It's a bummer to check this board and see the same postings for days without any new ones. I think we are missing out on some fun discussion topics and banter. In addition, a chatty board helps us get to know each other just a smidge (hobbyists and providers). We are a large community in the peak season of the calendar year--there's lots going on all over the state.
So...I wonder if folks have any thoughts regarding the following: Hobbyists are attracted to providers who are beautiful, sexy, and excel at sex/intimacy. Some providers are as good at what they do as Lebron James is at playing basketball. In the best circumstances, the hobbyist is able to totally lose himself in the experience--there is no past or present--merely the Now. Frankly, we are able to experience sexual gratification on a level that may not exist in so-called civilian relationships. Indeed, this may create other issues for hobbyists in there civilian relationships, but that's a topic for another time. I'm curious if the ladies can relate to this on any level. Do the ladies find hobbyists to be as eager and/or more giving lovers than civilian ones? Are hobbyists good at sex? How do hobbyists compare sexually to dating/relationship/marriage partners providers had or have? I think hobbyists are better at sex/intimacy with providers than they are in their personal life. How do the ladies see it? FishsterAnd I am the same way. I check this board every day. Im horrible at starting topics, but will jump in if its something I can contribute to. And theres not a lot of action here...will try my best to get more involved though 
So yeah, as for your question..you forgot something...companionship! Many, many guys do try to seek out someone who they can relate to, hold a conversation with and make them laugh and are attracted to a provider for her ability to captivate him. Being able to actually connect on some level can heighten the entire experience of the time spent together...without a doubt.
As far as the comparisons go...its almost not fair! lol Because...the lady and gent are able to enjoy all the fun parts of spending time with someone, without any of the stress and obligations of everyday life that come with an SO. We dont see each other day in and day out...the things we share and talk about actually are interesting because its new to us and we want to hear each other out and focused only on each other because that time is ours and ours alone.
We get to perpetually experience the thrill of the honeymoon phase of dating and all the passion and excitement that comes with it.
Really good points, Nicole. Thanks for responding. Short bursts of passion (so to speak) probably bring out the best for both--there are no bills, car repairs, and day/day errands, hassles, headaches, etc. I guess that has a great deal to do with the appeal for hobbyists, and a fun part for the provider.
As a whole I have found my friends to be very giving and sensual. They do try to please me sexually but the intimacy goes far beyond any one sexual act. I'm a lady who loves to kiss and snuggle and find most men enjoy the same heated foreplay. I wonder if lack of such affection doesn't bring them to my front door.
In years past this board had lots of traffic and regular posters. It has changed in that regard but not sure exactly why. Perhaps laziness, disinterest in the local banter or those regular posters have moved on. I see other boards that seem to be very active while doing my TER exploring daily. I to miss the old banter here but seems hard to get others to join in.
Kisses Haley
I'm glad you responded, Haley. It does seem like other boards are more lively/engaging--that's why I wanted to try and engage a bit. Well, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Have a lovely weekend. Maybe I'll meet you at the May MnG.
go downhill once the ad boards were created and there was a further decrease when the mods were removed.
Back when we had mods, most mods were good at encouraging banter without people stepping across the line. Without mods, it is only us, meaning hobbyists and providers. As we all know, our motives for being here are different.
Haley and Nicole made some valid points. As a hobbyist, there is a big difference between the providers who go beyond the normal to show hobbyists a good time and those who only seem to go through the motions. I am constantly looking for a mega GFE without breaking the bank. We are fortunate in Florida to have many wonderful independent ladies who provide such great service.
Most times in the past 3 or 4 years when I have tried a new provider, my experiences have been less than stellar. I have repeated for subsequent visits with the ladies with who I have connected, had chemistry with, etc. I currently have several ladies who I see for repeat visits.
I will also continue to see a new lady from time to time in the hopes of discovering another great lady.
Hey Key...
I just checked some of your reviews and ladies you have visited. Incredible. You seem to have devoted your sessions to some of the hottest and sexiest women in Florida, if not the country and world. You clearly are doing something right!
Try to make the best of the situations, stay safe and be ready for tomorrow.
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Pescadito, great spin on a very old topic ... I forgot what they call it...something from the show in space...Trek.
The hobbyists are much more passionate...they make civie guys look and seem boring.
The Boys of the Hobby bring romance, passion, the highs and lows that keep lovers on their feet.
The boys play better without the filter that they wear in civie life.
I think we all are very blessed to play here.