I know you know my personal answer to this question, but for the others reading this I have these thoughts. For many newbies and others here on TER the advice has been given that a newbie should only see a lady who has many reviews done by reviewers who have done many reviews. Caution being the main consideration. This does create a catch-22 situation. Now some gentleman may be able to understand and overlook the lack of a history for a provider on TER and the one questionable review you have here. In addition some gentleman may not be aware of the other review sites and may be leery of them if there is some doubt of the truthfulness of those reviews or may wonder if the other reviews can be trusted.  I think it helps that you have a presence here on the TER boards and think that may help overcome the reluctance of gentleman to see you. Sometimes it just takes time to get established and get some additional positive reviews here. So my advice is to hang in there. I think things will get better for you.

C_K

If all I saw were those two reviews, I would wait until I saw 3-4 more that provided a better baseline.  As much as because that issue that arose in the session is one that I am sensitive to as well.

Of course, I've read your posts as well.  Combining the two together, you would be on my "to-do" list.  Smart and sincere go a long way and lead me to believe that it was a one-off incident.

I've never felt completely comfortable with the quality control on the other site you mention.  In all likelihood I would not look there, though I might check elsewhere.

Hi Katie,

Sorry but I had to edit your message.  Please refrain from directly mentioning other escort review sites.  The site you refer to is a competitor of TER's, and TER doesn't want guy going off to another site to find your FANTASTIC reviews, like I just did!!!  (I did like what I found! )

So to answer your question, a smart hobbyist seeks out all information - not just on TER, but other sites.  Smart hobbyists don't just look at the numbers, but also read the juicy details.  The bad review describes an unfortunate situation, but it wasn't all bad.  Smart hobbyists also look at the track record of the reviewer!!!  The bad review comes from a guy who seems to be a tough grader.   I'm closer to York, England than York, PA, and I have a things for redheads.  If I were in your area, your area, you'd be on my list of possibilities.

Now here's a couple of tips to help guys find your great reviews:

1) Have the link to the other site, and the link to TER that you be adding to TER on your site (just a suggestion), link to your profile!!!

2) You have fans, ask them to review you on TER!

jazz32

Re: A query for gentlemen

(with tongue firmly in cheek)  Well, you DO have a problem! What you need are some boffo reviews ASAP. Now, if you will be accommodating about those pesky fees I will be very prompt in submitting a glorious review.
NO?  Darn!  It was worth a try!
Honestly, just hang in there.  Your reviews were great and your skill will create new ones here!

over the past several weeks is going to pay off. It takes a while for some of the guys to come around, but you'll be getting more calls and more reviews. Don't let that one review bother you. I, for one, enjoy your posts and like a lot of the things you've said. I'd see you in a heartbeat, probably a very rapid heartbeat.

Hi - I generally advise newbies to only see ladies with at least a handful of reviews from reviewers with a history of 10 or more reviews. Also, I advise newbies to stay away from CL. However, I often do not heed my own advice. Of course I have 35 years of experience in the hobby and trust my own judgment! Twice, I have seen ladies from CL who had one TER review, albeit from an experienced reviewer. Both ladies were awesome! Why did I see them? Because their ad content and picture(s) turned me on! If the question is, would I see you based on your website and TER reviews? Hell, yes I would! Maybe I'll even drive up to your neck of the woods and do it one day. Cheers - Gregory

Re: A query for gentlemen

I have GOT to find a reason to go to PA!!! Really, looking at the guy's review, I can see his point, but it REALLY looked like you went the extra mile to make it up to him.  I know I'd see you in a heartbeat... just come visit Atlanta the first week in March! I have SUCH a weakness for REDHEADS!!!!

The guy's personality is seen in the review...

as well as the details of the session. I pay attention to both and try to figure out if the provider would be a good fit for me. Some guys are real jerks & when I read a bad review I usually check their other reviews which really gives a good picture of who they are.

I wish you well.

I have never seen the other site reviews but you have been on "my favorites" based on the two TER reviews.  The critical review was from a very tough grader.  I've read your posts and we've exchanged PM's and that has made me comfortable enough to see you.  As others have mentioned the problem is location.  I am going to drive to PA at some point if I must, but I hope a can catch you soon on a biz trip to Baltimore.

hobbyist will check other sites for your review.  Just have a link to them on your web site.

I like girls. LOL.  I'd see you in a New York minute.