Why did YOU apologize?
Some ladies just aren't good with getting back to emails/phone calls. Maybe wait a bit, see some other ladies, and try back again (like when it's cooler out!)
After MUCH preperation and work to make sure all went well, I set up an appointment with a provider who currently has here own web site with all the needed information on it. Everything fell into place and I arrived at the correct time and place, but upon entering the providers apartment much to my dismay, there was no air conditioning and it was HOT! Yes, she was hot, but I was physically extremely uncomfortable, and with being extremely nervous [ being my first time ever with a provider } things did not go so well. I sweated and sweated and did the best possible, but - not so good. I appoligized for the way things went bad, but I have since called her to see her again and hope to have better luck this time. I have called three times with no reply. Is it a lost cause or should I call again????
Lost cause, definitely. But in your defense, you weren't responsible for it. It was an uncomfortable environment for you, and on top of that you and her just didn't click. She probably feels the same way, and would rather not go through it again. Don't keep calling her, or you risk being labeled as a stalker, or worse, ending up on a DNS (do not see) list that providers share with each other.
Remember: the rules of Darwin's natural selection don't apply in the hobby, so don't assume she rejected you personally. Just move on to the next provider, and since you've already had an encounter with a provider, you'll feel more comfortable. And the next provider will most likely have a working air conditioner at her place.
The first question would be was the A/C broke or she just does not have any? If she has no A/C, well it is the first of August and the next few weeks are going to be even hotter! Maybe try her e-mail, if that does not work I would just move on. Good luck!
Why did YOU apologize?
Some ladies just aren't good with getting back to emails/phone calls. Maybe wait a bit, see some other ladies, and try back again (like when it's cooler out!)
she got some AC working.
I do recall a time when seeing a regular, her AC konked out and she asked me if I could pick up a new one for her on the way over. There was a Target on the way, so I tried to get one, but they were all sold out as this was the first big heat wave of the season.
I ended up buying a bunch of portable fans instead and they seemed to do the trick.