listed on p411, email signature, when confirm the date, on your website... etc... (so that way they can't miss the information)>
When it rains it pours. Yesterday I had 3 cancellations,of course they were all last minute appointments but still irritaing none the less. Being dressed up and ready to go,mentally prepared and all kind of sucks to be told last minute nevermind. Grrrrr.
My question is how do you deal with the let down when you were really looking forward to playing???Do you book another provider or client? There really isn't a place to advertise last minute that feels safe or works for me. So far this is the only site that I've found reliable clients but I like p 4 1 1 for simple verification but it doesn't work as well for clients for me. How do you find someone to see last minute if you already posted your ad for the week and pic for the day?
It's frustrating so please help cheer me up or give me some soild ideas lol. Hope you all have a bad ass day!
Just last week, a provider on the Minnesota board was complaining about the same problem. I'm starting to wonder if there's a new crop of hobbyists showing up on the scene or something. Like, new enough that they don't know what they're doing. Anyway, chin up. Shit happens, like anything else in life, you learn to to take the bad along with the good. As far as advertising and getting a replacement client, know your options, I guess. BP might not be your first choice, but I've found that as long as providers go with their gut feelings, well, you ladies have some pretty good survival instincts. Or you can just make damn sure you have a savings built up to fall back on when things get slow or weird.
BP is scary and I wouldn't even think of using. Bills are paid and I have a professional career as well....$$$ isn't the concern here. Getting all dressed up and using make up,time,energy and naughty thoughts just to be blown off. I had blue lips ...gggrrrr hahaha. I'll probably just stay clear of newbies requesting last minute or late appointments. In this case sadly they weren't all new. The 3rd was a very well 👌 p411 client.
listed on p411, email signature, when confirm the date, on your website... etc... (so that way they can't miss the information)>
How does one enforce it?
and u got a pm
Both the guys and the girls are held to the same standards to maintain their memberships on P 411.
I am sorry you are getting such a rash of cancellations, but sometimes it does come with the territory. That doesn't mean you should take it lying down, just that life seems to run in streaks and hopefully you are just on a bad streak.
Personally, I like to have an agency or two as a back up to a last minute cancellation as a client, but that is hardly a remedy for a provider, about the only thing I can suggest is to leave your "available now" ad up on P 411 and hope there is maybe a guy who also got cancelled on just dying to see someone that day.
I will try that. Yes, he made the confirmation and cancelled as I was finishing up. I was thinkingof emailing them but I wasn't sure if that would be out of line. Thank you.
...No Call No Show ie. he didn't show up and didn't call to let you know.
Calling to cancel at the last moment is just shy of a NCNS IMHO. The point of using P411 is that there is an unspoken expectation that this type of behavior won't occur. Granted life happens and this occurs, but both sides need to ensure it doesn't go unnoticed.
It's one of the reasons I look for a lady whose listed on that site..
...made me think you were considering reporting them to P411. Possibly you meant you would try what he said about your ad.
if they did cancel then it's not NCNS
is just part of how it is. I personally don't look for a last minute replacement. One reason is I've already played out in my mind the direction of how I want things to go. Sometimes it's from what she's wearing, so how I initially great her, etc. I let my imagination roam.
Then when she cancels, it's a disappointment. Especially when I've seen her before and we both know each other.
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For me its especially rough because I don't have a permanent incall. Nothing like getting a hotel and then having a cancellation... but it does happen. The more regulars you build up the less you will find it to be a problem and eventually it won't sting so much when there's a few cancellations.
I feel if there's enough complaints then it's more likely Gina will take some action. Even a warning email may be enough to deter future bad behavior. When clients behave badly, it doesn't just affect providers. It also affect all of us.
I think this is happening more because ladies aren't reporting it enough and feel bad doing it. Especially for people who cancel often.
It would be rather hypocritical for me not to advise the ladies to stand up for themselves when this kind of crap happens to them.
Unfortunately there is a bit of a double standard where it comes to the ladies "naming names" as posting that "GaGambler was a no good flake that cancelled last minute three times in a row" might not be real good for GaGamblers ability to get future dates, but the reality also is a lot of would be clients might be scared off in the process.
My advice to the ladies is to both share this information amongst yourselves, AND if you have the ability to report these guys to someone like Gina, by all means do so. I don't want to see a hooker all pissed off about the last three guys who no showed on her, I want to see "happy hookers" who love their job. lol
....rather than any NCNS's. Yeah it sucks to be cancelled on, especially at the last minute, but I'll take that over a NCNS any day of tbe week.
Saturday at 10:30 am I got an email from a visiting provider that I had contacted but wasn't able to book.
I bet she had a cancellation and was basically sending me a "you up?" email lol
I responded twice in email that I really did want to see her (not realizing then what might have been going on), and gave a possible day and time that I might be able to work out.
I didn't hear back....
....a sexy picture from a nice hotel room....I just might run there if I had the time.
Of course there is screening etc.
I had a no show provider a few days ago and I was sitting in my car 45 minutes later waiting on a work appointment and I just thought I will commiserate with a woman I have booked a few weeks from now.
She texted back that she had just had a no show as well lol! at the same time.
If only we had a crystal ball.....or if she had twitter.
type of behavior?
2 were new so yes the other one was well verified and ok on p411.
Sorry!! 
thats not a good feeling.Cancellation policy has definetly cured my cancellation blues! Never had a need for one fortunately until i kid you not i had 9 cancellations in a row over the course of a little over a week so no pay immidetly added policy just to be safe.
My question is how do you deal with the let down when you were really looking forward to playing???Do you book another provider or client? There really isn't a place to advertise last minute that feels safe or works for me. So far this is the only site that I've found reliable clients but I like p 4 1 1 for simple verification but it doesn't work as well for clients for me. How do you find someone to see last minute if you already posted your ad for the week and pic for the day?
It's frustrating so please help cheer me up or give me some soild ideas lol. Hope you all have a bad ass day!
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The way Maddy did this; talking more about missing out on the action than losing money, not being all whining and annoying, responding to those who responded to her, etc, it kinda makes me want to see her.
"No reason to talk shit about pro."?? Fancy, as far as I can tell, your the only one here doing that. Good luck with your car.
I hope you do
It does.
If I ever make it to Vegas, I believe I will meet you.
Actually I missed the dick ...don't be so salty fancy...it's very unbecoming.