Newbie - FAQ

I did not make this list to scare off Newbies
harborview 10 Reviews 455 reads
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YES, as was posted getting VIP & doing complete research on a prospective "date" ought to rule out these scams.
Those scammers are very slick...  they have the move all planned & can even be out the door before you can protest.  There are some who should be in the Olympics...  track team!   Many of the scams work best (against us) on out-calls to your home or hotel room.  Place the donation well into the bedroom, not near the door!  
I should caution that it's illegal to physically lock someone in or physically restrain them...  think kidnapping or unlawful restraint charges...  we don't have to make ourselves look like an easy mark!   This is supposed to be FUN!  Again, well reviewed providers are the best bet for newbies & the risk adverse.

There are good providers on every ad site...  and scammers...  TER exists to help sort them out.  And I thank all the wonderful ladies who provide honest services to brighten our days.
Just so the Newbies know some of the scams, here's a few we gathered previously.  Feel free to add more if you know of any.
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Bait & Switch...  ads with pictures not her own or seriously out of date or sends another provider

Runner or 'cash & dash'  Grabs the cash & bolts for the door.

Runner or 'take off' After recieving the cash, announces she left the condoms in the car, goes out to get them & runs.  

Runner:  After recieving cash, does not have condoms, you drive her to the store, she runs...

Runner After recieving cash, does not have condoms, you drive her to the store, you wait outside, she tells the clerk a story (coersion, pressure etc) is let out another door...  she runs...  

She promises/implies services which are withdrawn from menu after payment.  (This refers mainly to large scale changes)

The switchero  First review BBBJ, later customers CBJ.

Reviewed:  Link to TER or other reviews.  Take he time to read the reviews.  Existance of reviews does not mean they are good reviews!  

Up sell:  She collects payment & suddenly services are extra cost.

The Banker:  Asks for cash advances or loans, sometimes to be worked off or repaid in cash... then refuses your calls or disappears.

Thief:  When you are not looking, items or cash disappear.

Scout:  After appointment your residence is burlarized.    

Blackmail:  A provider finds out too much personal information about you, and threatens to post or give out your information to who ever (job, media, family) in exchange for money.


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That's a good list of scams. If one is afraid of getting burned, then one should not play with fire. It's about choices and repercussions.

Posted By: harbor_view
There are good providers on every ad site...  and scammers...  TER exists to help sort them out.  And I thank all the wonderful ladies who provide honest services to brighten our days.
Just so the Newbies know some of the scams, here's a few we gathered previously.  Feel free to add more if you know of any.
H

Bait & Switch...  ads with pictures not her own or seriously out of date or sends another provider

Runner or 'cash & dash'  Grabs the cash & bolts for the door.

Runner or 'take off' After recieving the cash, announces she left the condoms in the car, goes out to get them & runs.  

Runner:  After recieving cash, does not have condoms, you drive her to the store, she runs...

Runner After recieving cash, does not have condoms, you drive her to the store, you wait outside, she tells the clerk a story (coersion, pressure etc) is let out another door...  she runs...  

She promises/implies services which are withdrawn from menu after payment.  (This refers mainly to large scale changes)

The switchero  First review BBBJ, later customers CBJ.

Reviewed:  Link to TER or other reviews.  Take he time to read the reviews.  Existance of reviews does not mean they are good reviews!  

Up sell:  She collects payment & suddenly services are extra cost.

The Banker:  Asks for cash advances or loans, sometimes to be worked off or repaid in cash... then refuses your calls or disappears.

Thief:  When you are not looking, items or cash disappear.

Scout:  After appointment your residence is burlarized.    

Blackmail:  A provider finds out too much personal information about you, and threatens to post or give out your information to who ever (job, media, family) in exchange for money.


YES, as was posted getting VIP & doing complete research on a prospective "date" ought to rule out these scams.
Those scammers are very slick...  they have the move all planned & can even be out the door before you can protest.  There are some who should be in the Olympics...  track team!   Many of the scams work best (against us) on out-calls to your home or hotel room.  Place the donation well into the bedroom, not near the door!  
I should caution that it's illegal to physically lock someone in or physically restrain them...  think kidnapping or unlawful restraint charges...  we don't have to make ourselves look like an easy mark!   This is supposed to be FUN!  Again, well reviewed providers are the best bet for newbies & the risk adverse.

She seems legit, you are getting "comfortable" and all of a sudden some big ape is pounding on the door or busting down the door and you just want to get out of there with your life.

Or girl or her thug block your exit and you aren't allowed to leave unless you give them all the money you have in your possession.

Or the ones where she is stalling for time, you may be undressed but she still has her clothes on, she is doing a little dance, strip tease, etc, mostly dressed.  Outside one of her friends is breaking in your car and stealing anything and everything they can find of value.     The session doesn't actually happen, she's stalled long enough that you pretty much know you've been screwed, you go back outside to find your car's been broken into and she acts like she knows nothing about it.  (I read a review on another site where this is standard MO at this girl's incall).

I also read a review the other day where the girl took the money and then went to the bathroom and locked the door, and didn't come out - the guy waited 4 hrs and she did not come out.  (said she had a computer and phone in bathroom with her btw).

Thankyou Naomi,
I will add Pimp/BF at the door / Runner.  or  Pimp at the door so you bail.  That is a scam.

If you are shaken down for cash, that is robbery.  

Withor without service add burglary of auto...  

I am at a loss for the bathroom safe room...  yup, another scam.  

Posted By: Naomi_Sweets
She seems legit, you are getting "comfortable" and all of a sudden some big ape is pounding on the door or busting down the door and you just want to get out of there with your life.

Or girl or her thug block your exit and you aren't allowed to leave unless you give them all the money you have in your possession.

Or the ones where she is stalling for time, you may be undressed but she still has her clothes on, she is doing a little dance, strip tease, etc, mostly dressed.  Outside one of her friends is breaking in your car and stealing anything and everything they can find of value.     The session doesn't actually happen, she's stalled long enough that you pretty much know you've been screwed, you go back outside to find your car's been broken into and she acts like she knows nothing about it.  (I read a review on another site where this is standard MO at this girl's incall).

I also read a review the other day where the girl took the money and then went to the bathroom and locked the door, and didn't come out - the guy waited 4 hrs and she did not come out.  (said she had a computer and phone in bathroom with her btw).

"Switchero" is a scam unless the provider's current profile still states BBBJ.  Someone can change their mind at any time, seeing as how some STDs can be spread through oral contact.

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