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I can't help but wonder...
lopaw 29 Reviews 234 reads
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... what is to be gained by someone lying about what happened in a session  in terms of stating certain services were performed that actually weren't. Is it to fuck with the provider's credibility? I just really don't get it.  

I understand the answers may differ from person to person... so just to get an idea of what people think on the topic

Asking providers: Do you sometimes offer services that you do not advertise as to gauge whether you really want to do it with a client as you meet them? Should a client inquire about this with you or just leave it be? Sometimes a review will mention something not listed and I wonder if that is the reason why or just a dishonest review or the reviewer mentioned something they were asked not to. (I can imagine that would happen unfortunately). Just wondering. Plus, sometimes it just say "Not Sure" for some services. If I were to ask, the answer is final, I respect that 100%. Just wonder if asking at all is a good idea.

Thanks for all you do.

Posted By: lonewolf7799
I understand the answers may differ from person to person... so just to get an idea of what people think on the topic  
   
 Asking providers: Do you sometimes offer services that you do not advertise as to gauge whether you really want to do it with a client as you meet them? Should a client inquire about this with you or just leave it be? Sometimes a review will mention something not listed and I wonder if that is the reason why or just a dishonest review or the reviewer mentioned something they were asked not to. (I can imagine that would happen unfortunately). Just wondering. Plus, sometimes it just say "Not Sure" for some services. If I were to ask, the answer is final, I respect that 100%. Just wonder if asking at all is a good idea.  
   
 Thanks for all you do.

Until you're in the room, naked. Or after you've met them, with permission. That's the general rule.  

I wouldn't ask the way you phrased it, or in terms of what it says in reviews or on her profile. If you want to know whether she does something, just ask if she does it.

Depending on the rapport you've established in your communications with your hostess, it is sometimes possible to refer to reviews in particular ways to make your hopes clear.  A, B and C all refer to BBBJCIM and D, E and F mention spit or CBJ or whatever.  You could try to say, "A, B and C had the kind of experience I'm really looking forward to. D and E, not so much."  If she picks up on the meaning, she might deter you with, "I've known A, B and C for a long time [regulars] and we do get along very well. You and I will have to see how things go when we meet."  Or she might say, "[Thanks for the heads up.] I'll be ready and looking forward to making you as happy as A, B and C." Or she might say, "A, B and C may have exaggerated things in their reviews. D, E and F all had a good time, without exaggerating, and I'm sure that you will have a good time, too."
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You need to be careful with this approach. She could shut you off completely. You need to accurately assess the rapport.

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Keep in mind that a number of ladies may or may not even be aware they have a review.  Some reviewers over exaggerate their experience and describe things that may not have even occurred.  Lastly, their is a certain rapport that some have where a lady is comfortable enough with a client that she may enjoy certain items that she might not otherwise share with someone she hasn't met before.

 I'll ask once I'm there about things she may not enjoy so I understand where her boundaries are. If she's enjoying her time and feels that she's open to something more, I leave that up to her to communicate.  

... what is to be gained by someone lying about what happened in a session  in terms of stating certain services were performed that actually weren't. Is it to fuck with the provider's credibility? I just really don't get it.  

They are starting to lie again because of the scoring factor.

Before it was a fake "she's really bi" and now it is "she gave me greek". I am sure there are other things added to a few reviews that may not have happened specifically with that reviewer but he added it in the review to not be stuck giving a lower score.... either by his own doing or her asking.

I am either very well trimmed or shaved completely but guys have considered my extremely short trim as "natural". It causes issues here and there. Do we not know what natural is vs barely there or not at all? Seriously, HUGE difference if I was natural. Pretty obvious difference.

Posted By: lopaw
... what is to be gained by someone lying about what happened in a session  in terms of stating certain services were performed that actually weren't. Is it to fuck with the provider's credibility? I just really don't get it.  

Often times they were implying that somehow they were special enough that they did things a lady might  not or doesn't do with others.  Many get the impression that just because someone does something, they are entitled to it as well.  I've never approached it that way.  I just let things progress on their own and let the lady establish her boundaries. Maybe that's why I'm never turned away when I want to see them again.

Sometimes it's lying, sometimes it's a mistake, sometimes it's forgetting what really happened and it comes in different degrees of seriousness and certainty.
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I remember the first time I encountered a "condom ninja."  We started out, me on my back, she on top, with kissing and she slowly works her way down. Before long, I thought I was getting BBBJ and it felt great. As she rises up to impale herself, I excitedly say, "Condom! Condom!" to avoid BB. She had to point out that the cover was there! How the hell did THAT happen??  
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I am no longer as surprised when some of my hostesses are able to cloak and shield my sword but some are truly amazing.  In case anyone is wondering, the K-girls are super-ninjas at doing this.
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So I can see someone thinking it was BBBJ before CFS and stuff like. He or she :-) thought they were getting DFK but their eyeballs had already rolled inside their skull so they didn't really know what was happening, other than bliss. Sometimes, a month or two has passed and the reviewer misremember some details like that. Some are serious, some less so.  Tattoo count; piercings; ...
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And there are the occasional mean spirited deliberate lies to make things difficult for the Provider (BBFS when she doesn't; NQNS when she doesn't; ...)

Posted By: lopaw
Re: I can't help but wonder...
... what is to be gained by someone lying about what happened in a session  in terms of stating certain services were performed that actually weren't. Is it to fuck with the provider's credibility? I just really don't get it.  

Posted By: lonewolf7799

I understand the answers may differ from person to person... so just to get an idea of what people think on the topic  
   
 Asking providers: Do you sometimes offer services that you do not advertise as to gauge whether you really want to do it with a client as you meet them? Should a client inquire about this with you or just leave it be? Sometimes a review will mention something not listed and I wonder if that is the reason why or just a dishonest review or the reviewer mentioned something they were asked not to. (I can imagine that would happen unfortunately). Just wondering. Plus, sometimes it just say "Not Sure" for some services. If I were to ask, the answer is final, I respect that 100%. Just wonder if asking at all is a good idea.  
   
 Thanks for all you do.

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