I have occasionally offered some friendly advice to a newbie when I see her doing something stupid. (Like the time after a session that the girl pulled her wad of cash for the day out of her bureau and started counting it while I was getting dressed!) Sometimes the advice is taken in the spirit it was given, and sometimes the girl obviously takes offense. Now I am very judicious with my advice, and only give it if I feel the girl would be open to it.
Gentlemen, When you go to see a newbie and she turns out to be "the encounter" of your dreams, but as normal being her first days as a provider you see lots of things that could get her in trouble.
Now do you point them out?Knowing that its only a matter of time before some "bad dude" takes advantage or worse that she becomes LE statistic.
Or remain silent (its none of my business?)
Or take the attitude, I paying so ?
Or is there other options I'm not seeing?
Please, be MAN enough to put your real name on this thread.
IMHO, not a day goes by that you won't see stupidity on the part of both providers and clients. For example, what jury do you think would ever believe that a girl is not engaged in some kind of illegal activity when she publishes a website that list 50 sexual acts that she has on her menu? What guy is going to survive an inquiry from a significant other, LE, etc when he asks who is available, or who will do this, who squirts, who takes it in the ass, etc....
I think this site leads to complacency and a total disgregard for the obvious. Not a day goes by that someone doesn't post something that self incriminates. Folks don't even seem to realize that its a public website and as such, anyone can read what is posted here. So yes, there is dumbness all around.
Ditto for many of the new girls who come along. They all seem to be jail house lawyers.... Oh, my ad says no LE allowed therefore if a cop shows up I'm protected because he didn't abide by my "rules"... LOL .... And of course, oh, he let me touch him so if he tries to arrest me that's entrapment.. LOL ... And of course, let's not ignore the obvious rat trap hotels that many choose to use which are infested with just about every illegal activity known to man, and who amongst us thinks for one minute that LE doesn't know that and doesn't keep a watchful eye on places like that.
There is an old saying, "you can lead a horse to water"..... most folks are not open to the concept of receiving advice for their own good. They view such things as being none of your business, and most times, they think they already know it all and you're just some dumbass trying to manipulate them for reasons unknown.
I just tell her without hesitaion. Once, i pissed off the Lady but another girl explained to her that i was helping. Then, everything was ok. In fact, wonderful.
I think most ladies appreciate a gentle "heads-up" if, AND ONLY IF, you are doing so out of true concern and not as an ulterior motive, which seems to be the MO that has been ascribed to you repeatedly on these boards. I'm not making an accusation myself, just pointing out what I've observed and read.
I've pointed out such things to a new provider as "you shouldn't leave your unopened drink in the room with a client if you leave the room - same with your cell phone or purse" when I notice such lapses in good judgement. However, I've stopped offering most other advice unless asked. My experience is that most Providers think they know it all when offered any "helpful" advice, so I've decided to keep my observations and/or suggestions to myself (unless asked) and then suppress the "I told you so" when the obvious happens.
They call that The White Knight Syndrome.
My advice MYOB.
That's only my .02
SP
I have occasionally offered some friendly advice to a newbie when I see her doing something stupid. (Like the time after a session that the girl pulled her wad of cash for the day out of her bureau and started counting it while I was getting dressed!) Sometimes the advice is taken in the spirit it was given, and sometimes the girl obviously takes offense. Now I am very judicious with my advice, and only give it if I feel the girl would be open to it.