Thank you for the responses. Although I'm sure it happens, I would think that a provider white listing someone that they never met would be a rarity. That said, if someone has multiple white lists, then I would think that would alleviate that concern. I would think that would be how most providers would perceive white lists? Aren't they supposed to mean that the provider validated the experience/review? I would think that most providers would only white list someone if they have seen them multiple times? Do providers white list someone so that they remember them? What motivates a provider to white list someone?
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Okay so I am a new hobbyist just getting into the game and I have one dilema. I live in Bermuda which is a very conservative country so can't find providers there. So when I occasionally go to the U.S. I try to come here and other places for a provider. Also since I am not known legit and high quality providers which I prefer do not trust me or I can't quailify for a screening. So my question is if I travel but want to meet quality people how do i build refrences or reputation?
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Which gives you a huge head start over guys who have ZERO references.
I would suggest you join a screening service like P 411, and the even better news is that you have the prerequisite two references you need to sail right through and get a membership with them. Or at least I hope both the girls you have reviewed will remember and vouch for you. If not, Gina will figure out an alternate method of getting you screened.
Once you get your basic P 411 membership, look for P 411 providers who advertise as "newbie friendly" get yourself a few "okays" and you will be good to go in the future.
Who is Gina, And if I travel will providers ever remember me for a refrence if I am not local and are newbie friendly providers hard to come by because it takes me sometimes almost half a day to get a decent provider?
we (ladies) give ok's and those are added to your profile. Reputable ladies double check those oks tho, P411 is a great advertisement tool for us... and a good way to find ladies for you (client). Not because you are on p411, means you don't have to be screened...
p411 is just another / additional layer of safety.
but as a monger, I interact with hundreds of hookers, and let me state from experience that well over 90% of the P411 ladies I have seen will accept my P 411 credentials as full screening, with no other hoops to jump through.
We do appreciate you presenting the "alternative view" but please don't pretend that your is the majority view. We have come a long ways since this was the "indoctrination board" for providers to bend the newbies to their rules, please don't undo all our hard work by spreading a minority view as if it were SOP.
Once you sign up for P411 you can search for providers that mention on their P411 profile they are newbie friendly.
Once you see some P411 ladies and get okays(references)you will be on your way
I think that will help you out.Also you can look at provider's ads and websites here there is alot of us ladies who will see newbie gents without references.While references are helpful at times there is other alternative methods to screen you.
If you come to vegas look me up I love newbie gents
Good luck to you I am sure it will work out for you.
What about TER white lists? How are those perceived by providers? Do they look at them the same way that they look at references?
for your information
...to me. It would then say "TER whitelist means nothing" to me. I don't doubt the whitelist means nothing to you but it does to others. There are ladies that accept TER whitelist as a reference on it's own. Then there are ladies like Jaydalee who take the whitelist as a reference and contact the provider giving the whitelist to see what she says about the client.
You are correct about some ladies whitelisting a monger they haven't actually seen so contacting the provider giving the whitelist is prudent.
Simply stating "TER whitelist means nothing" is inaccurate.
along with other information when screening potential clients.
whitelist I do not really pay attention to for the simple fact that some guys have whitelists by ladies they have never seen.
I do accept and provide references but even if a guy has a whitelist I will still contact a couple of the ladies.
I don't take the whitelists at face value.
thank you Jaydalee.
I do accept and provide references but even if a guy has a whitelist I will still contact a couple of the ladies.
I don't take the whitelists at face value.
Hey dude, what did you do to Turbay? She is coming for you.Lol
Thank you for the responses. Although I'm sure it happens, I would think that a provider white listing someone that they never met would be a rarity. That said, if someone has multiple white lists, then I would think that would alleviate that concern. I would think that would be how most providers would perceive white lists? Aren't they supposed to mean that the provider validated the experience/review? I would think that most providers would only white list someone if they have seen them multiple times? Do providers white list someone so that they remember them? What motivates a provider to white list someone?
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The way I treat a TER "White list" is the same way I treat a P411 "Okay". I'm still going to email the most recent two companions to get a feel for the the prospective client. There are some things a blanket "white list" or "okay" cannot tell you.
LJ
I will look at TER Whitelist as one layer of my verification. Same with P411. I do contact ladies via email even if a gent has Whitelists and P4r1 Okays. And not all ladies verify the same way obviously.
TER Whitelists and P411 Okays put a potential new friend on the "fast track" to getting verified to my comfort level. I also have alternate ways for screening "newbies". It's going to include some personal/work related info. This has served me well over the years in the biz.
Steph xoxo
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I completely agree! There have been a few times I've done that and ended up having to decline. I personally have not given oks or whitelists without them being legit, and I'm always more than happy to confirm that with fellow providers when they inquire.
I would also suggest P411 which will help in the screening process.
Also, looking at the reviews you wrote, you have seen two women who could also serve as companion references. If you're struggling in the interim of being verified on P411, some providers also take "Employment Verification". However, only you can determine how much information you are willing to provide which is why P411 might be a lovely method for you.
Should you ever find yourself in Dallas or we happen to be in the same place, I'd love to meet you as I am also newbie friendly!
Have fun and be safe,
LJ, xox
1. Go to Vegas.
2. Bring a lot of money.
3. Schedule 2 or 3 providers a day (newbie friendly)
4. Be nice, and treat the ladies well. (And enjoy yourself)
5. Write reviews and ask for references, ok's and whitelists.
6. Go home a happy man.
Side note: only see well reviewed providers and don't gamble with your "monger money" or get too drunk.
If this plan does not work, then let me know, and I'll try it myself................again. 😀
P411 would be the first thing I would do.
See Ladies and get okays. Look for newbie friendly. Site is easy to use and the verification process ease can depend, but they will verify you one way or another. References make the process smoother, but other info about you will/may be required.
Something I'm glad I did.
alternative methods. The more veteran the provider is the more likely there's alternative method, but you will need to ask to find out. You will need to explain your situation. Since you are probably not holding US password, that's usually sufficient for LE check. You may need to show her your ticket/boarding pass upon meeting her. It may also help if your checked luggage is in clear view.