what are you confused about, and what do you need help in?

ask it here and I'm sure someone can provide an answer for you

Hello and Welcome Sexxxy!

What exactly do you need help with?

Up on top are links to sites with rules about how the site works, as well as general stuff about the hobby in general.

You can also learn a lot by just reading the posts on the various boards.  At least you'll get to know us all that way.

That's how I first figured out what this site was all about.

Here's some very basic info:

First, the site is not an escort mall.  There are listings of escorts available in the review section, but to get there you must first be reviewed by someone, you just can't post your information yourself.

The rest of the site functions basically as an open moderated forum.  That means you have to be nice (within limits) or you will find that your posts don't go up right away, or maybe at all.

Ethics is a big consideration on here.  There are many ways to get banned from this site.  Posting a false review of yourself is the primo was for that to happen.  Also, being inordinately mean to others or just a regular PITA will do the trick.

I hope this helps.

Let me say these guys are always in need

of a sexy Italian lady, so welcome aboard. I'm not sure where you are from but while your in the mood to read check out you local board as well.

The newbie Board is the friendliest spot on TER so this is a great spot to introduce yourself to everyone. Now there's no advertising here but many people you meet here will remember you. Advertisements are placed on your local board.

Read a little bit an get to know your way around TER and come back with some questions for all these friendly guys to answere.    
    Kisses Haley

Check out some reviews of ladies in your area.  If you find a lady that appears similar to you in age and attitudes, give her a call and ask to have lunch.  Ladies helping ladies is a good way to go.