I'm stealing this age old topic from a recent discussion on the national board. There, a provider expressed her ATF client in a unique way. By filling out the below, please let us know what matters most to you. Answers should be on a scale of 1-10 ... 1 being the least important.
I was under the impression, apparently mistaken impression, that the provider would appreciate a client who doesn't try to linger beyond the time allotted. Isn't that true and if it is, how would a client do that without being aware of the time?
For you guys, is easy to have an ATF provider, because you are buying services accordingly to your needs and when you find ONE girl that have all, she turns into your ATF for a while until you find someone else that can be better than her and claim the title.
Also, the number of people you see cannot be compared to the number I see...so is easier for guys to have one or two favorites.
Personally, I don't think I can use the ATF term....unless it can be used to more than one person.
I prefer to just have a bunch of favorites...most fill some of your list, some don't.
I have favorites who doesn't have the looks, or dress in Armanis...but they are the nicest & sweetest men I ever met.
I have favorites who are highly paid professionals, but also I have favorites who are not...class & intelligence doesn't come attached to education or how much money you make.
I don't care about a guy looks or how he dresses...that's not important to me.
I also don't care if he is skilled or innovative...I am the one who need to provide that to him.
Instead of classiness I would say respectfullness and instead of intelligent I would say smart talker, so we can shoot the breeze during a break.
Now...good attitude, reliability & hygiene are things I expect from all clients, favorites or not.
I must say I've been blessed to meet some fantastic clients. I have heard so many horror stories about this, that and the other thing. Thank goodness I haven't had to deal with that.
The providers here rate intelligence and attitude higher than looks for clients. That's good to hear, but I think that's because if providers could only see guys who had Brad Pitt kind of looks, they wouldn't make as much money. What is the ratio of hot looking to not-so-hot looking clients I wonder? Let's face it, most guys, and women, are not considered hotties. Providers limiting themselves to hotties means reduced income.
In my civilian experience, guys who are good looking, insensitive and stupid get more women than guys who are intelligent, compassionate and humorous but ugly to average looking.
Basically, show up when you say you will...don't cancel every other appointment. Be CLEAN and smell nice...don't overload with cologne and DON'T put it on your privates! lol And while we're down there, do you think you could trim things up a bit? Have a respectful attitude, be happy to see me, and when the time is right, kiss me and touch me like its the last time you'll ever get to be with a woman, for the rest of your life. I can't stress enough the importance of the BFE factor. In fact, I've often tossed around the idea of raising my hourly rate to an exorbitant amount, and then simply offering 50% off for BFE's.
As for money, sure that's great. But it doesn't do me any good, if you're not willing to part with it, lol. Some men "give", with strings attached (ie they expect you to fall in love, and then get upset when you don't). I don't need or want that hassle, so to them I say keep it. On the other hand, those with truly altruistic intentions, who just like to see me smile, your thoughtfulness is welcomed and will be returned in spades!!!
I appreciate your opinions on what makes an ATF client, but I have some questions for each lady that has responded.
That question is: Do you, or have you ever taken advantage of your ATF's or hobbyists who a go out of their way to make sure that you have a good time, treat you like a lady and a friend rather than just a sex object and truly respect you?
Have you ever taken your ATF's and good clients for granted?
Do you take your ATF's and good clients for granted most of the time?
Ladies, please think about these questions and answer them honestly to yourselves.
People in this community that truly care about providers, are unselfish, sincere and strive to give more than they receive are rare and those relationships/friendships should be cherished.
The next time you see one of your clients that exemplifies these priceless virtues, it is my hope that you'll be sincerely thankful and cherish the time you spend with them.
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