Bondassage is trademarked or something. I know this (or, they could have been lying) when a very, very fucking irate bondassage practitioner contacted me & said "You can get in a lot of trouble for this" or something along those lines. (Trouble? How? I still don't know. Sued maybe?)
Anyhoo, you do get certified, there is a website for that, but since I'm Thai & Swedish trained, I just advertise "Bondage Massage" now. (Just on my regular menu, but I've seen ladies take out separate ads just for bondassage)
If you do not have any formal healthcare training or massage training, though, I would suggest taking some classes because massage in the wrong hands (or bdsm for that matter) can be dangerous and cause damage.
It might be a great investment for you, as I've found newbies find this method easier to explore their fantasies in.
been curious about this technique and wondering if anyone in here can give me a little bit more of info.
Gentlemen: what do you like and enjoy about these type of sessions.
Ladies:are you certified, can you advertise in your website? how you promote it?
etc.
You can PM too...
Bondassage is trademarked or something. I know this (or, they could have been lying) when a very, very fucking irate bondassage practitioner contacted me & said "You can get in a lot of trouble for this" or something along those lines. (Trouble? How? I still don't know. Sued maybe?)
Anyhoo, you do get certified, there is a website for that, but since I'm Thai & Swedish trained, I just advertise "Bondage Massage" now. (Just on my regular menu, but I've seen ladies take out separate ads just for bondassage)
If you do not have any formal healthcare training or massage training, though, I would suggest taking some classes because massage in the wrong hands (or bdsm for that matter) can be dangerous and cause damage.
It might be a great investment for you, as I've found newbies find this method easier to explore their fantasies in.
Good morning!!!! Many, many newbies dip their toes in this way, and it is good to learn. And many of them are basically kids! And just like kids get hurt, people who don't know wtf they are doing w/bdsm or massage can hurt others. Yay!!!! BDSM heirarchy- glad you exist, lol... apparently bonassage is marginalized. Well, whatever sells, and whatever helps people explore their kinks safely so that they don't strangle cats from frustration.
Have a great day!
That's like saying massage is SM for kids!
They're each techniques that serve different purposes.
As a provider of bond-massage (same thing), and a dominatrix, I can assure you that for many it is a doorway to bdsm. It is not the end, but the beginning of a journey. It simply offers a way to put their feet in the water and see if they want more. Some go back to what you may consider vanilla, some take it to the next level and get flogged and pegged the next time. I can assure you when anyone tries something new, whether its just adding a blind fold or being smothered/queened for an hour, the experience can be exhilarating for that person and the anticipation up until the appointment very exciting. To each his own on what is child's play.
Well put, misslady.
Bondassage, or bondage/massage, combines bondage and tactile stimulation, which is usually on the softer side, as well as mental aspects like Tease & Denial, power exchange, etc. along with erotic massage.
The tactile stimulation usually involves things like feathers, fur floggers, whartenberg wheels, textures that titillate, also going into the area of violet wands, wax, ice, etc.
Many BDSM'ers refer to this as Sensual Domination, although that's not necessarily true.
The word "sensual" means different things to different people. A masochist could describe the sting of a whip as sensual, and still be correct. But that's not my idea of sensual.
Yes I agree. The technique already existed in BDSM circles, it was just trademarked.
Just to be clear ~ I trademarked the term Bondassage®, but, more importantly, I copyrighted the sequence. Yes, tie and tease has existed forever. What is different about Bondassage is that it's a specific sequence of techniques and massage (which certified practitioners are free to customize).
Bondassage has been an amazing journey. Before getting trained, I did Sensual Domination. I found these sessions to be intense because of all the decisions I had to make. Bondassage has a sequence to follow. This is little to no talking. The receiver has wireless headphones that are playing music with no lyrics, or lyrics in a foreign language.
Because there was time for me to tune in, I found that I started receiving non-verbal communication. I could feel it thru my hands. I used this to guide me along. Sometimes the feedback I got was: "just when I was hoping you would touch me a certain way, you did." This was a dynamite feeling for both.
If you go to bondassage.com, you can find a list of trainers. Get in touch with the trainer nearest you if you are interested. I highly recommend getting trained. It doesn't matter whether you tour or stay in one place. It will be well worth it. PM me if you have any questions. I am not a trainer, but I am happy to share my experiences.
Becoming a certified Bondassage practioner with Jaeleen almost four years ago (#82 out of over 200 world-wide now!) was the one of the best things I have done for myself, and others. I was already doing a tie and tease, which I still offer, but learning the sequence and, more importantly, psychological implications and techniques, upped my game tremenduously. And it's a brand. We are all connected by Mama Bear (Jaeleen!) and share resources, ideas, as well as clients.
Who are these clients? Everyone from the 'vanilla curious', who have no prior bondage or BDSM experience, to the BDSM veteran who is looking for a softer session, a more sensual experience than he might find in a dungeon. There is no specific age group- I see a lot of young guys in their twenties (thank you porn!), and have many regulars in their 60s plus who absolutely love the experience because there is no performance anxiety.
What I get from offering Bondassage, besides a very nice lifestyle, is a sense of empowerment from offering the busy, stressed guy a safe place to lay it down and let me pamper him. I take my sessions very seriously, tune in completely and focus on releasing the stress from his body and refilling him with positive energy. I can actually see the vibration raise!
While escorting drained me, I come away from my Bondassage sessions almost as s revitalized as my client.
If this is something which interests you, I would strongly suggest becoming part of the certified family.
Why would one want to offer a bastardized version of the superior real thing?
Ms. Clair Jordan
Lol. I completed massage school in 2005 and I wouldn't say another style of bondage massage is "bastardized" when it was already a part of the scene. It's specialized in that it provides (typically) inexperienced practitioners with a sequence to follow and that is what makes it great for a novice to begin a practice.
Bondassage is fun at a simple BDSM level. It's light and amazing to experience.
Bastardized? Superior? Real thing? Thats all subjective...
I've seen ads for real Bondassage sessions in my area (Baltimore/DC) but they seem very expensive, generally more than GFE or regular domination sessions. I'd like to try it someday if I come across a reasonably priced session.
I will be in DC this week and offer Bondassage as well as derivatives of. Bondassage requires a 90 minute minimum; the tie and tease can be done in 60 mins. I'm easy enough to research, and you def want to take advantage of my pre-booking discount.
Bondassage was trademarked by Mistress Jaeleen Bennis out in Santa Cruz. I wrote a review of my experience and have linked it here. I admit, I get more than a little carried away, but every detail is true.