I don't have anything too insightful. Once I had a (pro) domme ask me for a list of limits, and I ran through some basics (no BS, animals, children, blood ...). After we got started she said she was calling her boyfriend to join us. I respectfully indicated that homosexuality would be a limit, and she got very angry with me. If she had handled it a little better, it might have been fun, but she really killed the session
Any no no's you wish to share?
I am not into bs, rs, male bi situation, blood...
I will not do anything that has to do with piss other than watching or being watched, same with shit. Watching a lady piss turns me on being pissed on or issing on her does not.
I will no play the bottom for anyone but my wife as the trust is not there.
I will not be bound and have sensory deprivation at the same time. When bound I need my senses all of them to keep me grounded to avoid flashbacks. I had one once and it scared the shit out of me even though it turned into a positive because of the caring and watchful eyes of my wife.
I will not do or have done anything involving anal penetration. On the anal thing I do get prostate massages now for health reasons. I do not find them enjoyable be they do help things work, but they would be too much if mixed into even light BDSM.
I will not participate in anything truly risky (knife play, anything with blood, if not with wife BBFS), demeaning (verbal abuse, scat play, piss play) or will leave permanent marks (cutting, branding). This is supposed to be good safe fun after all. Bunus thing, I will not ever do the life style thing, ever I an not a true dominant or a true submissive though I enjoy both roles from time to time.
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scat, children, animals, non consentual anything, heavy pain all come to mind
Although heavy pain in the right situations can be a turn on. I do not like to be marked due to the GFE part of me (can be a turn-off for some guys). I used to like caning starting from light to heavy and would often carry the marks for several days!
but I had the worst nightmare of my life that night.
The gal who bound me up told me she thinks the two are related, so I don't do being bound now.
I don't like to inflict pain per se, but I will rough up a gal if she asks me to. I have one such gal that I see and she likes me to slap her and pull her hair. She gets orgasms that way. I was pretty reticent to start with that a few years ago when she requested it, but now find is mildly exciting, to my limited consternation.
I don't have anything too insightful. Once I had a (pro) domme ask me for a list of limits, and I ran through some basics (no BS, animals, children, blood ...). After we got started she said she was calling her boyfriend to join us. I respectfully indicated that homosexuality would be a limit, and she got very angry with me. If she had handled it a little better, it might have been fun, but she really killed the session
I also wont let a new dom to choke me, or slap me, do extreme pain...
for me, the trust has to be established, so with all new doms i start slow and see how we feel
oh and no marks or blood from anyone at all (except my personal owner)
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