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Re: good point about the sun! Write the review with respectful tact or don't if your heart says let
cooper04 83 Reviews 473 reads
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Thank you MILFCARESSA!!  It really was dramatically way off.  I totally understand some use photo enhancements, weights change slightly etc... and all of that is to be expected.  However with this one, it was night and day differences.  I can only imagine what you all have to go thru when you read bogus reviews.  Thanks for the insight

I hope I can get insight from both providers and clients on this one.....

I recently was in Florida and had a date with someone who posted she was 41 and her pictures showed a hard body fitness model type.  She was on P411 and also had decent TER reviews (some very recent).  As our date was coming soon, she would randomly text me more pictures of her and she looked great.

HOWEVER, when she got to my room, she was closer to 60 years old than she was to 40 years old.  If I were to guess, the pictures were easily 15+ years old.  Her skin was very wrinkly and I felt like I was with my grandmother.

Now, Im not a rude person and I never want to post negativity..... but in this case I feel the need to be honest to others who may book with her.  

I would love to get feedback and please keep it nice.  Thanks

If I were you, I would write a review that is both honest and respectful, that includes the age difference between the pics and the reality, so that future clients can know who it is that will greet them, and make their own choice, based on your honesty and not her deception.

You basically experienced a "bait & switch" which is not a good way for any business to go about their business.  

You're not posting negativity, you're posting honesty. Include things like: Was she still very fit? And include the way her skin looks currently as opposed to the pics she is sending out- all that is a fair assessment of what she is (mis)representing herself as.

I kept the appointment but I couldnt tell as she was completely clothed when she arrived.  Thanks for the advice

You are probably right.  Thats what I should have done.  However she was clothed when she arrived.  I could tell her face was much older but had no idea how much different her body looked.  Oh well, I think I will be respectful but honest for my review.  Thanks for the input

I was in the same situation years ago.
I wrote an honest review. The provider either called me, txt me? I don't remember questioning the review.
I was honest with her and said a review is supposed to me my thoughts and they were. Sorry she didn't like it.
It wasn't bad she just wanted a higher rating for her stats.

JustLayingLow397 reads

Posted By: cooper04
I hope I can get insight from both providers and clients on this one.....  
   
 I recently was in Florida and had a date with someone who posted she was 41 and her pictures showed a hard body fitness model type.  She was on P411 and also had decent TER reviews (some very recent).  As our date was coming soon, she would randomly text me more pictures of her and she looked great.  
   
 HOWEVER, when she got to my room, she was closer to 60 years old than she was to 40 years old.  If I were to guess, the pictures were easily 15+ years old.  Her skin was very wrinkly and I felt like I was with my grandmother.  
   
 Now, Im not a rude person and I never want to post negativity..... but in this case I feel the need to be honest to others who may book with her.    
   
 I would love to get feedback and please keep it nice.  Thanks

Just be factual without embellishment, presumptions or name calling in your narrative. Also, make sure your score is appropriate for that same narrative.

Of course the review will be from your perspective (i.e. - your opinion) but as Mocha said, you can do this without being rude or nasty. Saying things like "I thought ________" or "my feelings on this are ________" go a long way to show that you're just being honest.

One thing for you to consider. You said the appointment was in Florida. Is it possible her skin is that way due to being in the sun? I know a few people from Florida both in my personal life as well as here in the hobby who, if I didn't know better, I would guess we're 15-20 years older than they are due to the "weather beaten" look of their skin. Just throwing that out there as a possibility for the differences you described.

The above doesn't excuse the differences as you described them but it may help explain it.

Certainly age and beauty are in the eyes of the beholder.  We get older, change weights, play with make up and hair styles that may all be different than the pics.  Your experience sounds dramatically off compared to what your expectations were...

Honesty in reviews goes both ways for us too...we get bogus ones from people we never met or odd ones like the last one I got that had circumstances that never happened.  In general, read several reviews like you sound like you did AND go with the trend rather than one particular one.  I personally feel you were classy staying and having your date.  If the lady had good enough reviews for you to initiate a date, why not see where it goes?  I probably would have asked her about your questions and doubt in a subtle or direct but respectful way rather than leaving unsure and heading to the board for advicie

Thank you MILFCARESSA!!  It really was dramatically way off.  I totally understand some use photo enhancements, weights change slightly etc... and all of that is to be expected.  However with this one, it was night and day differences.  I can only imagine what you all have to go thru when you read bogus reviews.  Thanks for the insight

Great feedback!!  I am definitely going to be considerate but truthful.  I will say all of her pics showed a deep tan so you might be onto something with the sun comments. Not to sound distasteful, but her skin was really really wrinkled like an elderly persons would be.  Probably a combination of both.

Make sure the reviews are consistent BUT from the past year or so !
if your 40 you shouldn't age 20yrs in a years time !

although every good provider cant possible always be a 9 or a 10 to every reviewer
but I would def go with some continuity and maybe...
 even pm, the last few reviews and get a more indepth prospective and opinion !

If you prefer mature providers, I am 39
but I have the body of a 25 yr old and its in my reviews
and im told in my personal life as well..
Best of both worlds I guess, you get the maturity and experience of a mature women, but the fell and look of someone more youthful :}

Imvisiting Dec7-10
link to my site below..lots of very recent pics too

An honest review is due here....misrepresentation isn't cool on either side of the hobby!

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