Ok so all of us girls have very special rules about specific questions prior to a appointment. If someone who is making a date breaks the special rules what is the best way to end conversation, emails, texts?

Special rules to me are never discuss rate, services provided or specific request. It makes me nervous and in my site I say to never talk about it, but sometimes people don't understand because it's a little vague. I try to be understanding and accommodating to everyone and understand sometimes guys are new or don't catch.


Girls or guys any suggestions or feedback???
Is there a way to word myself better so that it could be more understanding to people?

YMMV

Read my reviews.

To the roof of your mouth and while pushing air out you mouth "NO."  

You're being too nice - if a gent can't process basic rules of the game just think of the nightmare scenarios you could get into in the bedroom.  You have to be willing to lose the "sale" but save yourself.

I pulled out of a date the other day based on the comments and requests I was getting from the young lady - at a minimum it smacked of an atmosphere I was not going to enjoy and worse case it smacked of LE.  It's a bad sign when I'm more careful about topics in communication than the lady.

just say no. I'm uncomfortable and this isn't going to work.

lol...sorry, hun...couldn't resist the current events joke. ;p

Matt

i dont get it lol

great thanks matt clark now i have to go look pssssh!!!!

thank you everyone ^ above for your responses.

Each person has to keep one foot on the floor . Eom

Here ya go, sweetie.  The top donor for Republican primary presidential candidate, Rick Santorum, went on TV and told an old, off-color joke, by saying (and I paraphrase) that the best contraception is for a girl to hold an aspirin between her knees.  Basically meaning, she can't possibly spread her legs (and therefore can't get pregnant) if she's holding an aspirin between her knees.  This happened just a couple days ago, and has caused a bit of a kerfuffle in the news media.  But, it was just a dumb joke, by a supporter, not the candidate himself, and so the story will not have legs (pardon the pun).

Matt

ohhhh lol i was like really slow on that one!!!

ur not alone, darlin, most pundits on tv didn't get it right away either.  i sure didn't.  it's a rather antiquated, arcane joke.

mc

Don't explain yourself, or try to get them to understand.  Just try telling them "Thanks for your interest, but your (questions, comments, etc.) make me feel uncomfortable, and out of an abundance of caution, I have decided that I cannot continue communicating with you. No hard feelings, best of luck."

I know it is formal, but it is less likely to get a rude response.

what if it's the other way around? You are at the point of getting directions and she cancels. You ask for an explanation and all you get is explative's with no reason. you can't post. you have no recourse. just because a provider went BIPOLAR on you what is fair in that situation?

That's going on my wish list - finding a provider who can still "do it" while holding that aspirin between her knees!  

I bet I could being flexible has it's advantages but it might be awkward a little

Thank you I definitely like your formal idea and I will try it!!! Its perfect... Hopefully not to soon

I don't feel I can give you a answer to that. There could of been 1000 things that happened, not being there I can't say. I don't think saying a provider went bipolar is very nice, but in this type of life we all should expect that sometimes shizzz happens. And always have plan a, b, c, d and e. It sucks and I am sorry that happened to you, i am not excusing or condoning this. As frustrating as a last minute cancel is maybe it was for the better!!