatible w/one another), and it will generally be an experience that is enjoyable and memorable for both parties.
