So with my upcoming trip to Charlotte in a couple of weeks, I have had a lot of great ladies respond to me via email about there availability. Now I must admit that when I got into this, I would just choose a BP lady and roll with it, but I am trying to up my standards lol.
But now I wonder, and even replied to a few of these fine ladies, that they are so far out of my league I just don't think I can meet them.
Has that ever happened to you? or as a provider, how would you take a message like that.
I really don't intend to offend anyone, but I am just a simple country boy who really never would see a woman like some of the ladies on here in real life cause they just don't walk around in my town. So with me going to the big city I guess I am going to have to adjust. And step my shit up.
Have a great weekend everyone.
The first time it happened to me it was around 11 years ago (guesstimating). I go to open my front door to greet a first time visitor and I was really taken aback. My first thought was..."This dude could model for Calvin Klein. Why is he here?" Then it get worse...He was kind, a gentleman, educated, and totally humble which made him even more attractive....which made me feel even more self conscience!
So I do feel you bestevahad
But times have changed for me....Now I get these young, intelligent, fit to the point of "cut", hot military guys! But instead of feeling self conscience, I eat it up! Every bite! We are all here to have fun, so I just dive in and do just that 
Have fun best! Life is short!
I know what you mean. and thanks for the incite... being a former prior guy I know what you mean about them eating it up...
I just feel like what if they are expecting a good time and I am the one who comes up short... I know what it is like when a provider did not deliver as expected so I don't want to be that guy... and its not like I am talking about problems down there... never an issue.
Maybe hey are use to high end clients themselves and now they get this southern boy who only wears a suit to funerals. Haha so then they are like what the heck did I schedule to meet.
let me also apologize to the ladies that have read and replied to the message before some jerk wanted to change the tone of the conversation.
Thank you for your thoughts and replies. Your advice is always welcome. While we cant stop some peoples comments, I will not give them a second thought past this moment. Ignoring them seems to work better. I am not about to get into a back an forth.
No one "changed the tone of the conversation". Your disgusting reviews all speak for themselves. I'm grateful that someone did the right thing and brought attention to dangerous activities happening in the community.
Nothing offends me more than a liar. Except maybe someone who goes out of their way to get attention for being - "aw, shucks! Just a good ol' country boy!", and then thinks they have the right to be indignant when someone actually calls them out for experiences they have literally written that easily describe themselves as: unsafe, a boundary crosser, a double booker, someone who has no respect for our screening procedures (see the review in which you complain that all of the "model-types" actually want verification info from you to make sure you're safe.. the nerve of them!), a scumbag, an entitled asshole who thinks it's ok to play too rough when he's disappointed in the experience. It's just so f*cking icky for you to try to come across as all humble and oh gee whiz, I hope I can give the girl a good time! (you mean the "model-type" that actually screens you? Huh, what a change in tone), when your reviews reveal your hypercritical and definitely way too high expectations for the many QV -30 minute sessions you book.
So ya know, I actually will give the "jerk's" comments a second, third, and fourth thought. I know you absolutely don't respect providers enough to understand this, but first and foremost in this community is the safety of ALL members: Providers of all price ranges, offering all lengths of appointments, even the providers that don't live up to your expectations that you then think it's ok to just "pound it out real hard to get your money's worth" (ya, another gem from one of your reviews); and your fellow hobbyists, whose advise about safety and respect for providers is invaluable to you and obviously something of which you're in great need.
Your apologies are absolutely necessary, but only on your own behalf.
but if every guy who came to see me was the same, I'd get bored really quick. I like country boys. I like city boys. I like visitors from other countries.
Having variety is all part of the fun...and it should be for you too
FYI...I repeatedly seduced a real deal country boy (cowboy boot and hat...the whole nine yards) for a little over a year. Ya'll are fun! 
I just feel like what if they are expecting a good time and I am the one who comes up short... I know what it is like when a provider did not deliver as expected so I don't want to be that guy... and its not like I am talking about problems down there... never an issue.
Maybe hey are use to high end clients themselves and now they get this southern boy who only wears a suit to funerals. Haha so then they are like what the heck did I schedule to meet.
Thanks. I agree.
Having variety is all part of the fun...and it should be for you too
FYI...I repeatedly seduced a real deal country boy (cowboy boot and hat...the whole nine yards) for a little over a year. Ya'll are fun!
I just feel like what if they are expecting a good time and I am the one who comes up short... I know what it is like when a provider did not deliver as expected so I don't want to be that guy... and its not like I am talking about problems down there... never an issue.
Maybe hey are use to high end clients themselves and now they get this southern boy who only wears a suit to funerals. Haha so then they are like what the heck did I schedule to meet.
Sweetie,
I don't think there is such think as out of my league, after all what we provide is a dream that becomes reality.... Country boys can be very fun and discerning.... as long as you can afford a lady the rest shouldn't worry you. Don't need to wear a suit but of course be well groomed and pay attention to hygiene, treat a lady with respect and that is all that really matters.
I think you are too hard on yourself!
xo
And according to your review of Amy only four months ago, you did the ultimate in unsafe practices out there IMO. And you've seen a lady from Florida who has high scores on appearance and performance for an extended date of 6 hours including dinner in Charlotte (which you've met ladies there on several occasions), and you wrote like you were extremely happy about it. So I'm not sure why you are all "I'm just a simple guy who's not used to the quality in ladies in Charlotte".
You really need to get yourself checked out with a full panel after seeing Amy, as her second, and last review said it was clear that bbfs was on the table but he had the good sense to wear a cover. At $160 an hour and providing uncovered anal without hesitation I hope she hasn't removed her website for all the wrong reasons.
Just saying!
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Just because I have seen some ladies from other areas does not mean that I have seen the high quality of ladies that I am trying to set my self up for moving forward. Yes I have seen some ladies that were different that the run of the mill around this area but that's not the norm.
That one provider from Florida, she was one that I could call a once in a life time meet. Very rare to set up a meeting like that with someone of her caliber. But she was also more of a PSE provider that suggested a longer engagement due to her visit.
And since you want to go attacking someone, Amy is still in the business. She and I have seen each other multiple times since including an overnight.
An not that its any of your dang business but I happen to get tested on a somewhat regular anyway. Always have been clear and will remain that way.
Just because I have visited the Charlotte area, usually for a day or single night, not a long engagement like what is coming up, that does not mean I can be a simple country boy.
You do not know me or the life that I lead when I am home. IT is people like you that are driving people away from these type of boards. You hide behind a username that doesn't have any reviews attached to it but want to critique everyone else based on there reviews.
Get a life and let people live. We don't need the PR police on a board for adult fun.
Just saying!!!
And now you've admitted going back for more. So you've probably seen her more recently that four months ago. I'm not sure about you living to a ripe old age with what you are doing and ladies need to know. Problem is a lot of ladies might not read that far since she's 7 reviews down.
And this is a review site so that means YOUR reviews that you had bbfs anally can be brought up. So don't get all butt hurt-no pun intended that I brought up yours. You mentioned in a review that some girl was nasty and you thought about getting a full panel done after seeingher. I'm not sure if that's the review where you stopped at a gas station bathroom and washed your dick off in the sink or if tat was another review.
Hey, some guys may PM you to get Ms bbfs's info but ladies here shouldbe aware of your unsafe behavior before deciding to book with you.
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Your a really great person. The world needs more people like you. I don't know how I ever made it this far in life without ever reading your words. I hope all these ladies here will be able to sleep better knowing that such a great guy like yourself is around to call out ever persons reviews.
And this is a review site so that means YOUR reviews that you had bbfs anally can be brought up. So don't get all butt hurt-no pun intended that I brought up yours. You mentioned in a review that some girl was nasty and you thought about getting a full panel done after seeingher. I'm not sure if that's the review where you stopped at a gas station bathroom and washed your dick off in the sink or if tat was another review.
Hey, some guys may PM you to get Ms bbfs's info but ladies here shouldbe aware of your unsafe behavior before deciding to book with you.
Stop digging.
As you can see he didn't stop digging. Don't you love it wen e said he didn't know he was banging her ass bareback, and his review say he slide in in her ass with no condom. It's clearly in his review that he knew he was in her ass bareback!
I think the back peddling post was one of the weakest untruthful ones I've ever seen! It's the one with the angry face on it!
So hopefully this will be last time I will address this issue.
I have always prided myself on giving the ladies honest reviews. Telling the truth. If it was good it was good and if it was bad it was bad.
I am sure we have all had experiences where things didn't go as planned or like we would have wanted.
To clean up some misconceptions from someone else's post to me. Yes I have seen the lady in questions multiple times since the first encounter. Each time was covered. the end. As I stated in the review originally, the service was so non service like I didn't even realized that it was uncovered until after it was done. I never go in looking for BBFS.
I do know that not everyone reads all the reviews. But that doesn't mean that I should not tell the whole truth about how the experience went. If some of my reviews stop some ladies from seeing me then it was not meant to be between us anyway.
The truth is anyone who is partaking in this business has probably had some close calls or things happen that they didn't want too. The true test is how you deal with it and how you move forward in a better and safer direction.
Now that I have all that off my chest I think I can say without a doubt that whoever I decide to meet while in Charlotte, we will have a great, safe, and pleasurable time. And I will surely write a accurate, whole truth review about it.
You are being judged by a bunch of hookers and johns. People who do acts that the majority of people out of the hobby are horrified by. We are seen by many as low life scum. Yet here we are passing judgement.
And before anyone brings up disease....you can get herpes, aids, and venereal warts even if you are wearing a condom. I'm not saying throw all caution to the wind and stop wrapping up, but nothing is full proof except abstinence.
Whatever happened between two consenting adults behind closed doors is up to them.
BTW....If anyone tries to slip the condom off when they come to visit me, I pity their ass
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in the last 4 months and he posted that he saw her more than once. Ladies have the right to know and be familiarized with that review. If they choose to see him after knowing his past and maybe present blatantly risky behavior then so be it.
I'm not knocking anal sex or judging someone for partaking in it. Anal sex without a condom, particularly with a person doing it with a provider with multiple partners, and I'm betting by her 2nd review she offers it with anyone is dangerous behavior. In a community where sex with multiple partners is a way of life this is beyond risky behavior. Of sure, you can say such and such is risky too, but PLUEESE there's a reason you made sure to say you don't offer it and you pity anyone who tried it with you. It doesn't get any riskier than rough (pounding her at an angle to get more friction) raw, anal sex with a virtual stranger and both of you have multiple sexual partners. I've never judged you Marie. Not 3-4 years ago, not now.
This dude is a risky person to have sex with even if a lady plays safe(er) with him IMO. Others may disagree and still see him.
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sans a condom you absolutely knew what you were doing because, your words: I pounded her ass and she took it like a champ...you knew there was no condom on you, PLUEESE! And then you made the decision to not pull out and you came inside her ass a left you dick in her for a few minutes. You changed your angle up to get more friction, it's all in there. BTW all that friction leads to tearing of anal tissues and some internal bleeding most likely occurs.
This post is your attempt to try and make it like you didn't want is ridiculous and I doubt anyone is buying into to your whole I didn't want to partake. It's BS No where in your review do you seem upset about it. On the contrary, you saw her again. Anyone who was upset or didn't want it would NEVER return to see her again period. So seeing her again which you said you have, is NOT moving in a safer direction dude. So no honesty and truth going on in your post. Nada. Just a weak attempt at back peddling.
Highly doubtful any lady seeing this thread will want a review from you. Maybe someone unlucky enough to NOT see this thread or take a LONG look at your review of Amy.
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I hadn't gotten around to reading your reviews yet, but thanks to this thread I'm saved the trouble. Dude seriously? That is so disgusting.
and canceling on one.
I can not even stomach to read any other review, Amy's was too much for me.
you've clearly found out that country boys aren't the problem - it's how you behave (and share it out there) that is the problem.
Yep, you just confirmed for many Carolina gals that you are Out Of Your League. smh
and this thread may be several pages back when they are here. Then they go back to their home base. You get the picture and it ain't a pretty one. And it's nice to get a man's opinion on this as well. Thanks for your take on this.
And full of BS.
You either do not understand or do not care. I wear protection and get tested to protect not only my self but my family, the ladies I see and ultimately you. It is a shared responsibility. Yes RESPONSIBILITY.
You endanger me by trying to see ladies that I will see later. I hope your next year of testing is neg.
... about his BBFS action in his reviews he ended up changing his name. Actually he has changed it twice since I sent that PM to him. It's funny reading his reviews now how he so self-righteously writes about how he could go in bare but would never do so because it isn't safe. I can only imagine that he's continuing to raw dog these Providers.
....he went on a six hour date with a pornstar who charges $450 an hour. Out of his league? He isn't quite the country bumpkin he is trying to portray himself as.
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1480072
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