This is for everybody but it is primarily addressed to the LADIES.
I am aware of a certain scumbag sending anonymous e-mails to several ladies on the Guest List apparently raising security questions.
1. Security for this Mixer is as tight if not tighter than any other Mixer. The date has NOT been posted. The location is not given out until the eve of the Mixer.
2. Nobody even gets the date unless I know who they are. Many gentlemen and even one or two "ladies" are not in the loop because they have not been verified. There is a reason why I have not and will not post the special e-mail address set up for this Mixer. ONLY verified and trusted people get the e-mail and the location will ONLY go out via that e-mail.
3. We keep security tight notwithstanding the fact that nothing happens at these Mixers beyond eating , drinking, meeting and greeting. None of which is remotely illegal.
4. The creepy asshole sending out these e-mails is doing so anonymously with only one objective: To sabotage the Mixer so that nobody will ever want to host one again. Why ? I have no idea. I do know that he is no longer permitted to post his " rotten sausage" garbage in my Mixer threads.
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I don't know who is gracing me with their kind attentions and is so interested and concerned with what I am doing. But I do know who it isn't. I am satisfied that Fuzzy aka Smelly has nothing to do with this latest. He and I have managed to settle SOME of our differences and achieve peaceful coexistence.
I am aware of a certain scumbag sending anonymous e-mails to several ladies on the Guest List apparently raising security questions.
1. Security for this Mixer is as tight if not tighter than any other Mixer. The date has NOT been posted. The location is not given out until the eve of the Mixer.
2. Nobody even gets the date unless I know who they are. Many gentlemen and even one or two "ladies" are not in the loop because they have not been verified. There is a reason why I have not and will not post the special e-mail address set up for this Mixer. ONLY verified and trusted people get the e-mail and the location will ONLY go out via that e-mail.
3. We keep security tight notwithstanding the fact that nothing happens at these Mixers beyond eating , drinking, meeting and greeting. None of which is remotely illegal.
4. The creepy asshole sending out these e-mails is doing so anonymously with only one objective: To sabotage the Mixer so that nobody will ever want to host one again. Why ? I have no idea. I do know that he is no longer permitted to post his " rotten sausage" garbage in my Mixer threads.
-- Modified on 3/6/2012 7:31:07 AM
GED, Fuzzy, Smelly and everyone else that you've blamed for past and present party problems are not the problems. Those guys don't attend your parties. Vadhaman the party problems lie with you.
Cut Vadhaman some slack. He's trying to fill a big void here. What's your contribution? Lead, follow, or get the f*** out of the way.
What is the problem? We all love to attend M & G parties, so let the person who is trying to put together a party for us do it in peace and be grateful that someone is willing to pick up the reins. We are all here to have a good time, so let's not throw dirt at anyone!
Let him host his M&G without your intervention and stay off his threads.
I reached out to you via PM and to "Alan" via e-mail to try and find common ground and hopefully help you be a "happy camper". Apparently even a simple dialogue is too much for you. Whatever. I tried.
Nonetheless I wish you well and hope you and "Alan" feel better.
Life is short for stuff like that! 
But speaking as the ex moderator of this board, this needs to stop. I mean, do you realize what a pain in the ass it is to plan one of these events?
Whatever you think of Vad, he is trying to contribute to this little community of ours. I don't see you stepping up Mr. Man_Cave. And on top of that, u are using an alias. So, as far as I am concerned, nothing you say carries any weight with me (and I am sure others). Post with your true handle at least. Be a man.
Vad, sorry you are going through this.
Bond
I don't know what he is talking about.
GED and I get along fine and he's been a guest at many of my parties.
uzzy and I have settled SOME of our issues and agreed to disagree about 1 or 2 other things thus achieving peaceful coexistence.
I've even reached out to "Alan Blumenfeld" to see if a dialogue is possible and try to work things out with him or her. I'm all about peace, love and happiness and try to get along with everybody.
None of this is new. All one has to do is READ with something resembling an open mind after putting any agenda on the shelf.
Wishing well to one and all.
Well stated! Lets allow Vad to show us his stuff. TBM has left us a huge void. Octavia's events are nice but tend to be more intimate. Her talents are needed for those that want her style. She does very well at it. TBM's style is needed by those that have become accustomed to his larger and yet very well run events. I for one will miss TBM's flair but lets give him a chance to recharge his batteries and please, lets not shoot Vad just yet. "Give the kid a chance!" We need a Spring mixer and at least he is trying!!