perfectstorm is right..every upscale hotel has a lounge..why do you think they are there? meet her at a certain time..have a drink or two..relax..get to know each other..you will go up together and not have to worry about elevators or special coded keys..it makes for a better session every single time..
I went out of town with some friends and we were able to get an upscale hotel for the ballgame. This particular hotel required a room key to get through a sliding door to get to the elevator.
My question is, how would one get past this in order to meet with a provider? It's not like you can meet in the bar in the lobby, unless you've met said provider once before. I know I could go to the provider instead of in-call but curious about the out-call piece.
More curious than anything. Never know when I may be back at a hotel like this and will want to play.
you greet her like she's someone you know, give her a hug and ask her how she's been since the last time you were in town or whatever. No one will bat an eye.
Another option is to have her call you when she is at the elevator, you take the elevator down, open the door for her, she steps in and you ride up together.
your second idea ( elevator meeting) could work too. I think I still prefer #1. Much more "natural".
I did think about meeting in the hotel bar just wasn't sure that would be an option if I never met the provider.
I did think about riding down the elevator. I guess it would all depend on the provider..
Swim,
I am thinking about your option of utilizing incall only but in case I run across a provider only offering outcall.
Thanks for all the inputs. It at least shows I am thinking along the right lines.
in a hotel bar. Just act like you belong and no one will think anything of it. The provider needs to be dressed for the hotel but not in hooker clothes. If it is a beach hotel, then more casual wear would be appropriate.
I'd just do incall. My personal pref is incall anyway.
Swim
Why would you say, "It's not like you can meet in the bar in the lobby?" That is actually very common! If you read many reviews, you will see a great number of meetings start like that. Naomi's other suggestion of meeting at the elevator also works.
Even incalls sometimes work like that, as the provider will sometimes be in a hotel that requires a key to get past the lobby. So the lady will work out a way to meet you someplace first. I had one that met me at the parking garage door to the hotel, totally avoiding the lobby.
perfectstorm is right..every upscale hotel has a lounge..why do you think they are there? meet her at a certain time..have a drink or two..relax..get to know each other..you will go up together and not have to worry about elevators or special coded keys..it makes for a better session every single time..
I have done this many times meeting in the hotel's bar,lounge,or lobby and go up together never had a problem.It doesn't matter if they are new or old friends.
If the elevator needs a room key, I usually meet the provider in Lobby or the hotel bar. No problems so far except once last year, when the provider and I were walking towards the elevator a group of guys (drunk maybe) looked towards us and one guy shouted out "aah...hooker". Both of us pretended not to notice the comment and just proceeded towards the elevator. This happened in Las vegas, and while we were walking through the casino towards the elevator. But very unusual for this to occur.