ok,
Newbie here. Depends on what the providers review states. I have only booked one appt. and it was a half hour. I popped before the 30 minutes said my goodbyes and left. Had the shoe been on my foot I would not have adjusted the donation and my vip review would have described in detail what transpired, but thats me.
So just got home from a short session with a provider that I just met for the first time.
Had made arrangements for an hour appt. Okay so 20 minutes in, I got off. Then after a quick trip to the can to toss used implement she asks oh were we doing multiples? I reply I hope so. Her" I don't do multiples." So that finished that. So being that I wasn't going to get service of anykind for the remaining 40min, I removed the difference between the hour and the half hour rate from the money I had previously placed on the table. I thought that was pretty damn fair to do since I wasnt going to get the hour's service.. So was that right or wrong of me?
Since I'm still looking to get my first experience done, it would be well hard for me to say you did anything right or wrong. If that were me in your shoes, I don't really know what I'd do. My thought at reading this, and not actually experience it makes me think the first thing in my head would be, "Did her ad say multiple ok or no?" I am guessing here, sheer newbie logic, that if it doesn't say it's in the deal, she didn't do anything wrong. Just my guess here. However, since you are making us all aware of this, I imagine this ladies business might be taking a hit too after we all see this.
It could have been handled more tactfully on her part, but you pay for her TIME, not for this action or that action.
intimidation. What's she supposed to do, fight you over it? You booked an hour, you paid for an hour, you leave it the way it is. You don't like the session, write the review and don't go back; but don't dip back into the till and take back what you think she didn't earn.
There's no difference in what you described than if you just didn't "click" and wanted to leave after the first half hour. Would you have taken back the money then?? Or if you had gotten a call that required you to leave early for your own reasons. Would you have taken back the money then?? Before you say: "that's different", bullshit. It was your problem that she only gave one pop, not hers. Unless she promised multiple pops, which is not in your post, then YOU are the one who decided that you deserved more than one pop in an hour. You took back HER money because YOU made a mistake.
Behavior like that can get you blacklisted if you don't watch out. In any case, there was no Etiquette involved, just bullying.
see my post below though - in reality I doubt this incident actually occured, although it is possible
You don't mention if you checked reviews, talked with her about your desires were, or clarified what her offerings are. While I personally don't understand the rational, there ARE ladies who limit to one game, that is their right. It is your right to know this and choose not to see them. It is not your right to have expectations over and above what she advertises and/or to adjust your donation to what you think is "fair."
You say "being that I wasn't going to get service of any kind for the remaining 40 min..." Did you happen to ask her how she planned to spend that time with you, or did you just assume the time was up? Did you ask her if she had a half-hour rate that you could adjust your donation to?
What's a lady to do when you just take your money back?
Risk getting beaten and robbed to fight you over it?
You did not handle this well at all from what you posted, though your post was short so perhaps you left out some pertinent details.
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Actually you are are paying for booked time. Its like booking a hotel room. You book for the night, if you leave early, you still pay the booked rate.You booked her for an hour so you pay for an hour.
There are some facts to consider:
1. Does her site or ad or reviews indicate one way or the other if she allow multiple shots or not?
2. Did you set it up as a one hour session?
3. What was her response to getting only a half hour rate? Does she advertise a half hour rate?
These are the reasons why review sites were set up in the first place, to be sure that these misunderstanding are avoided in the first place.
If she offers a half hour rate, I would say that what you did was entirely appropriate. You were there half an hour, so you pay for half an hour. Did she protest when you adjusted the donation you gave her?
Although I am somewhat suspicious of your story, it seems appropriate - what was her reaction when you did this?
If you actually did this - as a newbie - my hat's off to you - but, to tell you the truth, if you were the type of no-nonsense person who had the sack to actually employ this technique, I wouldn't expect you also to be the type to come here and ask for our approval later.
(Please note: This is not a challenge, merely an observation on my part, as an outside observer but going on my experience and very amateur perceptions of human psychology.)
You didn't do your homework or you would have known upfront that there was no extra pop...
Support your community and get the most bang for your buck. Now join the ranks of VIP and do your homework.
In most ladies profiles it does say offers extra pop, and that is in the hour. If you did read all of the ladies reviews you would know this was not the case. It won't happen to you again!
Now about the money issue. If she only offered hours and no list of 1/2 hours then it was her money even though she didn't give you that extra pop. No false advertising on her part. Now if she offered a 1/2 hour rate I would say you were right with your choice..She could have kept you there an extra half hour and offered you that extra round.Then she would have earned all her fee.
Kisses Haley
Like it's been said on TER many,many,times!...Know what your getting into,before you get into it!....Do your homework!
Find a provider that allows multiple pops...it's that simple!....Good Luck.
Some chicks are inconsistent, depending on their mood at the time perhaps. I once booked a girl for an hour who's reviews described multiple pops. She was getting dressed after 30 minutes, coincidentally right after answering the phone. No partial refund, that's it. So I can sympathize with guys who find themselves in this situation. Not much you can do about it without risking her boyfriend or pimp getting involved, other than pointing it out to others in a review.
I understand all the different viewpoints and see their point. More detail.
Came into the room. She asked if we were doing half hour. I said planned for an hour. When we got to the time in question she started getting dressed so I think it was safe to assume that we were done.
No mention in the ad about multiples and I have never had any other provider that I booked for an hour not provide multiples.
She did not argue/complain about my subtraction though I detected some sadness about losing the extra money.
Never using her again anyway for additional reasons besides that.
Oh and I wish that getting a VIP was worthwhile but there are basically no providers on this site in my area.
ok,
Newbie here. Depends on what the providers review states. I have only booked one appt. and it was a half hour. I popped before the 30 minutes said my goodbyes and left. Had the shoe been on my foot I would not have adjusted the donation and my vip review would have described in detail what transpired, but thats me.
juicy details rather than relying on the profile which is created by the first reviewer. You also might want to read several pages of posts so you get a better understanding of how this game is played.