I completely mis-read your post

To quote: "I usually do #2 just to 'look' like I'm not a psycho"

I thought that doing a number 2 would make the provider run out of the room screaming.

Considering ya'll know what we look like before we meet (and it wasnt the gym clothes that got you there) I would have to go with 1 and 2..

I kinda have a thing for a man in a suit and tie (its SOOOO hott).. But at the same time casual is just as nice, as long as you present yourself with a Lil' Bit of class than your good to go!! Also grooming (everything) is great too!!

Play Safe and Have Fun

Samm

Hardy is right. "The better dressed you are, the more at ease the ladies will be." See, we are always a tiny bit tense when we meet a new client. So when we open the door and let you into our home, we need to feel safe. By showing effort in your presentation, it puts us at ease, and when we are at ease, we can focus completely on pleasuring you. We dont want any tension, we just want to focus on making you happy. By showing a bit of effort in your appearance and hygene, you'll help us feel comfortable. You've read our reviews and know our reputation, but we dont know who will walk in our door, you know what i mean? We have about 5 minutes to make a decision on if a man is safe or not. So, 2 or 3 is good. Never wear white sneakers or clothes from gym. Dont come in with stains on your clothes like you've just had a food fight. I actually had a guy come into my 5-star hotel wearing his chef apron! He had all kinds of food stains on him, and security followed him up since he looked so out-of-place. Just as we offer you discretion, by you dressing professionally, you offer us descretion also. If you are entering a nice hotel, you will only draw attention to yourself if you dont blend in. And you dont want them asking you questions right? You want your privacy of course. Hope this helps, since you asked for some providers to give an opinion.